Why do attractive men have the worst personalities?

[Anonymous]

All of the good looking guys I’ve encountered have been assholes, cheaters, manipulators, or they want you to chase them instead of the other way around like you owe them something.

[lightbulb27]

Its how they were raised... not all are. Sime hold high stds. Maybe question is why you aren't finding others or drawn to what you dislike?

Humam nature is like a garden in this world... plamt seed and dont tent it... becomes a nest of weeds and thorns. A very poorly disciplined generation... its on the parents. It may be intentional corruption to mamage population ir some natural outcropping of wealth and change in social constructs.. marriage laws.
Removal of church from society.. loss of fathers from war
.. etc.
How u gonna fix it?

[MrOracle]

Because so many women want them, and won't settle for anything less, that they know they can be complete assholes and there will still be an endless supply of women for them.

Of all the really good-looking guys I've known over 50 years, only 3 or 4 were genuinely good guys - the other hundred-plus were assholes who ran through girls like water, cheated as a matter of routine, and had near zero respect for most women - and still women were constantly throwing themselves at them. Many knew they were just going to be used for sex and discarded, and still pursued the guy.

Women are their own worst enemy in that regard - they completely enable that bad behavior by accepting it if the guy is handsome.

[Anonymous]

Because they’re attractive, girls show interest, some girls even throw themselves at them, girls and sex comes knocking on their door, if they have lots of options they’re not going to settle, they’re going to play the field, and not care what anyone thinks.


This is the problem, most girls have high standards and most guys don’t meet that standard, so most girls go after the very limited (that do meet that standard) guys, (80/20 rule) therefore no guy that has options is going to settle, and because his life is girls he has no hobbies and comes across uninteresting,

[Asker]

That’s why I don’t go for attractive men even when they show interest because once I show the slightest bit of interest. They go ghost and I don’t like getting played.

[serious]

Men can also say the same thing about attractive or super attractive women.

However in my opinion it has a lot to do with the person ( subjectively) and the gender and the physical looks.

What you have said in your question subject is surely something I have in a lot of Hollywood movies.

[virgin20]

Attractive people think they're above everyone in society. Like they just go from girl to girl, a numbers game. Get their body count up.
As an unattractive guy, i treat women as they should, nice and respectful. I feel that with the lack in looks, my personality needs to shine and that's how I've approached talking to girls, nice and friendly!

[Asker]

Thank you for an actual response because I think my curiousness came off a little “rude” but I generally wanted to know why the more attractive people treat you the worst. I’m always told by others when I date someone that “I can do better” “or you have no taste in men.” when they simply don’t know that the guys they want me to be with treat me shitty.

[virgin20]

You're welcome!
I believe attractive guys get a lot of attention so they treat girls badly and not worry about getting another.
Where as other guys feel lucky to be with a girl and treat her properly not to lose her!
Your friend need to wise up, you wouldn't be with a guy if you didn't want to be! Should understand you have preferences

[Curmudgeon]

Like the old joke about why do dogs lick their genitals, the answer is, "Because they can..." That is, they are more able to get away with that. This goes even more so for younger ladies by the way.

[winterfox10]

I found that last one kind of funny; why should men chase women? We definitely don't owe women anything either... It's nice to feel desired for a change, and the woman is less likely to waste your time if she expressed enough interest to make a move. To answer your question though, sometimes the issue is just self worth. Hurt people hurting people.

[blondfrog]

Same reason why attractive women have the worst personalities. They are used to getting everything handed to them in life so they never worked on their personality. Also complimenting people's looks on social media is hell of a drug.

[bamesjond0069]

Well its supposed to be equal. Ill only chase a girl as much as she puts in the effort to win me. Im not some idiot w no options that drools at the sight of any woman, i expect someone awesome if im going to put in effort because im hot, i can get trashy girls all day by doing nothing.

[morganlove]

That actually works in both directions. Men and women that are fawned over their entire lives, come to expect it. It’s a human nature thing. If you don’t HAVE to work for something, why bother.

[boggboss]

Wait why is it a issue that a guy wants you to chase him lol

[Asker]

Because why would you want to be chased by a woman?

[boggboss]

The same reason women want guys to chase them no being wanted by someone is a good feeling lol

[Asker]

But when women do chase some men go to the next person💀 it’s a repeating cycle. They don’t want to be chased they just like the attention.

[boggboss]

But if they do that it never mattered what the women did he was never fling to pick her

[boggboss]

Going*

[Asker]

Well if they never planned to want them don’t have them chasing you. Simple. Stop leading people on for the attention.

[boggboss]

Lol if only it was that simple but shit people will be shit

[iFarted]

Welp... not sure if my personality sucks or I'm ugly...