it hurts bc that means he’s all gone. he can’t contact me again and it’s over
any tips?
I'm in the same situation. Haven't got through it, so my advice is just the one of someone attempting to do the same, but not a proven solution to the problem. I think the only way to heal will be with time, and even then, it's likely that this will always be there, present, just not as hurtful as it is now. My mother went through some really bad heartbreak with my father, and I can tell she never really got over it. If reminded about it by any chance, she'll go at it again, with renewed anger, and my guess is that's what happens when you have such deep scars from loving and not being loved in the same way
Update on the situation: I made the mistake of giving her the time of day so that she explained herself and maybe made me feel better (I had no intentions of getting back with her, but I just wanted things to maybe end better by talking more about something that hadn't really been talked about much), and it was a mistake. She kept lying about everything and made me feel worse.
What's your question here? Any tips on blocking him? You already did that
Best decision ever! First few weeks will be tough you will think and re-think is that was the best decision you've made, then you'll get used to it and after two months you won't even think about it anymore.
That's good. Try meeting new people or do new things. It 's tough but you can get over it.
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Good job it will be tough and you will think about him. Just remember not to go back. Keep him blocked and you soon will move on.
Congrats on doing the right thing. You will start feeling better real soon, so stay positive.
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