Guys, What does it mean if a guy says yeah for sure?

[Anonymous]

ok so I know that the phrase ‘yeah for sure’ might seem like I’m overthinking and I probably am but I really want to know what men actually mean when they say ‘yeah for sure’

i asked a guy to come over who I have been casually seeing. He couldn’t come over and I said hopefully another night and his response was ‘yeah for sure’

is he just saying that or does he mean like yeah definitely will come over another night?

[CoolGuyJoe]

I can see where you're coming from, especially if that was all he said.

I think it could go both ways, but I'm not you and don't have a feel for the whole situation. I think you should just let it out of your mind and go on with things surface-level. Not worth overthinking if you're casually seeing him.

Here's my personal 2 cents: It sounds like you both might have a different idea of what casual means. He might see you differently than how you see yourself. I feel like if you were on the same page as him you wouldn't feel the need to ask this question, you know?

[Asker]

There was more to the conversation but the end of the conversation was me asking if we can hang out another night and he said yeah for sure?

What do you think his casual means? Yeah I completely get where you are coming from

[CoolGuyJoe]

I saw in your other comment that he told you he has anxiety. Knowing some good-hearted people with anxiety I would say he likes you but doesn't want things to go too far until he's more comfortable with you, even with sexual talk. There could be an assload of possibilities.

It can get pretty weird with anxiety. I'd say if anything there might be something going on in his life that he's trying to get a grip on. Bottom line: Don't overthink things. Focus on enjoying the moment and naturally finding out for sure about anything that's on your mind. Any assumption made here could easily be wrong.

[Asker]

That is some really good advice, thankyou it has made my wondering go away and made me feel less stress cause I do like the guy and hope that maybe this leads to something :) thankyou

[AndyDragon]

It all depends on context. same sentence or word can be used positively or negatively.
If for instance you ask him a small favor like can you hold my coat. answer yeah for sure would be followed by action.
If you cheated on a guy and hurt his little heart, and after say that you will change and never do it again. words yeah for sure. imply that he has lost faith in you. Hope it helps

[AndyDragon]

In your case it could simply mean that he is trying to free his time and getting ready. He may be preparing himself or delaying it before being ready. Coming over means a lot to a guy. He might be insecure about something. Many things can happen. Time will tell. Patience leads to better outcome. ^^

[Asker]

Yeah he has expressed to me that he has bad anxiety so I know he can get nervous I mean as do I. Things have lead to more sexual things so that’s why I’m confused but also it’s not just about sex we do have deep conversations that’s why I’m confused a guess

[AndyDragon]

Just wait patiently. And don't overburden him.

[Asker]

Okay I haven’t been but I will be extra mindful to not :) thankyou

[Danny_dan92]

Ehh it’s tricky. In my experience usually when a person says “yeah for sure” it’s super sugar coated way of saying


No thanks.


I myself have used this card as well

[Being_a_good_Indian]

I think he meant yeah definitely will come over another night.

[Iron_Man]

It means They will definitely be there