Why do guys stop putting in effort after a while? (Page 3)

[Likethesky]

Because guys are lazy

[CantGetItUp]

Maybe you should tone it down

[JesseJayNeak]

Girls are part of the problem too

[Anonymous]

because you can't give us what we want

THAT SIMPLE
change ladies

[Asianguy123]

Yeah it’s like they quickly settle down

[BeenThereLovedIt]

And women NEVER do that.

[Anonymous]

benefits is not worth

[MrJMM]

Putting effort in what?

[Asker]

The relationship

[MrJMM]

Ok but like… what happened? Like specifically?

[Asker]

Takes longer to reply, rarely calls, leaves me to make all the plans etc

[MrJMM]

Maybe he’s going through something?

[Asker]

He says nothing is wrong

[MrJMM]

Well maybe he is just hiding it but he doesn’t want to say it just don’t force him to say anything because it may worsen something up.

[red_knight]

So basically you're clingy and dont like making decisions coz you dont see him trusting you with asking you first about your point of view and choices.

Got it. When people mature they give eachother room to do things like their priorities and life.. theyll still love you as much.

[rcljr]

They get no return investment

[JamesRandiDebates]

Women aren't worth it.

[ShadowMaster451]

This was kind of random dude and its kind of the type of outlook she didn't ask for. Either put an opinion about the question or nothing at all. That easy. I don't even like the way she put the question but at least I put an opinion.

[KrakenAttackin]

@ShadowMaster451 Thank you Save-A-Hoe 451.

[JamesRandiDebates]

@ShadowMaster451 Nothing random about it at all, Mr. White Knight. My response was a succinct and appropriate answer to the question asked.

[yofuknutz]

Mr. Shadow Master if you don't like reality you better get back on your drugs real fucking quick because it's about to get real we are in the middle of a cultural war and it's going badly for us

[KrakenAttackin]

@yofuknutz Abso6, spot on, fucking correct.

[ShadowMaster451]

Wth y'all are the one that started it. Woman are worth the time for the experience and learning even if you think they aren't worth it after. You all have a negative outlook and it's ignorant.

[JamesRandiDebates]

@ShadowMaster451 ignorant of what, exactly?

[ShadowMaster451]

Ignorant about time, love, and women.

[JamesRandiDebates]

@ShadowMaster451 You need to learn the definitions of words you plan to use as insults.

[ShadowMaster451]

Wtf are you talking about? I know the definition.

[Clarke498]

Guys are the only one doing this?

[Fuentes]

Lol woman get fat too

[SamE86]

That's funny 😂!!! " That's a huge bitch!!!"

[Joker_]

They're lazy

[Slim57]

The men or women @joker_

[Joker_]

@Slim57 Me, I am lazy

[Landy24]

gets boring doesn't it

[qwert1234]

Now define effort?

[Asker]

Making the plans rather than leaving it to the girl, talking more to her, actually making her feel wanted etc

[qwert1234]

Have you like, told him how you feel?

[Asker]

Yep and he goes alright sorry and still doesn’t try

[qwert1234]

Maybe he's not mature enough. I think men mature later than women. Obviously this is not the standard but it happens.
If it bothers you, why don't just end it?

[qwert1234]

*end the relationship

[Asker]

Because I love him so much I can’t imagine him not being in my life. The thought of that hurts a lot

[qwert1234]

Do you love him or are you afraid of being alone?
I read some of the answers that you are now in your 3rd year in the relationship?

[Asker]

I do love him. So much. That is my problem

[David_Bayer]

For the same reason women do...

[Luckycharms12]

That's sexist

[topramen1565]

Very sexist.

[SamE86]

Sure is!

[SuccessfulHornDog]

As do women.

[hellacray]

Haha define effort.

[outlaw28]

No comment

[Slim57]

Because women never put forth effort ever lol

[Asker]

Did you even bother reading the question description?

[Anonymous]

For example?

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Same reason women do