Why hasn’t he opened the message yet?

[Aimee_]

I’m the green bubble he’s the grey one

What is he waiting for it’s either a yes or no answer.

[Growleee]

Couple of talking points for this one. I read through about how you guys aren't even dating?
I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but for a lot people this kind of behavior might be a red flag. I don't know how old you are, but this is eerily similar to a relationship I had with a girl & thinking back 12 years ago - it was probably the most toxic relationship I've ever been in. This would be a full-stop for me, personally.

I also feel as though we're missing a *bunch* of context for this one. He became jealous when you were hanging out with another guy? The context there is also important - have you dated or fooled around with this other guy? Were you two alone or at a gathering/event? Were you two with friends? Have you & Rob ever talked about the possibility of you two dating or is this a one-sided relationship?
There's a lot that "could be" and plenty of "what if's" here, but I can recommend something.. Try slowing things down when you're talking to him, if you two do begin to talk again - don't assume or insinuate *ANYTHING*, if he says/does something that makes you question your friendship or relationship, don't get upset immediately.. It's mental chess, try to be the calmer person, ask him what he meant/how he meant what he said, and you might find the miscommunications begin to slow, and from there you guys can get a clearer line of what's going on between you two.
Disclosure; this is also not a tip to just take shit from this guy, either. If you're feeling like he's wronging you in some harmful way - you need to split & stop giving him that sliver of control over you.. And also don't do it in a way that makes *you* out to be the crazy one..

[Anonymous]

Unless you get emotional help you and learn to stay away from guys who just want one thing you will continue to follow the same path and give into guys, you just want sex from you, I'm sorry but this seems like the same thing also you want love to be in a relationship not just all sex

[FlutteringFeelings]

You already said what you needed to say. "If you don't want me contact you ever again" and the last two messages after that. He might ignore the message and move on with is life or continue one wording you until you get annoyed with yourself and continue asking him what did you do wrong.

[Beautyforeverybody]

He does not want to talk and does not know how to say it to you. Take a hint and don’t message him again

[Aimee_]

How are you so sure about that

[Beautyforeverybody]

Because I can see from his behaviour. If a man wanted to reply, trust me he would.

[Aimee_]

Then what’s the point of not telling me the truth

[Beautyforeverybody]

He fears conflict probably and wants you to figure it out on your own

[Aimee_]

He got mad at me because I said I was with another guy after that he started behaving this way. We are not even dating. Then I’m the crazy one

[Beautyforeverybody]

oh, then it sounds more like jealousy. He could be into you

[Aimee_]

Oh fuck him to be honest. He’s toying me at this point and I’m acting stupid

[Beautyforeverybody]

Then let him go. Don’t waste time on a man you don’t like :) I’m sure you will find someone

[molonski2]

If anyone spoke to me like that I wouldn't answer either , the wording is not deserving of even a response.

[Aimee_]

He’ll answer

[molonski2]

If he answers to that the man has ZERO self respect , you dont address people in this manner , unless your goal is to hang with the illiterate

[Aimee_]

Dude you can think of me whatever you want. He wished karma on me for being with another guy !!

[SnakeBoop]

get over yourself a tad. you sound so toxic to deal with. a r/nicegirl

[Aimee_]

You’re saying I’m toxic?

[spartan55]

Lol, like he owes you an explanation... there are consequences for acting like a bunny boiler...

[spartan55]

You tried to make him jealous and it completely backfired on you.

[Aimee_]

What is a bunny boiler

[spartan55]

Watch the movie Fatal Attraction

[spartan55]

You are coming like a real psycho. This may surprise you, but guys don't like that.

[Aimee_]

Dude who are you in my life? You don’t even know what he’s like fuck off sincerely

[spartan55]

So hostile, 😂. You sound like a real sweetie. I'm sure he really enjoys you acting like a crazy girl. Lol, I don't have to know him to know that's true.
Guess your jealousy plan backfired.

[spartan55]

Oh, I'm someone who knows a hell of a lot more than you about

[spartan55]

This stuff.

[Aimee_]

But he did act jealous. Trust that

[spartan55]

Yeah, great. Score one for you I guess.

[spartan55]

What's the big win for making him jealous (supposedly) when he won't talk to you again? 🙄

[Aimee_]

Nothing. You’re right. You won this argument. It’s whatever 😞

[spartan55]

Has he contacted you yet?

[Aimee_]

No he hasn’t.

[noohair]

There is really no context to make a decision on this.

[Waldoe]

you seem really angry, maybe he doesn't want to deal with it...

[Anonymous]

Well if he not saying anything take it as a NO
Don't contact him anymore or just leave him be

[emperor90]

He might be busy with family and can not answer

[Aimee_]

Nah I don’t think that’s the case at all