Why don’t men make the first move? (Page 3)

[Siren777]

Maybe you're not approachable or he thinks you're taken. He assumes. Men make the first move for the women they want.

[Curmudgeon]

Because the rewards of doing so have fallen, and the risks and costs of doing so have risen. When something rewards less and pays off less, you get less of it.

[Tiptoetamm]

They want to be respectful and it's super sweet so I make the first move a lot

[Vikkrram]

You know what... I am answering it all straight... We all wanna play safe and we all fear from Rejections... that's it. Wether it's a man or women.

[K-I-S-S]

Not many women are worth it these days.

So guys tend to want to make sure the woman is a great catch first, the ones who actually want to hang out with you between sex sessions.

[Avicenna]

We do, but sometime the first move comes in other ways. For example, a young lady spoke to me yesterday to see if I was single so she could hook me up with her mom.

[TruthBringer]

Hmmmm

[FilmGuy93]

It's just not worth the effort. The women aren't offering what we actually want/need emotionally, so it's not very compelling to get after a girl just to get laid, you know?

[Renegade_Sailor]

Because society started punihing men for being classically masculine.

[007kingifrit]

they used to. but left wing politics are so disgusting and vitriolic and feminists are so overwhelmingly unpleasant to be around and 70% of women vote democrat under 30

so; its the democrat's fault

[FictionalCharacter]

Can we please not talk about politics during sex?

[007kingifrit]

@FictionalCharacter i wish. but no we have to talk about politics.

women are using social media too much. social media is inherently politics heavy. thus women are viewing too much politics

[Anonymous]

Because men are terrified that a first move would be interpreted ad some kind of sexual assault or harassment, and land him in prison, and ruin his life. Making the first move is literally the most dangerous thing a man can do with a woman.

[genericname85]

Because today nothing a man can do to approach a woman is considered ok. It's all considered offensive or abusive or rape-is... That's why. Thank feminism for men not approaching Girls anymore.

[hahahmm]

Guys better start wearing vest cams. Even if she enjoys you approaching and goes on dates with you, she could wait 5 years and claim you sexually harassed her.

[genericname85]

@hahahmm that went help you. Cause even if you manage to convince the biased judges, you'll still love with the stigma even if she straight up admits that she just lied.

[genericname85]

Won't not went XD thanks Auto correct... helpful as ever

[Anonymous]

Same reasons why women dont make the first move. If you like a guy, approach him. Who knows- you may meet your soulmate.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol how some men are "afraid of getting accused of harrassment or rape".
Just admit you are mad that you can't harrass women by cat calling or by really sexual harrassment. I dont know america but even if you are raped, your rapists is free in the most of cases since rape is difficult to prove. So i really dont understand the irrational fear of getting accused of such things except you did such things. Even if you do you can't get arrested

[grega239]

Uts not an irrational fear. Even if innocent, the accusation will hang over a mans head because of what the accusation is for.

[Opinion Owner]

I only see the opposite to the point i will do self justice rather going to police since i often saw that nothing happened to perpetrator when going to police even if you have some evidence. But i can understand since rape or sexual harrassment is very hard to prove. However i dont know usa but i dont think that you can get essily arrested and get put in jail without proof.

[ChiPaPa]

What planet are you on? Men ask all the fucking time. I spent fourteen years looking for a girlfriend, making the first moves.

[Jem38]

Some are conservative. some are shy to make the first move.

[TheBigGuy9]

Men are currently being turned into what it’s like to not be a man. I see it when I talk to people. It’s like they have gaps missing in their brain of what makes a man, a man.
You’re fucked!

[moviedude714]

Maybe a lot of guys are getting tired and resentful of having to be the initiators? But lots of them still do since society and nature or the world still dictates that of guys

[KingofCups]

In reality, women always signal to men when they want to be approached and then men take the initiative. A 'cold approach' without a subtle invitation almost always ends in failure

[iWantToCry]

True

[Grubhub]

I don’t because most girls I come across are either nervous or avoid eye eye contact with me so I don’t approach. I don’t approach because I don't know if they find me attractive or find me creepy or perhaps they’re scared of me.

[Mortdikeuu]

A guy that I've liked for years just told me he liked me. I actually want to burst with happiness.

[_no_one_]

It's been a while since I made the first move coz honestly i don't really feel like doing it anymore.

[WA786K]

Same here bro, I don't even blame you a lot of girls just love to play games to much.

[_no_one_]

tbh its not them either, maybe i just got bored of it. Been a while since i had a crush on someone as well.