Why does a guy try to get my attention by misbehaving a lot or even do/say dumb things that make me look at him and listen to him in class?

[unknowncutie]

He moans in class. He talks to his friend who is his seatmate really loud. He doesn't listen to the teacher even if he's the one who asked the question. I notice that he does it when I don't give him attention or when I ignore him. He forgets things. He destroy his own stuff. He bumps me into me. I feel like he learned my routine and my habits so that he'll figure a way where I can give him attention. And why does he want my attention desperately? He asks me favors by texting me and even misspelled my name. He misspelled my name again even it I informed him already. We've been classmates for like a year and he's my crush. I feel like he does all of this on purpose. He was already like this last year, but he changed and he gives me more attention now. I also have a lot of guy friends and I do hang out with them. Maybe that's the reason?

[anon1903]

That's immature as hell. You sure he's completed his gang age? Lol

[unknowncutie]

Yes, I am one year older than him. He's 14

[anon1903]

Same age as my brother. Yes they do that. We'd this festive dinner tonight and he'd this whole bag of pregnancy jokes for it.

Ugh.

[unknowncutie]

Oh alright. So what do they do? ( you replied with " they do that" )

[anon1903]

They here meant all boys that are fourteen. Impulsive yt game channel, following cool "older" guys, being embarrassed of their older sistas, having crushes but never acting on it, sleeping late waking early, using slang language and obscenities to show dominance, having undercooked concepts like "why can't all be girls Instagram cuties?"

[unknowncutie]

Yeah that's trueee.

[anon1903]

Main reason why women go for older men. They don't have to put up with... These.

[unknowncutie]

I rather stay single and live my teenage years before adulthood.

[Smilingqueen2]

He may be so desperate to be with you

[unknowncutie]

Could be a possibility. Why would he be desperate to be with me?

[Smilingqueen2]

Because u are not giving him the attention he seeks

[unknowncutie]

I wish I could like that comment of yours. I agree. Again another possibility.

[Avicenna]

He’s immature anschienst know how to approach you.

[unknowncutie]

What's anschienst?

[Avicenna]

Should have been „ and doesn’t“. My autocorrect is also in German.

[unknowncutie]

That's what I also thought haha. Yes, I can speak german. Just wanted to be sure.

[Iron_Man]

Just some silly simpleminded dude

[unknowncutie]

How is he simple minded?

[Iron_Man]

Does dumb things like He forgets things. He destroy his own stuff.

[unknowncutie]

He just once broke a pen not always and anyone can forget. That doesn't make him simple minded though 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Iron_Man]

It’s funny how your trash the guy but now you’re defending him like he is your brother you don’t make sense

[Iron_Man]

Trashing

[unknowncutie]

No, I just don't how to reedit. I made a mistake. People misunderstand me because I wrote " he destroy his own stuff " as if he is doing it regularly when it just happened once. Haha

[Iron_Man]

You are funny

[unknowncutie]

Thanks for the compliment :D

[Iron_Man]

You are welcome

[In_Trance]

Is he on the spectrum?

[unknowncutie]

No, he isn't.