I met this guy a couple of month ago. It was a date initially but ended up becoming a one night stand. Even though we have kept in touch, we haven’t seen each other since then. We live in different cities and our work schedules are completely different so it isn’t easy to see each other even for a casual fling…anyway, . his birthday is coming up and he invited me to his birthday party…. I’m not sure why he invited me because we didn’t try to meet up after the night…what do you think his intention is?
How come he invited me to his birthday party?
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He's hoping to get laid for his birthday
That’s what I was guessing too or maybe he is a type of person who wants many people around him to celebrate.
He's not turning 10. That's not the reason.
I don't know if I should go... If his intention is getting laid I can't give it. I would just stay for a couple of hours max and leave If I go to the party.
He'll be expecting it. That doesn't mean you have to give it. Although, I'd say decline the invite so he doesn't get his hopes up or gets the opportunity to invite another girl. But inviting a one night stand. I'd bet he figured if he got it once he'd get it again.
I wouldn’t mind doing it again but I have other priority….. it’s not the ideal timing for me.
If you're down to go to the party and are okay with hooking up. It's not like he's expecting you to stay all night or start a relationship. So, if that works for you and sounds like fun to you. Why not? Have some fun for the night without further expectations.
There is part of me that I want to go but I have an important work obligation the next morning so I can't stay up late... I told him that I'm quite busy with work but I'll try to make it, he hasn't read or replied my message. Would it be weird If I drop by briefly to wish him happy birthday without getting intimate?
There could be a lot of reasons.
Thanks for your comment. All I can think of is that he wants to get intimate again or maybe wants attention? Yeah only he knows the answer.
Or maybe he's social person who wants to invite everyone. Emotional, gotattached or is just being kind.
probably because he likes you... go to the party.
He invited me two days before the party so probably not. We also don’t communicate that often. I’m not sure if I want to go…. I kind of want to see him but I’m not sure what he is expecting. His friends will be there and I don’t know him well either.
well it's up to you but nothing ventured nothing gained. bring a friend with you
He wants to smash?
That’s what I thought too…. I’m not sure if I want to go. His friends I have never met will be there and I don’t know him well either. thank you for your comment.
You're welcome, follow your gut instinct on this.