What does it mean if a guy asks your friends if you talk about him with them?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean if a guy asks your friends if you talk about him with them? He and I are in situationship and we both like each other , but he keeps asking my friends if I talk ab him with them and I think this is kinda.. creepy. Is he a possessive guy? Or is he feeling insecure?

[Anonymous]

First I don’t really know this dude or how he says it so I cannot be 100% sure. But I will answer based on my own conclusions and experience.


Everyone knows that a person’s best friends know most things about them. Plus people usually confide in their friends especially about their crush/boyfriend.
Does he know you like him?
He probably was just trying to find out what you say/think about him. If he doesn’t know if you like him then that could be what he’s trying to find out. I will be honest I have done this before. A guy I liked a couple years ago he and I had a mutual friend who he talked to a lot. I used to ask her like had he said anything about me or do you think he likes me?


I don’t think it’s obsessive or creepy. But you know the guy and it is your opinion that matters.

[Asker]

Thank you so much , this really helped me a lot...
Yes, this guy knows that I like him..
I told him very clearly that I like him so that is why I thought he was feeling insecure :(

[Opinion Owner]

You are so welcome! 😁
I don’t know if he is being insecure or just curious. He may just want to know what you say to your friends about him or basically what you truly think of him.