Okay so one thing I've notcied amongst unattravtive men for whatever reason it may be. They all have 1 thing I'm common contributing to their "unfortunate" loneliness they always want to believe they not only should be with a good looking woman but DESERVE it. A woman who is on the same end of the spectrum as them would be considered too low for some of these guys. Yet they complain good looking woman don't want them and their so shallow and mean and complain how unfair it is. I don't understand at all why is a girl whos not deemed as pretty not good enough for you yet you want to harass someone whos way out of your league because their shallow? This Will never makes sense to me honestly and i always see girls settling for whatever they can get and i rarely see guys do it ever I really dont see less attractive woman with a better looking man ever. Yet let a woman not date that ugly man and say it publicly its because he's unatttactive or too big and she'll be seen as a demon to society. This is just my personaly opinion and how i view things keep that in mind and I am not deeming this as ALL ugly men js i know some do swallow their pride.
Why do unattractive men think they 'deserve' a good looking woman?
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Okay well i also know God supposedly gave me free will to have my own conscious so that pretty much means God allowed me to be who I am. Yes i do think you sound stupid and wtf.. Lmao dude are you okay? And the world buddy jesus doesn't even exsist.. Lol
You are somewhat right, but women do this as well. But yeah I think it's more common for men. And I think it's because of their standards; which is for a girl to be pretty. It seems like that's their only standard and they only go for girls they find physically attractive. So it's no wonder they get rejected so often, and some don't realize why they are constantly rejected so they blame those women and label them as shallow. While women have wider range of standards in my opinion; we are not THAT woo'd with men's looks. I see women rejecting or dumping hot guys in a heartbeat when they treat them bad, and women actually grow resentment and become skeptical of hot guys (because of getting burned). While men would keep licking hot girl's ass and do anything just to stay with her because she's pretty. And we she breaks their heart they just go for another pretty girl. They don't learn anything. Men don't consider starting approaching not so good looking women after so many failures with good looking women, they just either continue pursuing hot girls or become resentful towards all females on the planet. I don't know, I see more girls settling with ugly guys then vice versa. And I can somewhat understand why guys keep chasing pretty girls (because they visual creatures), but when will they (actually both sexes) realize that the root of all evil is good looks? Extremely good looking people are assholes 9/10 times. I got burned so many times by these good looking men that I completely started filtering them out. I can't remember when was the last time I liked a good looking guy just because he's good looking. Most of the guys I rejected were these hot guys. I'm not saying I rejected because they are good looking, but honestly I am way more cautious when it comes to them then with average or bellow average guys. An extremely good looking guy would have to impress me and prove his personality worth to me way harder then other guys. So far I haven't been impressed or proven wrong by any hot guy, they are just stupid assholes who use their looks as the only means for success at anything. 0 brain cells and 0 personality. I honestly pity them. My point is that men should also double check their lust for beauty and not be so stupidly charmed by it. I know so many "ugly" or bellow average girls (and no I'm not talking about being fat) who are never approached or are constantly rejected by UGLY guys. Because those same guys are chasing pretty girls who keep ruining their lives. And it's just so sad.
Exactly how men think^ yet they call us shallow if we dare say we want a tall guy or somethink LMFAOO think about thay for a moment x) guys walk around wanting us to feel sorry for them when they do the same shit to us but they always want to make what they do seem higher and for a better purpose x)
@Stephen3355 I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying you should stop pursuing those pretty bitches that are obviously not into you. Nothing wrong with approaching once, but if you get rejected or lead on or played or etc. you should freaking walk away and never look back. All I see is bunch of guys chasing after these barbies and not giving up. It's so fucking sad and pathetic. If you really can't lower your physical standards, then accept that you will probably be alone for the rest of your life, and don't you dare blaming them for that!
The difference is most men only want 2 things in a woman: decent looks, and respect. However, women usually have a long list of standards that men must meet. So yer, women are way more shallow than men.
Well guys who are uglt and have that same stupid mentality are single and thats why lmao you think ypu deserve the best when you are litearlly not even what you're asking for. Understand attractive females already have choices and just like YOU woman want a decent lookimg person who respects them. there's litearlly 0 reasons woman who are attractive to just feel sorry for shallow unattractive men because they feel like they deserve them. Why when theirs billions of hot nice guys as well? Do you really think only ugly guys are the nice guys who know how to treat woman? Do you really believe every hot man is just the bad choice all the time becauae he's gonna treat her like shit right? Because hot men are the players and the ones who treat all the woman bad right? đ. No I'm sorry reality is hot guys can be nice men too and girls are gonna obviously pick them first. As an unattractive Guy you just dont get those same privellages endless for some reason your personaility is magnificent and you brought that woman to knees with it. However i doubt a man whos unattractive and thinks he's too good for unattractive woman is all that a "good guy". he's not only shallow he's also hypocritical and throw ugly on top of that all i gotta say is YIKES your best bet is an unattractive girl whos willing to put up with a bit of a bad personaility.
While I agree with you... it's pretty hypocritical... and I dont get it... my theory is that for those men.. it's their ONLY standard (she doesn't have to be a good person, smart, earn money etc). .. Looks are almost never a womans only standard... so maybe there is a balsve there? 🤷ââď¸
Fucking exactly! Like it fould be a perfectly good woman. Shit probably more subtabcial than any beautiful woman and yet she'll be pissed on my virtually any man even the ugly ones just because that woman is not the beauty pageant queen they thought they'd end up. I feel lile this is a lot of mens problem in general they always want better. I love how they tried to flip it on us and say it's us but, you know what it's not. Also statistically speaking we aren't even the ones who cheat more often and im over it tbh.
Yeah.. I dont get the focus on beauty tbh. I was an ugly duckling in highschool .. then changed in varsity and I was shocked at the difference in treatment from men i got (I was still the same person). Its kinda sad.. but guess that's the way the world works. Also I am genuinely starting to believe most men are wired differently... and they almost cannot help reacting to looks...
@Stephen3355 when did I say they didnt? I'm not saying either gender adheres to the standards.. I'm saying the standards have historically been different? As for the biological differences- I dont think men can claim to either. That's the whole point of engaging this way... to try and see it from the other genders point of view.
Yer it's bullshit. Any brain dead monkey can cherry pick whatever statistics they choose. Women cheat just as much as what men do, no matter how much you want to deny it.
I think men just want to be able to say we do even doe its just not true. Also lets not forget men are seen differently as well for the same behaviors as woman. A man who can get woman and sleeps with many woman is a player and thats usually seen as a good thing by men he's so "badass" cuz he's so great with woman. Woman sleep with a lot of men and we get dragged and calles whores for it and it won't make it the coolest bitch on the block who knows the most about men. Do you seriously think men wouldn't cheat more often than woman when its litearlly A LOT MORE SOCIALLLY acceptable to do. A lot of guys litearlly draf along woman cheat on them and than turn around and say "well im not a cheater but she's not the right one if i was with the right when than I would calm". Not once in my life have a heard of woman just casually cheating on someone because their not the right ones. If you look at marriage and whos the one calling the wedding off first more than often of the time it is woman. You know why because, a lot of woman SPECIFICALLY from this era are putting up with less and less. If woman were the real cheaters breakup their family or that was actually even. I'm 100% what was socially acceptable would be. A lot different and men and woman woild be calling for differces more often and im sure all this just like now would have statistics to show. Im sure if it was actually even you'd see that in society don't forget cardi B makes music for woman that if a man would be rapping and instead rapping about bitches not guys you know it would be normalized and no one would try and call him out ever for talking about fucking hoes in specific. Tell me when there was backlash because a man talked about sex on his song. Pleaee dont try and sit up here and say woman are just as much of cheaters as men when it isn't even socially acceptable for us to even have sex as often as men or even like one.
Women do cheat as much as men, I just think women are better at hiding it. What I've seen over many years is that women do cheat just as much as men. Many women even lie about who the father of their baby is. And yes, a man who sleeps around will get called a player, but that's because it's usually a lot harder for a man to get sex. Most women can get sex very easily, but it's usually a lot harder for a man. And yes, women do divorce more than men. Of course they do, because the divorce laws tend to favour women and very often women divorce the good men and run off with the bad men. Women today are very manipulative and deceitful. I know a woman who admitted a few years ago that almost ALL of her female friends who are married have cheated on their husbands. She said that women pretend to be these genuine faithful people, but it's all a front. Based on what I've seen and researched over many years, women cheat just as much as men.
No we don't just magically somehow cheat better than men. That is literally a lie men use to comfort themselves and feel less guilty. You want to pin cheating and all the same things on us as well. Even doe we aren't even treated the same socially at thr end of the day đ. We dont get to be cool for being whores not ever not even today when its getting more socially acceptable. Also okay and still not as often as you'd like to believe. Also shut up no its just because men have HAD that privellag. also You dont now because woman are coming back at y'all differently we bouncing out a lot quicker. Also no its not LMFAOO woman don't just wake up wanting to get divorced for some benefits đ. Also whoever makes more by default has to give money this happens to woman who make more than their husband as well has nothing to do with favoring men. Just courts know if a woman left she might have been depending on her husband more or clearly vise versa if it's the other way. Also I do agree courts do side with woman more during court issues over children since usually courts tend to feel like its worse to take children from there mother for biological reasons. Thats why you see at some point courts ask the kids where they feel they want to go because there really is a lot more to consider when you're breaking a family apart. i do see some woman going throuhh the same things man do but as a woman you have to REALLY fuck up for that. My aunt was on child support all dat she didn't get my cousin until rn that she's 16 also. I do feel like that's unfortunate for men because they dont even have to necessarily have a bad record to not get all their rights to their own baby's. Anyways Marriage divorce is easier to deal with whever makes more will be the one to get fucked in the ass in the end.
You can keep spewing as much poppycock as you like. Women cheat as much as what men do, in my experience and from what I've seen over many years. The difference is that women always have to play the poor victim.
Okay let's ignore all facts and just pretend woman did in fact just as much as men even doe realisticly that doesn't really sound as realistic. Like seriously exactly what you say is a common mindset amongst men " i THINK woman do cheat as often but are just better at hiding it" do you not realize how insane that is. Why in the world would a female cheat better? If she's doing sneaky shit its gonna be obvious af. Girls aren't just such good cheaters we're never caught men just put that in their heads to feel better about themselves. Also yes woman turn around ans say they cheated because they werent getting enough emotionally out of the realtionship of he already cheated thats why more than normally the woman also. leaves the man for the other man. Men tend to cheat litearlly just because they want to and feem they dont owe the woman their dragging along any loyalty there's no real reasons behind it most of the time.
You haven't provided any facts though. All you have provided is a load of ignorant claptrap. I told you, I know a woman who admitted that almost all of her female friends have cheated on their husbands. I've seen women cheat time and time again. Only a deluded imbecile would believe that women don't cheat as much as men. Women cheat for all kinds of selfish reasons, just like men do.
That's every guys argument supposedly he has a female friend who knows her and all her friends cheat. Shutup lmao girls shame other girls for being cheaters and whore still. Also very few woman cheat im sorry the statistics are right and you can litearlly use a little logic put two and two together to figure out how that shaped soceity and also if you're honest with yourself men can do things woman just can't and it is more accepted
Not true at all. Women cheat just as much as what men do. Woman are liars and manipulators. They get special treatment and get away with things that men can't. Deny it all you wish. It's a fact.
Yeah and being a sexual beimg in any way is not one of our privellages its the man's. Guys THINK we cheat just as often and were supposedly hust sneakier. Like no it doesn't even make sense im sorry there's no too many genius ideas on how to cheat and woman aren't somehow these cheating genuises that keep fooling society. Men are the cheaters and yes out of guilt you guys want us to be the same so bad. Statistics say different and just in general its probably obvious how its true its cheating men who are in denial about that shit.
You just don't get it. My belief that women cheat just as much as men is the result of what I've seen over many years. When I was at school I seen lots of girls cheating on their boyfriends. And throughout my adult life I have seen women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands, many times. You can pull as many statistics out of your ass as you like. I go by real life experiences. Women are liars and manipulators and cheat just as much as what men do. I'm sorry that you're female pride won't allow you to admit it.
Everybody needs to vent! I don't consider myself unattractive but I am no male model when it comes to being attractive. I guess I cried myself to sleep too much during my mid-to-late 20's and come the turn of my 30's I just didn't care anymore that I wasn't getting laid unlike my peers and that I have no wife and kids by now and a house. It's not the end of life for me, I just got stuck with enjoying those things later in my life, I hope.
These guys need to come to terms with their situation like I finally did with my situation. It's unhealthy to wake up each day and compare yourself to others, I know! Besides, if these guys learned to accept their looks and try to improve their social skills they might actually better their chances and win over women not by their looks but by connecting with them on such a level that no male model face ever can, because they are all face and no heart like the ugly dude. So goes my hypothesis!
We are all dealt our hand BY GOD and we need to learn how to play that hand and hopefully shuffle through enough cards to come out winning the game or winning enough out of this game called LIFE!
Derek you're good looking? At supposedly I'm the ugly one right? Post a picture right now and you BETTER at the least be a guy I'd actually like in real life. Trying to call me ugly won't make me any less attractive i kmow some y'all trying to call me unattractive because what i said hurt your feelings. Howevwr i also do know its not a bumch of attractive guys id even normally date in the first place.
i dont know how to upload a picure but i can describe myself if you want... im 180 cm tall, muscular and lean, i had a beard before but now i have a little goatie i think i looked better with the beard not sure though, i have black hair, my face looks a little like an anime character not sure how to describe it and i have black eyes not the prettiest guy you'll ever see but im pretty though
@derek2017 Just remember, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". What are you trying to do, or prove, by posting pictures? Pictures are supposed to be worth a thousand words yet our eyes don't bother to read everything on first glance! So, a woman needs to get to know me and I need to work on my personality because I know I am not trying as hard as I should. Enough said.
Haha let's not forget that women started the fat acceptance non sense.
You talk about ugly guys complaining. Well fat women started a whole movement saying that you can be fat and healthy. And people need to find them beautiful.
So... in my opinion ugly guys complaining is not that big of a deal.
Wait im sorry you are actually right i just meant the incel community and also fat girls aren't mad about guys not dating them its actually because they want to be included in beauty standars as in be able to be in magazines be the ones playing lead roles as beautiful woman. They want more clothes for them and basically for people to respect them as a human being. Big girls can get boyfriends endless they aren't attractive. When i was big I still pulled but I was sad i wasn't like a model or anything. Im not now either but, still lol not sad about that anymore.
Well incels isn't really a movement. It's more of a little community for lonely guys.
And well reason why fat people are not often promoted by beauty standards is because it would promote obesity. And believe me America doesn't want to make that problem worst.
There are people that do find big girls attractive, but saying being fat is healthy and that people need to accept it is a bit ludicrous.
A little community? And some of these guys are actual threats to society doe they truly believe attractive people are the bad guys. Also I understand that I'm definetly not for making this a fat friendly world but when i was fat i guess I understood. Than again my health is more valueable than being accepted and yes just like saying attractive peolle are shallow for choosing not to date attractive people and its also crazy to unattractive and not actually want anyone unnatractive yourself but still expect pitty.
Yes... And actually from what I found before incels are more likely to commit harm on themselves than to others. Cause these guys are extremely depressed and they surround themselves with people that's depressed as well. And they even post memorials when they know a fellow incel has committed suicide.
Of course there are extreme cases like the infamous Elliott Roger shooting. But just don't believe everything you see on the news.
Like if a plane crashes of course the news will report it, but think about how many times the plane has landed safely.
And yeah these guys do complain. But they are definitely not a movement and they're not spreading it around, unlike the fat acceptance people.
@Roxilicious It's more about the 1% wealthiest elite of the media who control and influence what the masses beauty standards are, not average like the "typical men" that some people think it is.
No some guys are really fucking dangerous especially where im from when i was pregnant i had a gun pulled out on me and my homegirl because, we told some old ass creep to stop following us in our car. We just went to get some food at 711 a block from my friends house. Some creepy mad lonely guys take it too far and its scary asl. Also its just ANNOYING af to always hear these incels complaining. They don't even have to know of the group to be an incel but these men exsist and im geting sick of it.
Yes he MORE than likely was he was fucking creeping on woman in the streets I really do doubt he had any actual relationships. I do know what it stands for but the way some of these guys act is pathetic. They want good looking woman while at the samr time woman in their realistic league are not good enough. Also i could go down the street to 711 whenever tf i want and no I shouldn't get shot for it and no i wasn't asking for it. there's really a community of men out there like you who put the blame on woman something happens to her. Also it was broad daylight and even if it was night it stilk doesn't mean shit. He is the only one responsible for himself he was the one being a creep. He was the one doing something he wasn't supposed to be doing. I was going to Fucking 711 down my street broad day light. If you think its my fault and i somehow put myself at risk for litearlly just trying to get some snacks you can go fuck yourself.
Okay and i should still be able to go to 711 and its not my fault people are psychos also its not thugs who are a problem for me at least since im not a guy but its just weird legitmate creeps
It's hypocrisy to call someone shallow and then act the same way. One thing is being sad because girls that you are attracted to don't take interest in you, other is feeling entitled to have those girls' attention. Fist one is ok seconde one is not. On top of that calling them shallow for wanting handsome guys... that is just jealousy and self anger wishing to be more like them. Like you said not all do that. Thank God many are actually decent people. Also like you said I am used to see much more ugly guys with really hot girls than the other way around. Girls far for what they hear and guys for what they see I guess. One point I don't totally agree with you is that both genders will be socially criticized for saying they don't want an ugly or fat date. They will be seen as superficial no matter if they are male or female. In my opinion each person has the right to be attracted to whatever. We don't control who we are attracted to why should we be judged by it? It's just our taste, our preference it's like pointing fingers at someone for liking pasta more than rice. It's a personal preference.
As an ugly guy, I have tried to date women much uglier than me. They ALWAYS reject me because of my looks. Being ugly is worse for guys than girls, since girls can get a boyfriend if they lower their standards enough. I don't have this privilege.
I don't think an average/attractive person should act like they know anything about what ugly people have to go through. I don't feel entitled to a relationship, but I do see the multiple hypocrisies made by normal/attractive people.
1. It is actually the normal/straight people who feel entitled. They complain when they go a few weeks without sex, while many ugly people never had sex before and accept it.
2. Normal/attractive people are always in relationships, and they try to tell ugly people that relationships don't matter, when normal/attractive people don't even know what it's like to be alone for over twenty years.
3. Attractive people act like they are better than ugly people.
4. Attractive people rely on their appearence for pride. They need a certain amount of likes, views, etc.
5. Ugly guys are made fun of all of the time on social media. Nobody demonizes them...
No stop i doubt you've went for actual woman lower than you whatever you mean you probably just mean obese woman or bigger woman I dount you've went for an actual ugly faced woman. Guys think shapeless/big woman are easy and yeah because all unattractive people do is complain attractive people won't date them and how we're so shallow for it. Yet more than normally they won't actually go for someone in their league and it's true tbh an obese woman also just isn't the worsr option or somehow gonna hust settle
You don't know anything about me, and you never lived my life. I don't care if you doubt it, but it's true. I went for women with physical deformities as myself and they rejected me.
See how entitled you are? You think you know everything about others and look down on ugly people. Very typical.
I need proof of that because i really do doubt it tbh. Also i look down on ugly people who call attractive peoll2e shallow for not dating them yet dont date anyone like them also if you would have read i made it clear to say i KNOW NOT ALL UGLY MEN
You say not all men, but you automatically assume you know my entire life based on generalization and your own flawed personal beliefs, and you demand proof like the entitled person you are.
I am one of the very people on Earth who is actually ugly. I was bullied my entire life especially by women, can make barely any friends, nobody has complimented my looks not even my parents, I have no chin, a large bottom lip but small and thin upper lip, no jaw, balding, massive nose, small eyes. Women look at me with disgust, and I, in my desperation I try to date the ugliest women possible. They ALL rejected me, every single one.
Even the ugliest of women can get boyfriends. I know, because I was willing to do so. However, I gave up on relationships a year ago.
Do you even know what it's like to be ugly like me? Imagine everyone ignoring you, barely having any friends, men looking at you with disdain, getting bullied everyday your entire life growing up, never having a relationship or even thinking you have the possibility of having a relationship.
Attractive/Normal people don't know what they are missing. A person born into a rich family has no right to make fun of poor people, just like attractive people shouldn't talk shit about ugly people.
People in public think they are far too attractive for me, so I ended up looking for even less attractive women on the internet. I had the most luck on Discord since nobody on dating websites wanted me. After we agree to meet they say it wouldn't work between us.
It's pretty true. Below average guys who loudly complain, are often as shallow as they accuse women of being.
Fact is, there are below average guys who date the hot girl. They are rare, but it happens. You know what those guys don't do? Sit around moaning until the girl falls in their lap.
Fucking EXACTlY THANK YOUUUU !!! It happens all the time it's not uncommon that a woman sees a guy a little below her standards thay makes her feel good falls for him!
few people are ugly by birth, they choose to evolve into ugliness â change what you donât like about yourself â itâs very difficult to change, it takes commitment, patience, lots of hard work, and maybe some money. Most beautiful people work hard at being beautiful and feel they deserve the same in a partner. So guys, up your game and quit whining.
I donât really see that at all. Usually guys complain about specific bad events that happened with specific people that have happened in the past because thatâs how they vent. Guys in generally donât complain about fantasized long term relationships/marriage and deserving to being wanted. A lot of guys donât really even get lonely...
Gee, canât imagine why anyone might think your shallow. Itâs not like your going around telling people to date in their league or anything. Defenitley not like youâve admitted to using ugly dudes for their money or anything like that. Not like your being super judge mental with almost every comment you make or anything like that. Anyone else seeing the pattern?
Um I don't care I'm not shallow im realistic i date who i can date and thats it. Also use is not the word i WORK as a sex worker itd a job i dotn use or lie to anyone. there's nothing wrong with being a sex workers there would be if i lied men into relationships that were exclusively for money. I have never done that any guys I've date and I've dated unattractive guys before well not interactive just bigger men before and it never has been about money. My work life and love life are two separate things and shallow i am not. There is an explanation why us as humanbeings date who we date and unfortunately the scientific reason has little to nothing to do eith feelings. Also unattractive people actuallt are self aware and can also see when someone else in unattractive but, this could be a problem for unattractive peolle because scientifically well do go with who most appealing and most like us. This could clearly be a problem for aware unattractive people but regardless im tired of unattractive people blamimg attractive people for that. When all i see is unattractive people go for whats out of their league and they dont even want someone like themselves. Perfect example was the guy complaining about how he doesn't want obese or ugly girls yet he is both. That to me is silly and to me a lot of unattractive men hold this same ass mentality like ew.
I know i hope a few ugly complaining mens feelings but tbh i don't care its true. Pretty girls dont have to date you and it doesn't mean she's shallow for it. Also not ALL MEN i said some but if you felt you fit thw description than yes be offended i meant you :).
Honestly itâs fascinating to watch this, itâs almost like deep down you want to prove my point. Every word you type about this just makes you look worse. And yes you seem to fit the defenition of shallow quite well.
Shallow: not exhibiting, requiring, or capable of serious thought.
Synonyms: superficial, simplistic, ignorant.
You look at things only from your point of view. IGNORANT
You judge people only by their appearance, and assume things about them because of how they look. SUPERFICIAL
You continue to spout nonsense about people you have never met and do not know, and speak in generalized terms. SIMPLISTIC AND NARROW MINDED.
Er wrong i never judged anyone for just being ugly đ im judging ugly peolle who think their too good for other ugly people than turn aroumd and bitch about it
Well âuglyâ is a subjective term. What one person calls ugly another might call gorgeous. And literally everything you said has been judging people based on their looks. You said and I quote âpeople need to stay in their leagueâ. Well who are you to say who is in someoneâs league. You keep saying it annoys you when people complain about things like this. Yet here you are bitching about people in an online forum. Your literally saying people should be segregated based on an arbitrary judgement of appearance. God woman get over yourself already.
I never said people need to stay in their league not once. I said guys who are unattractive yet won't date unattractive girls because they feel higher make no sense to me.
I donât disagree with some of your points. People who act like that are being kind of hypocritical. My problem is your complaining about other peopleâs shallow behavior when you yourself are presenting an example of what they are complaining about. Your just as bad, If not worse than them. Iâm not the only person seeing this, take a look at the rest of the thread. Almost everyone here is telling you your acting shallow and conceited. Shouldnât that tell you something about the way your acting? Your complaining about other peopleâs problems, do you have any empathy for other people at all? Physical attraction is arbitrary, and itâs the basis of the vast majority of romantic relationships. Of course someoneâs going to complain when they put themselves out there and then get shot down. It hurts, even if you are expecting it. When they start insulting the other person theyâve gone to far, but sometimes people lash out when theyâre upset. It doesnât make it ok, but it does make it understandable. My problem with your viewpoint is that you refuse to look at the situation from their point of view. Are you telling me youâve never gotten upset when someone turned you down? If not then I have to praise you on your stellar emotional control, in that department you would be a wonderful example to all mankind.
Wait so how am I acting shallow or conceited for saying unattractive men complaining about attractive woman not wanting them yet refusing to date ugly woman somehow makes me shallow and conceited? HOW EXACTLY.
Funny how you are bashing men for something women primarily do. Only a small portion of men (incels etc.) feel entitled this way, most unattractive men settle for less attractive girls. On the other hand, even the ugliest fattest trolls among girls absolutely NEVER want to settle for an even average looking guy.
Not one word of what you said is true. Men today have the lowest standards ever because you women have thousands of options. Each of you has a minimum of 1000 dicks hunting you and in the end you reject them all. Guys who are 10's compromise and get with a 5 or lower because the 10's who are supposed to be with them prefer "love" from their millions of thirsty twitter, Facebook, instagram followers and then whore themselves literally with cute selfies and semi-nude pictures. So no, this is not about ugly guys wanting gorgeous women. It's about women having no idea who the fuck to choose. Why stick with just one man when you can have millions on instagram who will also provide you with beta bucks for a few bikini photos?
I've never been in a relationship. I've never been able to get a girl who likes me. Who's fault is that? Mine. It's my own damn fault that I slacked off for a lot of years, and didn't make the improvements and adjustments necessary to being able to attract a mate. I think it is foolish for the man to blame the women for rejecting him, but not taking responsibility for his own situation. For me personally, I have a long ways to go to be able to find the type of woman I would want. For the record, I probably have had pretty high standards from a looks standpoint in the past, but whenever I got rejected, I didn't blame the woman. I blamed a lot of other scapegoats other then myself, but I didn't blame the woman herself. I certainly think a lot of men get frustrated, and take out their frustrations on the women. It's a pretty weak route to go I agree. Many just need to learn to love themselves.
I think all men are like this and women are getting sick of their shit, getting higher education, making more money to care for themselves bc men aren't reliable
That's scientifically not true the only people actually struggling are unattractive people for whatever reason they may be deemed unattractive. Also if you are attractive struggling dating it could be because of serious issues within yourself but realistically attractive or average People don't struggle dating. There is an actual scientic reason behind this there is a science to how we find partners for ourselves and yes a big part of it unfortunately does have to do with looks. Take a look at this and you will clearly come to find first before anything there has to be lust and its true examinedexistence.com/.../
Your right, just ignore this chick. Sheâs to caught up in herself to listen to anyone else. Going around calling people ugly and unattractive, out of her league my ass. Wouldnât touch this one with a 10 foot pole. Attraction isnât just looks, itâs personality too. And this ones personality could scare off a pack of rabid dogs.
Lmaooo I dont care what I said wasn't fucked up. It is silly of an unattractive male to bitch about not being able to get attractive woman YET still feel too good for woman in his league.
Also the fact that you're saying im saying people are out of eachothers leagues is false asfk i never said that at all in any way i literally just said exactly what i said above if that ofends some guys and they felt like it attacked them personally than WELL SHIT idgaf.
Wait I did say people are out of eachothers leagues because thats scientifically correct BUT i never said its impossible to date someone whos more attract than you as a guy
And there we are talking about unattractive people and leagues again. ATTRACTION IS ARBITRARY!!! How hard is that to grasp? People are attracted to who theyâre attracted to. Some people like skinny people, some people like fat people, some men, some women, some people are attracted to inanimate objects. I donât care, my point is you keep saying people shouldnât complain about people out of theyâre league rejecting them. By what almighty standard are you judging peoples appearances? Because you sure as hell arenât qualified to be judging anyone else.
LMAOO you know their unattractive because their litearlly complaining about woman not dating them for it. there's not way around that when they say it themselves and also call woman shallow for not seeing how much of a great guy they are. They unattractive men do tend to have shitty personailitys because once again if they didn't they more than likely would have a partner.
You know, Iâm done with this. Your obviously not trying to find a legitimate answer to this question. Your just looking to circle jerk with a bunch of judgmental asshats like yourself. Stick to selling your body to highest bidder lady, your not really good at much else from what Iâve seen. And for those who might be offended by this, Iâm not implying sheâs a prostitute she already admitted to it.
I'm not a prostitute im a camgirl in other words and doesn't really chang that fact that I'm entitled to my opinion. I still don't care if it offended anyone I know I wasn't insulting ugly people or some shit. I'm saying HOW ARE YOU GoNNA BE UNATTRACTIVE ACTING LIKE YOU'RE TOO GOOD FOR SOMEONE WHO IS ALSO UNNATRACTIVE. if that offends anybody than good because you are litearlly killing your own chances at happiness.
Let us get this straight. We aren't really talking about physical attractiveness. "Attractive" men are basically men who are good at attracting and dating women.
The reasons why unattractive men complain are varied. Some have a few legit gripes. Most simply are either too ignorant or too stubborn to do what is required to be more successful at dating.
He is Turkish actor look better than his wife i have seen things like that in real life if they fall for their personality hot guy's with average girls.
That girl is not average lol she's hot i think this one is more opinion based because to me personally they look like they fall on the same end of the spectrum
Lol i knew a half Turkish guy once and to this day that still my #1 papi đđ # i vouch doe and damn she an average turk girl? đ jesus Turkish woman slay than đ
I guess pride becomes more important to you if you're unattractive. They feel like they must make themselves think they're all that to not be depressed. Dunno, just a guess!
Exactly ! They just want to make society the bad guy while at the same time not making any actual efforts to change. You can litearlly tell guys who do this what would help and they litearlly won't take the advice and just sit in their own depression because of it. At some point you have to get a grip of yourself face up to what you have to i strongly believe anyone can get someone is they are 100% at their best looks and most definetly personaility wise.
I used to be like them when I was a kid then I grew up got a little better looking as I got older but the most important thing was I don't suck to be around anymore.
People complain due to a negative situation or personal factors that they couldn't prevent or control. They are expressing their feelings of not being satisfied, ruminating on setbacks instead of focusing on progress, or this could be an ingrained habit. Complainers won't think anything will work well. It's a lack-mindset possibly among many other bad habits they picked up depending on how they were raised and whether or not they chose to get help during their adult years.
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So it's okay when women complain that they are ugly and fat, and start a whole campaign about being healthy when they have reached the lowest point in their lives that they find the need to complain to other people when its really their problem? i think its fair to say you are being hypocritical and you dont know what your saying
Girl no this doesn't even make sense? What campaign even is this? I've never heard of a campaign of woman that complain about being fat regardless of the fact that they aren't even doing anything yo fix it. I feel like you don't actually even know what a campaign is and hust throw some random gibberish together. Also try a different example because either ways this one didn't even fit in.
I thought men guys had an easier chance of finding high-quality women, being that we live in the age of validation-seeking and a decent contingency of women (not all, maybe not even most, but a noticeable amount) just want a man whose existence makes them feel validated and superior.
Okay but to me it makes no sense when unnattrcative guys call attractive girls shallow because they choose to not date them while they turn around and refuse to date ugly woman
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