I get you can be tired, but he doesn’t show me anything unless I initiate. And normally I am very, very affectionate, plan things for us, dress up for him, but sometimes I am not because I am not getting it back and being rejected hurts. Then when I stop he acts like I have a problem and ask why I am so quiet. Also he only works four hours a day, so I don’t get how he can sleep so much, we have kids, but I work as a nurse substitute and study to get a bachelor in nursing as well and I don’t fall asleep unless I plan to.
Why mu husband doesn’t initiate, ever?
I get you can be tired, but he doesn’t show me anything unless I initiate. And normally I am very, very affectionate, plan things for us, dress up for him, but sometimes I am not because I am not getting it back and being rejected hurts. Then when I stop he acts like I have a problem and ask why I am so quiet. Also he only works four hours a day, so I don’t get how he can sleep so much, we have kids, but I work as a nurse substitute and study to get a bachelor in nursing as well and I don’t fall asleep unless I plan to.