I am not going to pretend young but here is my opinion. When I was young I found their sexual acts weird and disgusting, but I didn't see that and I didn't have to think about it. So seeing such individuals was either weird or I simply did not recognize them as gay because I did not care. They are also a minority, so there is no threat either, quite contrary: they are usually threatened without justification, which hits my sense of justice. Later I found out that homosexuality in humans have similar frequency as in other species, so it is not a transmissible/learned/brainwashed thing - there's no way they can threaten my sexuality. Their role in society is quite positive: they help their siblings to raise their kids, contribute to arts, technology and culture in general. Moreover I do not have to compete with them for female attention, quite the oposite: if society suppress them, then they hide their sexuality and marry unsuspecting women which become less than happy - nobody benefits that.
So there is no rational explanation for hating homosexuals other than that weird inner emotion, which perhaps is stronger expressed in some people so that they cannot even reason. The only other source of hate I could find was religions which openly deny science and logic in general: they manipulate their masses using emotions and thus the discust gets amplified. In organized religions the hate of homosexuality has ironic outcomes: e. g. catholic church priests can only be men and they cannot marry, thus such carrier prospects attract men who would not want to marry women - the more they demonize gays, the more (confused) gays they get into their ranks because the religious parents are explicitly pushing their offsprings to either marry or serve their church. Gay priests still get their sexual urges, but they interpret them as demonic temptations, and thus they become even more disturbing and vocal about homosexual tendecies. Since they deny science and logic, they cannot find any other explanations than demonic supernatural, they are basically stuck in this hate loop.
The reason is your insecurities
The problem with broad sweeping generalisations is they rely on stereotypes that simply don't work in the real world.
Mostly young straight guys don't dislike gay folk. It's a small minority. In the same way it's not all white males in the southern states are in the kkk - most aren't.
If thats your experience of the world, then it's probably more reflective of the people you know and spend time with.
They don’t want to be identified as gay so they pretend to hate them so they have no association. The perception of a lack of masculinity is really scary to some men and they’d rather act like jerks toward gay men than risk anyone thinking they are less of a man. It’s stupid. Old men do it too.
Yes!
I'm sorry but not me I had too fight gays that wanted me to fuck them in the booty hole 2 gays. The other three were nicer but still gay.
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I can't speak for young guys but as an older guy I know a lot of gay guys, lesbians and I use to be okay with gays. Even attended a wedding.
After my daughter came out lesbian, the fights of her politics became a problem. She couldn't understand at 12 why I would not let her wear lesbian flagging, finger jesture of the side ways L on the face or date sexually. It got so bad she moved out.
Now we have all these young people wanting to start Pride Parades in small towns and where a few actually took place people dressed scantly and kinky. For the first time many of my friends ands neighbors are getting mad as hell about gays and pride. We don't want to hurt or mess with them, but they need to go back to their special places. That's it.
My son told me in his Roadblox game there were a lot of pride flags set out and gamers were destroying them. If anyone made pride references, they were attacked in the game.
I think that is the general consensus that the gays are turning militant. They expect to push their beliefs and lifestyles on straight people who would otherwise not care. In the past a homophobe would be seen as a gay guy who can't handle their truth. Now, it's yet another competing culture in a war that started last year. There are now some real critics, as I am.
I dislike stupidity, religion, insanity, and quite a few other things, I've hated gay men before, but it wasn't because they were gay. it's because they were being annoying or creepy or were one of the above.
Granted I also don't like being hit on by dudes and for some reason some people mistake being nice to people for having a thing for them.
Another thing I find annoying is that at more than 2 thirds of the gay people i've met overshare, I don't want to hear about what they are doing or want to do with guys, it's just gross to me, and some of the noises they make while talking are more cringy than "valleygirl speak".
I've had several gay friends who I played video games with, none of them stuck as friends because I couldn't relate to them or they started hitting on me or they turned out to be crazy.
Something else to point out, most people are stupid and I only get along with smart people, so the odds of a smart person being in a group of people who make up way less than 1% of men, is going to be very low. not impossible, but low (as is the likelihood of even running into a gay man while playing online in the first place).
I don't care who any guy humps as long as it's not me. But how many very smart gamer artist gay atheists have you met that are very logical and don't overshare and don't make awkward sexual noises mid sentence? my guess is not a lot.
As such, I feel like the sample size of that population is too low to say anything about them besides "a gay man that I would get along with enough to stay friends with? well you wouldn't be able to tell he was gay unless you asked, just like with most strait people"
I can understand why they might feel the need to overshare and advertise themselves (low dating pool numbers), but it's still annoying to deal with in party chat.
I don't dislike gay men. I find male homosexual sex to be gross, but it's not hate. As my bi male best friend once told me (because at one point I was concerned that I was harboring hatred), it's more about what I'm attracted/not attracted to. If I were gay, I'd find heterosexual sex to be gross.
Now when I was like 16-21 on the other hand, I did have something against gay men, but it's hard to put into words. I know it didn't have anything to do with machismo or anything because I've never been one of those big manly masculine grr men. Gayness was the punch line of a lot of jokes, and long before I even knew what sex was, "gay" was just a word you called someone you didn't like. Another part is personal insecurity. I got bullied a lot and called gay, so it got under my skin, and through some unknown mental process, I came to view gay men as a threat in some manner and became homophobic in the true sense of the term. It wasn't that I hated gay men but was scared of them - as though it were a communicable disease I could catch, and then all those elementary school bullies would have coincidentally been right about me. I doubt that there are many people have had experiences like that, but I do know that people have a tendency to not like what they don't understand or what's different. Another thing is repressed anger. If things make you angry, and you can't do anything about it, you may unconsciously look for some kind of outlet, and I think a lot of times, younger people find it cathartic to take their aggression out on easy targets so that they can feel some kind of power or control. Those are my thoughts, but I'm sure it's a complex issue. Nothing relating to human behavior is simple and clear cut.
My husband has told me it's not that he doesn't like gay guys it's just that he doesn't like that they make him feel violated when they objectify him and are super obvious. A lot of gay guys say a lot that they can turn a straight guy gay, my husband feels really uncomfortable knowing this and so it scares him that one day a guy will try something.
Now my guy has thought about experimenting in the past but realized shortly after a experiment with us he was not bi or even ever wanted to try anything again.
Overall it could be just how some gay guys act with straight men in inappropriate manner.
I can't stand the lisp, not walking normally, and the one hand thing on purpose. Acting that way there's a word for it but I forgot. It really irritates me they do that crap to tell everyone "hey I'm gay!" Yep we get it... you can be a homo and not do those stupid unnecessary things too.
Also the gay pride parades... same thing. Making a dumb statement to everyone to throw it in our faces that you're gay... yep we get it and it's unnecessary. We don't have straight pride parades because we're not retarded.
Lol you wouldn't recognize most gay people you retard.
I think a great many men are secretly bisexual and are afraid to let their guard down so they overcompensate by acting homophobic around gay men so as not to look like there is any doubt of their masculinity and straightness. As for me, I'm bi and still don't like some gay men. Extremely loud flamboyant gay men make me uncomfortable. Quiet, pretty feminine reserved gay men I'm ok with. Or for that matter any gay man who is not loud nor overly flamboyant I'm OK with. Now that I think of it I'm not that comfortable around loud overly butchy lesbians. Which is ironic since one of my best friends is a very butch lesbian though she only gets loud when the occasion demands it which is not often.
For the same reason that women don't like pushy over sexual guys.
They hit on us, invade our personal space, disrespect our wishes, and try to get in our pants when we are just treating another dude like another dude.
We don't like gay men because we can neither treat them like men, or women. Espically when they usually only treat other men as potential sex partners. Once you make it clear that you only want to be platonic they shove off.
Plus it's mega uncomfortable to hang out with gay men when they ask you to do things like go swimming with them.
Lol you're so insecure
Insecurity in my experience. Like the loudest meanest most hateful against gay dudes I've met secretly love cock and they're jealous and angry that someone else can be out and happy and they can't for whatever reason.
Also some dudes are just up their own ass and they hate gays because they think gays will treat them like they treat women. Something to bang and mistreat
from what I’ve heard from my gay friends.
They don’t want to be gazed at & hawked like they do to same thing to women, basically they don’t want the taste of their own medicine.
(Not saying all men are like this, so relax)
No that's complete bullshit. Men would actually love that from women.
The real reason is their insecurities about liking guys. That's it.
@kevyhanma so a 3rd world shithole.
@Hallo626262 like I said, that’s what I was told. Not saying that’s the case. Relax
What that Hallo guy said literally made no sense
Honey when you're too dumb to understand something then it's on you. Cutie
It's just outside the norm for a lot of people. I know my parents were raised strongly opposed to gay people in general and don't enjoy me associating with gay people because the concept is so foreign to them. A lot of it is also bad influence from the media, and social media, encouraging people to belittle gay folk. It's kind of the sad reality, but it's the truth. Schools have to educate younger people better on sexuality and that it's ok to be a gay man or woman.
Because they dont want to taste their own medicine. Some guys disrespect women by catcalling/ staring at them like a pig but when a man does the same to him, he freaks out. This is why i often go out with my 6'2 tall gay friend who work out. It is so funny to make these incesure manchilds taste their own medicine.
Not all men are like this. I said SOME
Guys, in general, don't have the easiest time separating friendships from romance. In turn, they get sketched typically when they know someone they view as a friend or "bro" is romantically interested in men. Guys, in general, also have a hard time understanding you can be friends with someone even if they're capable of being romantically interested in you. They, in general, perceive guy men as men willing to sleep with any guy akin to how many guys would be willing to sleep with any girl.
To a large degree it’s like any other form of hate, it’s taught and flourishes in people who are less educated. I taught high school for years, for a few years kids started to be ok with their homosexual peers. The last few years it became cool to be a redneck again and I saw more kids talking negatively about being gay. Watching some of those grow up, it turns out a few were simply uncomfortable with their own feelings. Sadly I’ve also seen many older men revert to this attitude that being gay is unnatural. They are also kinda dumb because it’s perfectly natural. These kind of guys are often loud and stand out. There are plenty of us straight guys who are fine with people of different sexuality. In college I was often relieved to find out a guy was gay, because that meant we weren’t going to compete for the girls I was interested in.
To me, to each their own.
There are definitely some annoying things about gay culture. Being hit on them by men is annoying too, as they always seem to have some other intention and don't respect that you're straight. It's also, again to generalise, a very sex orientated and superficial culture. I've even had gay guys say this.
Immaturity… But people have their opinions, and someone who doesn't like gay people at a young age might not change with time. FWIW: the vast majority of straight people I know do not have a problem with gays, but they do not appreciate the way some gay people are very in-your-face about their sexuality.
I don't know many people that actually hate gay people. People use the word fag often, but honestly in my experience gay people have used it often and been totally fine with others using it. After all they like that dirty talk stuff.
Also in my experience it’s gay people that end up not liking me because of my religious beliefs even though I never say anything to offend them and always treat them like I would anyone else.
Because their disgusting the once I met were trust me I had gays hitting on my a lot they wanted me to fuck them in the booty for gifts I got offered cash and a car once🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮. They made out in front in a supposed to be clean environment 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I had to suffer🥺🥺. Then I saw this 50 year old nasty gay making out out with an 18 year old on top of the produce🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮.
All truth no trolling why the thumbs duwn
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I don't care at all but a lot of guys do for whatever reason. My dad for example seems to have a problem with them despite saying he isn't a homophobe. Like a lot people, he complains about gay guys "pushing their sexuality in your face" despite him doing the same thing and openly talking about his past sexual endeavours all the time (which I NEVER wanted to hear as a kid😂). I don't know, I don't get it.
I only dislike those gay men who are flamers.
Ain't nothing wrong with being gay. But many gays are no rush. If straight men flaunted their sexuality they would be frowned upon.
My point is this.
No matter whom you fuck, no one needs to know about it.
What are you talking about? Literally so many straight guys flaunt their sexuality and brag about who they fuck all the time.
Because the straight guys are secretly afraid that they might be gay too.
Anybody else remember when Brokeback Mountain came out and all the straight guys loudly declared they would never go see it? They were terrified they'd end up getting turned on.
Prob because of the stronger attraction gay people have with each other. Heck... Sometimes even i get jealous, like bruv have you seen the way gay couples look at each other, the eye contact always makes me feel lonely af😭
I can't say for young guys, but my g/f has a few gay friends and they are hilarious.
Some of my friends are frightened to be associated with them because they are frightened of being labelled gay. To which I reply with 'don't be such a twat'.
They oftern make straight men feel weird or insecure because they been raised to be the complete opposite of what most gay men are supposedly like they also been taught to be weirded out by people being gay and worry that they be attracted to them also oftern young men liking breaking society rules so they might be homophonic because they like being offense
Not sure. These days "men" can find problems where there are none. For example the internet blues brand men as SIMPs if they have even an ounce of respect for women or pick up the pen she accidentally dropped.
It's ridiculous.
One thing I learned from the homosexuals indirectly is that women tend to like them some more than non-homosexuals thanks to their flamboyancy and not fearing being called gay since they go shopping for outfits and experiment with their looks in many ways.
The remnants of christianity's war on human sexuality, that's all.
I think that's all it is. However it has warped and shaped and changed to fit today, doesn't matter.
You may find it’s also country specific
I’ve a couple bi / gay friends including a close friend.
and usually the main hassle is from individuals around their age, or groups of youths.
Its simple... its against the natural way of life.
Thats why... no oldest religion tolerate such act.
Careful bro, your gonna confuse some people with that first statement
They can be annoying and weird at times but i don't generalize anything (anyone can be like that, not just a particular group of people) nor do i dislike the whole community but a few of em (and thats not because they're gay)
Same reason as girls hate when guy friends ruin platonic friendships by trying to hit on them, you can never know the intentions of a gay man for certain.
That makes no sense, that’s like saying women could never know a mans intentions for sure, the saying women really dislike men in general
I would guess it is because they are insecure with themselves while they are perfectly fine watching two women have sex. It's kind of hypocritical.
s I never understood why guys here do that. The question was about guys being insecure with gay men. I answer the question about why they might but it is hypocritical because they will watch two women and inevitably there is someone who shows up and says "yeah well what about?"
That wasn't the question. Don't take it so personally and try to deflect from the question. Its like me asking what is everyone's favorite mammal and you pipe in with "yeah but have you seen ducks?"
Young guys? Like, around your age? That's odd. Unless it's just a regional or cultural thing. Have you seen similar attitudes in older guys?
Straight men in general don't give a shit.
Stop confusing the minority of hates with the generals.
Studies indicate that unlike men, all women are either bisexual or gay, so the question is: why do you want to lead us down your path?
Their is no gender difference
Me: studies
You: feelings
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Lol you're too dumb to evaluate that situation.
Me: realz
U: feelz
No you are just too dumb for any scientific work. Sorry
How many men is your sample size consisting of? We all can benefit from thinking bigger than our inner circle/bubble. It's possible it's an immaturity thing or you're just surrounded by assholes.
Because young men are stupid and don't think that it just means more women for them.
And they also want everybody to be like them, anybody different needs destruction.
We are biological programmed to feel disgusted by it 🤷 however i do not dislike them i just dislike seeing the sexual acts
Its not that I dislike them I just dont wanna see them doing anything romantic, but its the same as anyone else too really, no one wants to see all that
Because they give off a weird vibe. It's uncomfortable.
Because many men are afraid of their own homosexual impulses
This is so true for men. Women usually aren't afraid i guess that's why gay men are mostly close friends with women
It's not gay people they dislike, it's the flamers. And even gay people dislike the flamers.
Cause they aren't from same chemical mind set on their body. One is attracted to same another to opposite. Can't change chemicals in your body.
Maybe I'm wrong but I think some men dislike gay guys because they make women uncomfortable so they think gay guys will make them feel the same
I don't. I think anyone should be allowed to be with whoever they want regardless. I just don't want any of them to try it on me though!
Well I don't don't like gay guys. I think a lot of men really don't care about a guy being gay or not. But I think men who really don't like them have something to hiiiide and they think its bad.
Come on you’re a grown woman woman what do you think
Most of them don't dislike them 'cuz they're gay, but because they're so open about it and shove it down people's throats and demand special treatment
@Goatmeal Affirmative action. and playing the gay card if they get fired or something doesn't go their way
@Goatmeal Oh yeah, yeah. Absolutely
are you fuckin kiddin?
a straight guy is NATURALLY going to dislike gays.
Because of the disproportionate amount of pedophiles in their ranks, their flamboyancy with no class and their insistence for attention merely for existing.
I don't have a problem with gay people. If it doesn't affect me I don't really care.
My brother kind of hates gays. He doesn’t even like our cousin as much since she’s bi.
He's gay
@Hallo626262 YEAH he actually is
It’s just gross, that’s all. Older guys just get used to it and don’t care.
Because its disgusting and wrong. God made man and women. Not man and a whole bunch of men. Its a mental illness accepted as something normal
Hahahah you're so dumb
Girls say the same thing😁🤣🤣
Really where? No seriously I'm curious..
Cuz all I see is fags🤦♀️
I will never understand that.
Because a lot of Gay Guys act like a Woman and it makes them look like they hate Men.
I never understood that about gay guys! Okay, you're gay. You're looking for a MAN to have sex with but, quite often, the only thing you have to chose from is guys that do their damnedest to present as women!! WHY present as a woman if the guys you're trying to 'catch:" are interested in MEN? I'd think they'd prefer to act as John Wayne as possible!! I don't present as female at all in public yet, I keep getting hit on by gay guys!!
@FunkyMonkee Not all gay guys are effeminate. Perhaps they're just more obvious. Freddy Mercury was not that effeminate, was he?
i always thought they just find it gross
I don’t but I guess I’m a rare breed
It's gross and insulting
Most them follow the crowd
they are as annoying as girls are in a lot of ways
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