Why do most guys hate BTS?

[btbc92]

Simple. Because 'pretty boys' get the girls desiring something the average guy doesn't have. At least, the girls desire the image.

1. Gentleman
2. Romantic
3. Sing a Sweet Song
4. Acts sweet
5. Be sweet
6. Charming
7. Knows to be 'manly' when needed. Sensitive but protective.

Something every woman wants, but something a lot of men can't naturally do without feeling emasculated. This is in no way to disrespect them. But these men feel unwanted because of that. They can like music. But they don't see the sexual appeal for many young women and girls. And feel that they cannot compete. Image Link from Legend of Zelda one day shows up. How many women and girls would flock to him regardless of his personal appearance, sexual attractiveness, etc? Nearly 90% of them. You know why? Because he exemplifies what a real man is supposed to be regardless if he is short, sometimes lanky, etc. It's his spirit and soul. He's not aggressive for aggressive sakes. He's not talking about how many women he can screw, at least you can only HOPE. And he literally practices chivalry where he both LEADS as a man AND honors a woman. Again, call it 'imagination', etc. But that is just an example of what a lot of these men are missing. But also the sad reality is, is that a90% of those women sadly wouldn't fit the bill somebody like him may want. So it gives that effect on both men and women.

Horny Sex craze men ---> Natural Women -----> Deter
Horny Woman ----> Natural Man ----? (Maybe) But often -----> Natural Woman
Natural man -----> Natural Woman <-----> (Strong compatibility)
Horny Woman ----> Natural Man -----> Deter
Horny Man <------> Horny Woman <------- I think you get it
The woman who has low Self -Esteem -----> Wants to be her HERO <-------> (Strong MAYBE)
The Natural Man ------> W w. t Low Self-Esteem -------> (Probably Not)
W w. t Low Self-Esteem ------> Horny Craze men (Strong situation for abuse and narcissism) = Trauma
W w. t Low Self-Esteem -----> The Nat Man ----> Deter

As you see with the many formulas. The men overall from BTS would be considered a white knight in today's society, as would Link. And that is what these men hate. While they would struggle with feminism in the sense that the men end up with a problem with wanted and taking advantage of women freely having sex with THEM, they rather it is private between them. While BTS wouldn't focus on that (remember the Image) that they portray men is what most guys are seeing that other women would be EXPECTING of THEM. So they get angry that they aren't "meeting" that standard/s of both character and maybe LOOKS on that department. In fact, it's not about their physical. It's about the character and by extension the personality.

That's why I always tell men. It's not about the NICE guys. It's about Good and KIND men. Many men assume women don't like it. But that is not true. It's the type of woman they're pursuing because she has to look similar to what they want physically sexually but then get mad at us for wanting something to near Adonis. Some women are naturally vain, spiteful, etc regardless of her upbringing, what she was taught and environment. But most women aren't really like that if they stop being stubborn and actually see. But many don't. They want to be blind, so women are forced to just 'accept' what they got as far as men, while secretly desiring to have that kind of guy any day. But they want that by the guys they already have. So women try to change the guy. So they grow frustrated and feel disloyal and torn when that actual guy shows up and is often feeling like should they break up or cheat or stay loyal.

Something for men to really think about. A humbling man is way better than again, many would rather want. But sense most women are brainwashed with being sexual for sex's sake and are highly sexualized early by having sex so early, they feel that such men may be boring in the long run, because the reality of expectations is vastly conflicting.

[AnnNoid]

Cos most guys aren’t gay and have testicles and masculinity,
Nothing against the ladyboys who enjoy that kinda music,
But I jus naturally don’t like the sound of their music as it sounds too girly and twinkle toes for me, I like masculine music like hiphop as I am heterosexual and male

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Because guys don't like "prettyboys".. It's exactly the same as girls feel about "prettygirls"..

Both sides are the same - you hate that they are just so fucking pretty that everyone falls over themselves to please them. They never really have to work hard at anything past looking good, and they get to live like royalty for it. If you don't hate prettypeople, then you are probably one of them, or perhaps a small percent of humans who honestly isn't bothered when they see people skate through life like it's a fairy tale.

[Kurαȷ]

Dunno, as an adult man I really don't see the point in having any sort of feelings about what kind of guys and entertainment teenage girls are into.

By the time girls reach my dating age range, Kpop is nothing more than a cringey memory for them, and their idea of an ideal man transforms into a 6'2"+, dark and handsome lookalike of David Gandy.

[yucychan]

I also do not like BTS. I don't understand the hype around them.
Their music is so-so, probably the only thing is that they can dance pretty well (but that's nothing to be fascinated about as most groups also undergone the same dance trainings).
They looked more pretty than handsome, looked more like girls.
In general, I don't think much of them.

[bailey11]

Jealousy. They wish they looked as good (and were as successful) as the BTS members. (I think BTS is great, by the way. I admire their talents and they're funny sometimes.)
But like it says in the book "Are Men the Weaker Sex?" (which is free to download from kobo books), there are too many men who aren't emotionally strong, so they feel threatened/jealous when they think someone is better than they are.

[iFarted]

The haters are just guys who are insecure with their sexuality so they see feminine boys and feel some sort of disgust lol.
They're artists so just frigging listen to their songs and who gives a fk what they look like. If you don't like their songs or how they look then don't listen and don't look.

[SolifeNolife]

I don't hate them but I also don't care for their music. I've listened to a few songs and they're alright but just not for me.

[REDHOTLINE]

Why do we hate that sweet girls. there is no reason

[jasco]

Well i don't hate them but i do dislike them and honestly i just don't like them, there ugly, there music sucks

[winterfox10]

I don't know anything about them, but I imagine that most guys hate BTS because they look like lady-boys

[Anonymous]

K Pop is all flash and no substance; I want my musicians to actually be musicians and not auto-tuned models posing as a band.

[Dave31989]

cause "behind the scenes" became way too common. it became "cool". it's not cool to like "cool" thing

[jeremy_09]

i don't think they do, it's just something girls like because of the boys

[Anonymous]

Because rational thinking men dont like feminine men, It goes against what we feel as normal. you're a woman, so you would not understand that.

[Anonymous]

They can’t sing and please don’t anybody tell me they always sing live because they never ever sing live you are delusional if you even think they do

[hellacray]

Lol wtf ching chong music?

[JosyJosy]

I think or jealous or just not a fan of the music

[Liam_Hayden]

Most guys don't listen to that kind of music.

[Paulychicago10]

They are just an Asian boy band. Not into that

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not sure

[Silver158]

Why do most men hate Behind the Scenes?