Why are men like this?

[Anonymous]

tbh you can't trust any men. they always have something hiding. they aren't loyal... they never will be so don't even think for a sec they would be saw on tik tok how a psychologist said he was studying red flags for men and said you can't and shouldn't trust most men. also saw another one where a bartender said that she hopes not all men are like the ones she sees in the bars flirting with other women or talking sh! t about their women to their friends (clearly in a relationship or married) And str! pper saying how her best costumer are married men. I'm a larger women so I know men don't like that. Do they? Why can't I find someone decent. so I give up?

[hahahmm]

Guys don't share a lot with women because women don't actually care about what guys have to share so they learn not to waste it on women.

Guys aren't loyal to whores & women who act like whores. Bartenders tend to be in the category of "whores & women who act like whores". it's how they make tips.

"And str! pper saying how her best costumer are married men." -- And? The women complaining about that would be the same women who claim they shouldn't have to dress up for their man and making excuses about being fat & lazy. My wife always told me she was okay with me going to a strip joint. I never did because it's not my thing.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure you can! You just haven't found the right ones. I feel the same way about broads!! The only ones I've met that I feel I CAN trust are already taken!
I know of 3 guys, off the top of my head, that married huge women! Either they don't care about her being fat or they prefer it! If there's 3, there's GOT to be more! I don't prefer it but, so far, all 3 of my girlfriend's have been at least slightly overweight! My first was very overweight!

[AGhostSpider]

Men aren't loyal? You can't trust men? That is like men saying every woman is a slut or a bitch! You can't and I mean CAN'T have this mentality, Just because they might treat you bad and you seek out the bad ones who will treat you bad then that is an issue with you!

Now what I would suggest is learning FROM those bad ones, if the guy behaves like one from before, throw up a guard. Be prepared for the BAD ONES. But if you keep that mentality then I would say go lesbian so you can see BOTH sides are equally screwed up

[FreyaRed]

Entire society is 'use it and throw away' one. Turning down your expectation in matter of emotional bond and passion with guys will make you happier.

[Mango-man]

Well, only specific part of male population will go hit on women at the bar. I highly doubt anyone expects husband/wife material to b found at the bar.

It is like going into gaming cafe with hopes of find men who like to spend their time exercising.

[jasco]

Honestly first red flag i see on you is how your blaming all men for problems that may or may not come from you. 2nd red flag, your letting tik tok/social media control your life and how you see things which is extremely bad, 3rd red flag ( proud of you to realize this ) that your clearly bigger than average. 4th red flag instead of trying to be better your just gonna give up. Why not lose weight, why not try and change your attitude towards life and men. Wouldn't that make things easier for you in finding a better man?

[Asker]

Didn't know me being bigger hindered me from finding someone decent. men like bigger women.

[jasco]

their are some men that do. but for the most part they don't.

[Asker]

A lot do actually. 🤷‍♀️

[jasco]

Didn't you say yourself that you are a larger women and I know a men don't like that? Also I said some, as in yes their are men out their in the world who do like larger women and thats good for them but for the most part they don't because its just not who they are. If we were to ask a man who does like larger women would he date you or this women who is better looking what do you think he will choose

[InferiorElegy]

You give up, that's all on you. There's probably plenty of guys around you who have tried to date you or tell you they like you but you ignore them because your standards make you think you should aim for someone higher to you. You don't want to trust men that's also on you, I can easily say I don't trust women because all they want is free food and a man's money.

[slatyb]

Why do you keep wasting time on men like that? None of the men I know are like that.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what the sources of your idiocy is, but your are certainly an idiot. Here's a little dose reality for you. It's a statistical fact that most men never cheat, and that women your ag cheat more than men.

It's also a fact that bitter women are a huge turnoff, something that should hit close to home for you.

[In_Trance]

It's not about trusting men; it's about trusting yourself

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't trust anybody until you know them well enough. Its all about what people do. This isn't just about men. I wouldn't trust that psychologists.

[Anonymous]

Their dna is out of order

[Iron_Man]

Thats your rant for the day

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why women are like that

[Slim57]

Tiktok isn't real life

[LegendaryIcon]

grow up!

[jimmy2]

Not true