It's a guy thing. I've not been in a situation where I had to throw a punch in over 30 years, but even back then after I knocked the guy down I offered my hand afterwards.
It's mostly cause at the end of the fight you've kind of blown off all the anger. Moreover, if the person had heart/courage I gain respect for them. So the hand shake if a symbol that the argument ends here and we respect each other.
After you fight somebody a couple of things happen. You have just worked a lot of aggression out of your system and you have developed a healthy respect for your opponent.
Because that's how we resolve conflicts. Conflict is over, you didn't back down like a pussy and took responsibility, you're good now. Respect for that.
I did a poll on gag about justice. According to men, justice is closer to reconciliation than to revenge. Whereas all girls who voted in the poll said that justice is close to revenge (it is, but thats their opinion).
Us guys don't hold a grudge. I've only been in 2 fist fights my whole life. After we fought out our differences and relieved the tension we shook hands as a peace offering. There was no hard feelings between us.
Regarding second update. In that instance I would not have shaken his hand. Any guy that hurts a woman deserves to get hit with a pipe or something. Don't lay a hand on my woman or any woman for that matter
And this is why young men need fathers in their lives. If two men fight, it's because neither of them were bitches. A man who can throw a punch, take a punch, and won't back down deserves respect whether he won or lost.
Once it's done it's done. What has happened is over. Some athletes are like this. We will do everything we can to win during the game but we're friends outside of the game. Once the fight is done we've made out point.
You literally answered it; y'all hold a grudge, where as (at least in my experiences) men are taught that holding a grudge is poor form. You have a problem? Hash it out, be it physically or not, and drive on.
Over here that esists. Especially fotball supporters give each other rendez-vous for a fight between clans of different clubs. They fight for fun and accept the injuries. It's ridiculous but it happens ☹👹👹
I'm not aware of this phenomenon, but I'd assume it's out if respect. They both acknowledge that they're willing to get down and dirty and they admire that about each other.
True story.. I was seeing a girl who had sex with a friend of mine after we got in a physical fight we shook hands ( don't ask why?). Now we are close friends
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It's a guy thing. I've not been in a situation where I had to throw a punch in over 30 years, but even back then after I knocked the guy down I offered my hand afterwards.
Well i’ll give it to y'all. y'all def on some next level type
It's mostly cause at the end of the fight you've kind of blown off all the anger. Moreover, if the person had heart/courage I gain respect for them.
So the hand shake if a symbol that the argument ends here and we respect each other.
I see now. Thanks
After you fight somebody a couple of things happen. You have just worked a lot of aggression out of your system and you have developed a healthy respect for your opponent.
Ohhhh okay
Because that's how we resolve conflicts. Conflict is over, you didn't back down like a pussy and took responsibility, you're good now. Respect for that.
Ooo i like this explanation
In a word, its justice.
I did a poll on gag about justice. According to men, justice is closer to reconciliation than to revenge. Whereas all girls who voted in the poll said that justice is close to revenge (it is, but thats their opinion).
Oh wow thats a new perspective
Us guys don't hold a grudge. I've only been in 2 fist fights my whole life. After we fought out our differences and relieved the tension we shook hands as a peace offering. There was no hard feelings between us.
Lol this trips me out
Why is that
Cause ain't no way im making up with someone same day of we just whooped eachothers ass
The last fight I was in we had a few beers and laughs afterwards.
Regarding update. Us guys fight clean. We just throw punches. We don't have any hard feelings towards each other. When it's over, it's over
Regarding second update. In that instance I would not have shaken his hand. Any guy that hurts a woman deserves to get hit with a pipe or something. Don't lay a hand on my woman or any woman for that matter
Thank you 👏👏👏
No need to thank me. A guy is supposed to protect his girlfriend, and family. I would have killed the guy for hurting you.
This was the same whimp who took advantange of me sexually so ig i shouldn't be surprised
I'm glad you are done with him. You don't need someone like him. You deserve better
And this is why young men need fathers in their lives. If two men fight, it's because neither of them were bitches. A man who can throw a punch, take a punch, and won't back down deserves respect whether he won or lost.
Ohh i see
I think to show it’s done and everything is cool now even though I wanted to kill you just now go figure lol
Lmao
Lol. It's not always that we wanted to kill them. It's just that we wanted to beat them.
Once it's done it's done. What has happened is over. Some athletes are like this. We will do everything we can to win during the game but we're friends outside of the game. Once the fight is done we've made out point.
Im not referring to a sport. Im talking a fight over like a girl or something
Once it's done it's done
You literally answered it; y'all hold a grudge, where as (at least in my experiences) men are taught that holding a grudge is poor form. You have a problem? Hash it out, be it physically or not, and drive on.
Yea it just shocks me that dudes are cool same day like that
Only in America 🤣🤣🤣
No one does this where am from (Iraq)
Hiw do they do it in Iraq?
@Coulis keep talking smack, or! 40 people will be pulling the ones fighting from each other
LOL Im in Morocco. Same thing hahaahahah
40 lmao 😂 i mean here they do break apart a few fights but usually only between girls
For me there's a difference between wrestling and fighting. Wrestling is fun but knocking out is not.
Yea im referring to knocking somebody out lol
I ain't into it.
Neither am i but i wouldn't shake someones hand if i just knocked em out
Same here.
No clue, I usually find shaking hands with an unconscious person a bit difficult.
😂😂😂
I rarely fight, but once it's on it's not over until someone goes nite nite. LoL
Time to go night night niqqa 🤣
Maybe because the fights are for fun or to win "that girl".
Who bashes eachothers face in for fun
Over here that esists. Especially fotball supporters give each other rendez-vous for a fight between clans of different clubs. They fight for fun and accept the injuries.
It's ridiculous but it happens ☹👹👹
I'm not aware of this phenomenon, but I'd assume it's out if respect. They both acknowledge that they're willing to get down and dirty and they admire that about each other.
Oh ok
True story.. I was seeing a girl who had sex with a friend of mine after we got in a physical fight we shook hands ( don't ask why?). Now we are close friends
Lawd i can't 🤣
I could have lied :P
Respect. Thats only if the two see each other as equal or are impressed by their fighting.
Also, they get the tension out and don't feel upset anymore but otherwise most people don't unless its a trained fight.
Ahh okay. Well it definitely wasn't trained
I think it’s for respect. But I don’t get it honestly.
I didn't get it either but some people explained it well below. So i kinda understand now
Well cause a fight can settle an argument xD it's like a sign that both parties are agreeing on going back to civil behavior.
Ahhh okay
It's just getting out that aggression and settling differences, after that you're left with a sort of mutual respect and understanding.
Ahhh i see