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In all reality a slut is a girl that loves to have sex. So a girl i want in my life should be a slut. Dont mix up a slut and a whore two totally different types of girls. I dont want a whore. But i love a slut there absolutely amazing women.
Who is stopping you from calling him a whore?
No one.
But hardly anyone does. That's the problem.
It's easy for a woman to get several guys under her belt.
Why is this a difficult concept to grasp?
I don’t think it’s fair either, but there’re a lot of things that aren’t unfortunately
Yeah, but do you think people's opinions about this are changing for the better?
I do think some of it has to do with biology and evolution of the sexes, which isn’t something that can be changed overnight. That being said, I think it really depends on the circles of people that you’re around with, and the amount of genuinity in those people
Women praise a want a man that has a lot of women, she feels more powerful when a men that is desired by many is with her, on the other hand, men are hunters, we have our eyes on the bigger prize, a girl that can cherish herself and is unobtainable.
If you dont like this, is simple, stop going after male sluts, because if you think this is unfair, is your problem, not ours, just because your favourite ice cream flavour is strawberry, and mine is chocolate, i shouldn't change my tastes just because you think im wrong.
julia1998 I don't think people's opinions are generally changing for the better. I also don't think it's good to use a pic where you can see the woman's nipples through her dress, in this thread.
Tbh i dont believe in such things... everybody is free to do whatever he wants... people often judge with the thought that they might be better from the others... but guess what
Because "society" is patriarchal. The men have made the rules, hence the attitudes.
Cuz its guys thoughts they dont realise a girl could have only 1 new boyfriend a yr an not be a whore
It probably goes back to the caveman era where the guy need to spread his seed to have his chances of having a good offspring
We're not cavemen any more. What's our excuse now?
@bailey11 actually I got no good excuse I'm not like that but it's perfectly natural some of the DNA in the cavemen were passed on and we were doomed to repeat some of the stuff that they did now without realizing it but then again it's it's the choice to do it it all comes down to it
If a key can unlock many locks, it’s a master lock. If a lock can be opened by any key, it’s a shitty lock.
Hear that, ladies? Don't have sex with guys except your husband. That way, your lock can only be opened with one key. ;)
because people mistaken the definition of a whore a lot
Its like the old adage. If you have a key that opens any lock thats a good key. If you have a lock that opens to any key that's a shitty lock.
Because men and women are different. I can fuck a ton of women and be a stud. If you fuck a lot of dudes, you're a whore. That's just the way it is. So don't sleep around
These are all just social constructs. The fact that I have a lot of guys doesn't make me a whore. This means that I just have a lot of guys. But society wants to assess this.
I think it's important to for everyone to explore different types of men and women in order to know what you truly want in a partner. I'm selective and have high standards. The men I've slept with our not being used and I'm not being used. I felt each partner offered different insight. I enjoy sex, but I don't have one night stands. I have had several relationships, some for a few weeks and some for years. My number is over 100, but I'm friends with the majority of them. I always practice safe sex and have never contracted any STDs. Many women and men seemed to be bothered by my lack of commitment. Most of my sexual partners started out as friends that I knew for a year or more. Do I think guys pursued me because I was labeled a 'slut'? Maybe some of them did and those guys were not ones I chose to sleep with. I don't give out blowjobs. I don't have sex with men I'm not connected to and know well. So, why was a I labeled a slut? Why do people think I got fucked when it was my choice to sleep with the guy and every guy I've been with didn't happen right away? As a teenager I developed a 30 day rule; never sleep with a guy until you've dated and hung out for at least 30 days. In 9 out of 10 relationships I ended it because you shouldn't string someone along or wait to see if it will work when there are red flags or clear differences that cause incompatibility. If I didn't see a future, I ended it. I was almost 16 when I lost my virginity to the first guy I ever loved and I was his first love and he lost his virginity to me. We were together six months before we talked and decided to plan the special night. It hurt like hell. Not because he was rough or lack of communication. He was very big. I never told him how much it hurt and did my best to show I was okay and match his excitement for how great it felt! I became consumed with fear of having to do it again and didn't know it would get better.
. I should have educated myself more on the topic but felt or was told it was shameful. I didn't tell him this because I didn't want him to feel rejected in anyway. I was young and sheltered and didn't talk to anyone about my feelings. Within a few weeks after his Friday night football I didn't wait for him to come out of the locker room like I normally did. My girlfriends were in a hurry to go to the party and assured me that I would see him there later because everyone who knew it was going. After a few beers I was officially drunk and he still hadn't shown up. A very attractive friend of my boyfriend's was at the party and came over to talk to me. I met them both at a mutual friend's party and had attraction for both of them. After conversations with both men, one was quicker to have more conversation with just the two of us and asked me if I wanted to go for a walk. We connected well and had a memorable walk and he asked me on a date. After our first date, we were together and fell quickly. Still no sign of my boyfriend, and I was drunk talking to this attractive guy who was also a bit tipsy, and he leans in all the way and kisses me. With the crowd around all noticing. Then the cops were coming to bust up our party so everyone ran, hopped in their cars and go the fuck out there. That morning, hungover, with news traveling fast to my boyfriend. He calls and asks if the kiss between me and his friend was true. I confessed, apologized and could hear the pain in his voice. After listening to him for quite some time, he asked if I did this because I wanted to break up. Instead of telling him about the fear of sex again, my mix of emotions and an easy out, I said yes.
I did start dating the other guy and we lasted for a while. It was great. I always regretted how I had left things with my boyfriend. I dreamed that I told him years later after we graduated and he returned from boot camp; it may have actually occurred. We instantly connected and had passionate, mind blowing sex until the next day. I told him I loved him. Always have. Always will. He said he couldn't do it because he's friends would never let him hear the end of it. Rejection because he was more worried about how his friends would see him differently than our possible future together, I was heartbroken. Maybe he just wanted to get me back for the pain I'd caused him, but it didn't feel that way. I practiced more restraint and was harder to open up in the relationships that followed. Does all this behavior validate labeling me as a slut?
Social bias meant to keep women within a certain boundary of behaviors.
Similar to many social and cultural effects
Think of it this way... if you have a key that opens many locks it's a good key.
If you gave a lock that gets opened by any key that touches it, it's a lock no one wants.
It's comparing apples and oranges, they're not the same. How is treating apples like apples and oranges like oranges not fair?
Thanks 👍🏻
Downvotes, but no good justification as to why I'm wrong, tsk tsk. smh
This is more of an internet thing. In the real world , most people don't give a shit.
So why are so many women called nasty names in the real world but men usually aren't.
@bailey11 Not true.
I don't know. Why is it if a guy is 5'6", he is a "LVM', but if he is 6'2" he is a HVM?
It's unfair, but it's true. By the way, the guy in the photo looks so beautiful. Where is this photo from?
Things are not supposed to be fair. Is it fair that during the time of war men have to fight the war so that you'll be protected?
Sexsism honey✨✨✨ we love to see it and experience it
No we don't love to see it. We're sick of it and double standards.
@dianagirl I was being sarcastic.
It is because a key that opens a lot of different locks is a master key, but a lock that is opened by a lot of different keys is just a crappy lock.
Not all things this way, depends on who you hangout with
Hypocrisy, sexism, patriarchy
And it's explained very well in Josette Sona's books. You shouldn't have gotten three down-votes. You must have struck a nerve! 😆
lol I always get downvotes whenever I talk about sexism, the patriarchy, misogyny or female empowerment. This site is riddled with weak men who get triggered easily and downvote lmao
Women praise a want a man that has a lot of women, she feels more powerful when a men that is desired by many is with her, on the other hand, men are hunters, we have our eyes on the bigger prize, a girl that can cherish herself and is unobtainable.
If you dont like this, is simple, stop going after male sluts, because if you think this is unfair, is your problem, not ours, just because your favourite ice cream flavour is strawberry, and mine is chocolate, i shouldn't change my tastes just because you think im wrong.
Eat it snowflake
@AFellowWeeb you're an idiot. Stop replying to this. I ignored you just fine the first time, forcing your stupid opinion down my throat won't achieve anything. Quite plainly- fuck off.
Would it make you feel better if we called them alpha whores?
Depends on who's opinion your listening too
No... they call promiscuous men whores as well.
Whores get money, right?😅
Hmmm.. What do you mean?
Do these girls get money in exchange for the companionship they provide to guys or not?
This is not necessary. This is done for enjoyment.
Oh my bad! I took the word "whore" literally as a "hooker"
@RohitLakra No you didn’t. You’re a creepy weirdo.
@Gisalphawoman don't go crazy, woman. I told you I will send you your money back for the enjoyment you gave me early this year. Hookers like you should have patience🤣
I reported you.
I don't give a shit lol I did nothing wrong.
Someone's being racist lol you'll get reported for sure xD
@Gisalphawoman reports a guy bc he stepped on a nerve
proceed to be racist, get out of here
@AFellowWeeb it's alright. I appreciate you came forward. I don't think she deserves any attention anymore. She seems like a drama queen who gets satisfaction from hijacking other people's opinions here. Anyway I wish to stay quiet and request everyone to ignore her. With every reply posted here, the asker gets notified about it on her phone. Our exchange of heat is probably more annoying for the asker than @Gisalphawoman behavior is annoying for us people. Let's put a full stop here.
Cause your not Fing them.
Men and women are not the same.
A stupid and senseless double standard.
We call a guy with a lot of girls a fuckboy here
The attitude towards guys and girls should be the same
They are but its strange that women think there's a double standard
Because one is difficult and the other isn't.
No one calls them alpha males for this thing😂
It is exactly the way it is so deal with it.
I don't know, but that girl has nice titties.
No she doesn't, LOL!
I don't know double standards I think...
Every woman has every guy
Just another incidental from the patriarchy.
It has nothing to do with "fair".
Because it’s easy to women hard to men
This so bullshit 😠 this shame of humanity
I dunno, ask women, they caused it
Result of being a male dominated society.
Who cares. It makes sense.
This again?
No I don't think so
Thanks, but most people think so
They are just a dick head in my way.
Good question dear
Ya not fair