As disgustedly asinine and typical her question was I a actually applaud her for being honest. If I was in her dating range I would at least know exactly how to treat her (like shit just as she wanted). But of course most women aren’t that honest and also some women have a strong enough self esteem to not be that stupid as her. But I believe at least third of women crave this “challenge” (which is often abuse) from men.
With that said whenever I see the “nice guy” syndrome debate arise in GAG debates I find that most people automatically throw the nice guy under the bus. Like the guy intentionally wants to be mistreated or something. Like he can make a instant fix if he wanted to.
But the reality of why so many western men suffer from this predicament is ultimately much more complicated. Having domineering/abusive mothers is often a huge unspoken problem. Also feminism in grade school education (and society as a whole) is confusing the living hell out of young men. They are just going along with what women “say” they want. Simple logic.
Anyway I don’t believe most men were born “nice”. That doesn’t mean they should be abusive assholes. They can be good guys with an edge. But why isn’t anybody pointing a finger at the source of this issue?
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