I can't seem to make him understand how hurtful and disrespectful it is to me to celebrate his birthday and tell me I am not allowed. First time he went to Pismo Beach riding all weekend and said no girls were allowed. But then upon return he was taking shots with one of the girls they have been friends with. The second year he was renting my house from me, and he threw a large party, sent out a evite and invited all his friends and family and told me I wasn't allowed. He said because one of his friends didn't like me that it wasn't a good idea if I came. This year he pulled the same crap again and I told him I could no longer be in a relationship with someone who feels there perfect birthday, is a day without me. In his response all he says is, its My birthday, I can do what I want. Why are you so selfish on my birthday. What I don't think he understands is how hurtful it is. Am I out of line?