Could he be jealous of his friend (31F, 33M)?

[Anonymous]

I’m close friends with this guy, no one knows about “us” because we work together, but I’ve had feelings for him for about a year now. I confessed to to him, he seemed to feel the same, but then denied and said “just friends”. Now his best buddy at work started talking to me, out of nothing, everyday (I don’t think he put him to it) and I was wondering if he could feel potentially jealous. It’s worth noting that my friend and I talk everyday, we have good chemistry, but I’ve decided to distance myself lately, which’s making him text me everyday instead.

[Siren777]

If he agreed to being "just friends" it's best if you forget about him and move on. You're his friend now but you still have feelings for him. Best to distance yourself. Work romance is so complicated and best to keep things professional as this can cost you, either of them are probably not worth the cost. Besides his friend is suddenly part of the picture. You don't want this to end in games.

[Asker]

I’ve tried to distance myself, but whenever I do he messages me and is all chatty. I can’t cut off all ties because we work directly and literally everyday :(

[Siren777]

Chat normal but don't be as available to him as you were before.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Stay away from this drama & games.
May be they both will played you and you never understand this game's.

[Asker]

I’d be extremely shocked if he put this guy up to it, I don’t think this is the case. However, I’m very suspicious of this guy’s sudden interest… just too random.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Be honest me & my friend played this game so many times and than we both fucked girls one by one and she thinks she is playing but actually played by us. So I warn you don't fall in trap.

[Asker]

His friend is only texting, so far it’s “innocent” and I really cannot see this happening. His friend is married, with a baby, it’s just too risky for games.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Baby you see my intension is only to warn you.

Married with baby and texting young & beautiful girl. You still don't understand anything?

[Asker]

Ugh I know. Maybe I’m in denial? I just don’t wanna think he has an agenda…

[Sam_The_Savage]

Baby you're too innocent to understand this game's. I wish I protect you from this scams.

[Asker]

Hahaha as for me I’m good. Nothings gonna happen with his friend regardless of what he wants. Not my type ;)

[Sam_The_Savage]

Aww now you talk like a smart & intelligent girl 😘❤️

[noohair]

Workplace romance is very dangerous for men. One accusation is a death sentence.

[Asker]

I’d never thought. We did sext and exchange nudes a couple of months ago, but due to some other issues we stopped it and have been friends since.

[whatsthereinname]

Sexted and nudes and then just friends!

Doesn't sound too be in sync

[Asker]

@whatsthereinname I know it sounds weird but we flirted a lot, sexted, got into an argument and then stopped it all. Now we’re just texting as friends.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

those are all the luxuries of those who work very little yet even get paid for that!

[Asker]

Hahaha if only. I can multitask ;)

[scott04sa22]

Romance at a workplace. Not good!

[Asker]

Already too late, but hasn’t impacted our work together at all. I’m 110% sure others aren’t even suspicious.

[scott04sa22]

Good luck

[spartan55]

Who is jealous?

[Asker]

My friend. He’s very short whenever I mention the other guy.

[spartan55]

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but guys don't like hearing about other guys. We don't care
Doesn't mean he's jealous.

[Anonymous]

Avoid workplace romances at all costs.

[Iron_Man]

Time will tell