Because it's nothin for a girl to get with a lot of guys.. It doesn't take work most times.. Whereas if guys have a lot of girls it shows that he has confidence, and swagger enough to have those women gravitate toward him.. I don't agree with either, but it's not the same because men and women are not the same.
Eew that's not an alpha male🤢🤢 I call them man whores. I don't encourage sleeping around for anyone regardless of the gender. But that doesn't mean i force my views on someone else But that's a player and a man slut
The answer is because you care. As long as you give meaning to what everyone else says and thinks, they’re in control. I had plenty people call me a whore when I was a single young man dating around. The this is, it never bothered me one bit. lol Therefore it never mattered. Women should be able to date/smash as many people as they choose if they single. And nobody can put any title on them for it.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I call them fuckboys and douchebags if they're spend too much time and energy trying to get laid.
If he's successful enough to have women throwing themselves at him with little to no effort on his end, then yeah I guess "alpha male" is an appropriate description.
Because a quality woman is supposed to be selective. If a guy lays a lot of selective women, there has to be something attractive about him to get all those women to spread their legs for him. Conversely, if a woman is spreading her legs for a lot of guys, then she's not selective and therefore not a quality woman.
Lol no matter what if he is called alpha male or something else but nobody wants to love or settle with guys like that it's just sexual nothing more than that end results are the same both will be left feeling empty after the one night stands or nobody in real cares for them once the deed is done it's over
It likely has to do with the idea of the white wedding dress. White wedding dress is supposed to represent that she's a virgin, untouched, pure which is what white represents in general (pure).. Of course it's no longer really a thing. You see non virgin women getting married in white all the time. This would only be my guess though
Men don't wear white, yes, they have a white shirt on under their suit but, that's basically covered up by the suit jacket
Because its harder for a guy to get sex than a woman.
IF a girl goes to a bar and is semi attractive every single guy in that room would be willing to bang her and she could leave with a guy no problem that night if she wanted too. If a semi attractive guy goes to a bar, it is extremely rare for guys to be approached by a woman for sex.
Because of 1000s of years of male supremacist social conditioning. There's no other valid categorical answer as to why men and women practicing the same behavior,"in this context, is bad for one and good for the other without delving into chauvinist territory. Only in specific cases, like if a woman tried to pin a pregnancy on a dude when she knows she has been sleeping with other man does it become bad behavior.
It isn't fair nor right. One is a whore and the other is a whoremonger. However, based on society, specific to Western culture, is because alpha men attract lots women and has the personality to get them to sleep with him, while a whorish women just has to show up and look borderline decent and some weirdo at the bar will still have sex with her.
i guess, in a world where woman is considered as an achievemnt
usually one player gets one acievmnt every achievemnt have its own unique value one having many will be considered as special talented
achievemnt which many people can win are no more an achievmnt they r not a matter of pride they doesn't promote any talent.. fighting and winning them is an insult their value is very less
It's called that for only a moment your seeing it in real time in to give to ten years the girl will have what she wants in ten years the guy will be alone because he has burned every bridge and he was found out not to be the stud he thought hevwas
Alpha is an ego term used to explain a man who has a leader, dominant type of persona. Not a man who sleeps around, that's just as much of a slut as a women would be if sleeps around but what would you wanna call a woman who sleeps around if the term whore offends you? Lol a nan? An angel? 😂
In a the real world we have lables, and we judge. In a teen age mind we dispute and deny but never take responsibility. Lets just call her McDonald's drive through lol is that better metaphor? Or public puss service 😉
Any concept can be, I'm talking about a negative attitude in society. Although there is nothing wrong with this lifestyle. It's just that girls need to be treated the same way as guys.
So in the eye of your dad you should be the pride of the family sleeping around same way your brother sleeps around... Does it matter to you that one fucks and one gets fucked? Lol
I believe the term is 'Player' not alpha male and if youve had lots of partners you're successful, if you've cheated then you're a whore/player. I dont see why people say this so much, I've never seen a man get complimented for cheating, I've seen them get their ass kicked though. On the same note I've never seen a girl get called a whore for just trying with many guys as long as she didn't cheat. I usualy hear them get told 'YOU GO GIRL DAMN'
I wouldn't call a guy like that and Alpha Male, I'd call them a low-life player. As for women, it's best to keep your body count to yourself. It's no one's business but your own. If someone asks it's a red flag.
Because patriarchy, basically. Men took over the most powerful positions in most societies that survived and grew to dominate the world and they never allowed women enough rights to live equally and we're not moving away from that fast enough.
I think its because we can get pregnant where as a guy has no consequences he can choose to not be in a kids life where as we're usually stuck with having a kid.
Biologically speaking a man is to spread his seed as much as possible while a woman is to select the proper partner to get impregnated by. Not that any of this matters in current society, but that's why.
Is just a societal double standard. Sort of like women claim they are independent and 2ant 3quall treatment but get pissed when they get it because the want men to get the door or do the heavy lifting. Shit don't work both ways.
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Because it's nothin for a girl to get with a lot of guys.. It doesn't take work most times.. Whereas if guys have a lot of girls it shows that he has confidence, and swagger enough to have those women gravitate toward him.. I don't agree with either, but it's not the same because men and women are not the same.
Eew that's not an alpha male🤢🤢
I call them man whores. I don't encourage sleeping around for anyone regardless of the gender. But that doesn't mean i force my views on someone else
But that's a player and a man slut
The answer is because you care. As long as you give meaning to what everyone else says and thinks, they’re in control. I had plenty people call me a whore when I was a single young man dating around. The this is, it never bothered me one bit. lol Therefore it never mattered. Women should be able to date/smash as many people as they choose if they single. And nobody can put any title on them for it.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I call them fuckboys and douchebags if they're spend too much time and energy trying to get laid.
If he's successful enough to have women throwing themselves at him with little to no effort on his end, then yeah I guess "alpha male" is an appropriate description.
Because a quality woman is supposed to be selective. If a guy lays a lot of selective women, there has to be something attractive about him to get all those women to spread their legs for him. Conversely, if a woman is spreading her legs for a lot of guys, then she's not selective and therefore not a quality woman.
Lol no matter what if he is called alpha male or something else but nobody wants to love or settle with guys like that it's just sexual nothing more than that end results are the same both will be left feeling empty after the one night stands or nobody in real cares for them once the deed is done it's over
It likely has to do with the idea of the white wedding dress. White wedding dress is supposed to represent that she's a virgin, untouched, pure which is what white represents in general (pure).. Of course it's no longer really a thing. You see non virgin women getting married in white all the time. This would only be my guess though
Men don't wear white, yes, they have a white shirt on under their suit but, that's basically covered up by the suit jacket
Lol, I don't think the white wedding dress has failed so much of a cultural impact :)
What?
It is not things that determine culture, but culture that determines things.
Things DO determine culture, just as Culture determines things
Stop thinking in black and white, that's not how the world works hun
Because its harder for a guy to get sex than a woman.
IF a girl goes to a bar and is semi attractive every single guy in that room would be willing to bang her and she could leave with a guy no problem that night if she wanted too. If a semi attractive guy goes to a bar, it is extremely rare for guys to be approached by a woman for sex.
Because of 1000s of years of male supremacist social conditioning. There's no other valid categorical answer as to why men and women practicing the same behavior,"in this context, is bad for one and good for the other without delving into chauvinist territory. Only in specific cases, like if a woman tried to pin a pregnancy on a dude when she knows she has been sleeping with other man does it become bad behavior.
It isn't fair nor right. One is a whore and the other is a whoremonger. However, based on society, specific to Western culture, is because alpha men attract lots women and has the personality to get them to sleep with him, while a whorish women just has to show up and look borderline decent and some weirdo at the bar will still have sex with her.
i guess,
in a world where woman is considered as an achievemnt
usually one player gets one acievmnt every achievemnt have its own unique value
one having many will be considered as special talented
achievemnt which many people can win are no more an achievmnt they r not a matter of pride they doesn't promote any talent.. fighting and winning them is an insult their value is very less
It's called that for only a moment your seeing it in real time in to give to ten years the girl will have what she wants in ten years the guy will be alone because he has burned every bridge and he was found out not to be the stud he thought hevwas
Alpha is an ego term used to explain a man who has a leader, dominant type of persona. Not a man who sleeps around, that's just as much of a slut as a women would be if sleeps around but what would you wanna call a woman who sleeps around if the term whore offends you? Lol a nan? An angel? 😂
Lol, why define? A woman who sleeps with everyone is a woman who sleeps with everyone.
In a the real world we have lables, and we judge. In a teen age mind we dispute and deny but never take responsibility. Lets just call her McDonald's drive through lol is that better metaphor? Or public puss service 😉
Any concept can be, I'm talking about a negative attitude in society. Although there is nothing wrong with this lifestyle. It's just that girls need to be treated the same way as guys.
So in the eye of your dad you should be the pride of the family sleeping around same way your brother sleeps around... Does it matter to you that one fucks and one gets fucked? Lol
I don't care about other people's sex life. Other people shouldn't care about my sex life.
Lool It's all in your head... you think people care bur noone cares. But society has labels lol
I believe the term is 'Player' not alpha male and if youve had lots of partners you're successful, if you've cheated then you're a whore/player. I dont see why people say this so much, I've never seen a man get complimented for cheating, I've seen them get their ass kicked though. On the same note I've never seen a girl get called a whore for just trying with many guys as long as she didn't cheat. I usualy hear them get told 'YOU GO GIRL DAMN'
Yeah that is "Chad". There shouldn't be the mixup between alpha male and chad
I wouldn't call a guy like that and Alpha Male, I'd call them a low-life player. As for women, it's best to keep your body count to yourself. It's no one's business but your own. If someone asks it's a red flag.
Because patriarchy, basically. Men took over the most powerful positions in most societies that survived and grew to dominate the world and they never allowed women enough rights to live equally and we're not moving away from that fast enough.
I think its because we can get pregnant where as a guy has no consequences he can choose to not be in a kids life where as we're usually stuck with having a kid.
Biologically speaking a man is to spread his seed as much as possible while a woman is to select the proper partner to get impregnated by.
Not that any of this matters in current society, but that's why.
it is sad that in the modern world women perceive an incubator for a child
Less and less so, but 1000s of years aren't easily dispelled.
One represents a high social standing. The other represents a lack of self control.
For men, sleeping with 100 women is a challenge.
For women, sleeping with 100 men takes no effort at all.
But why is this behavior negative in society? What's wrong with having many partners?
It's a remnant from when STDs where not preventable.
The reason it has been more forgivable for men is due to the challenging involved.
Is just a societal double standard. Sort of like women claim they are independent and 2ant 3quall treatment but get pissed when they get it because the want men to get the door or do the heavy lifting. Shit don't work both ways.