Call me old fashioned but i chose to be very direct and to the point Im when it comes to dealing with feelings and emotions. I find it quite annoying to toy around or leave room to wander when situations or issues arise. I try to focus my energy on doing things we clearly enjoy spending our time doing.
I think it is natural for humans to do it. Usually we just can't decide how much we like you or we give mix signals because a woman gave them to us too.
I don't know who you encountered but bot every guy you encounter wants to bang you and ghost you. Of course there are guys like that but I don't think they are the majority.
@Tstrbrainer none will and both ways make you look like shitty people (because you are) but at least with the other way you show you’re less of a dick than when you lie. if no girls will have sex with you go fuck a hooker.
I can see someone hurt you really bad. I hope you find someone decent, and don't put all men in the same bag, because just like women there is a variety of us.
Sometimes it’s because they’re not sure about you… if a guy isn’t sure about you, leave him where he is… Find someone that is sure about you.. but, you’re young so please enjoy your youth. There will always be a guy.
This always amuses me how women feel that guys risk NOTHING in the dating process. You can't EXPECT a guy to commit to you if you show little to no commitment to him. That's one of the biggest problems I run into. A woman may show interest in me but 3 or 4 others guys as well. I may like her but I'm not going to show any real interest in her if I'm 1 of 3 or 4. Would women be any different? No.
Because we´re often times not sure either. We guys also need time if we just consider you women attractive or if we feel attracted to you after that we have to figure out if these feelings are just ours or vice versa.
What kind of mixed signals are you getting? I can tell you right now men are the most straight forward when it comes to things like this and if they are giving you mixed signals then you are more than likely getting played
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And women don’t? At your age you are dealing with boys who mostly Don’t know what they are doing. Also teen girls mature faster when it comes to emotional intelligence in their teens vs. boys.
However there is a real paradox with all this. Women are turned on by mystery and challenge (especially when first meeting). It’s cat like behavior.
Why do women give us mixed signals, or expect us to even see the signals in the first place? Instead of all this "signalling" going on, why don't people just tell each other how they feel? Wouldn't that just be easier?
Girls do it more usually but a guy doesn't give signals you can tell immediately by the way theyre talking body movements and stuff like that or they could just casually be talking to you and not giving any signals at all
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It goes both ways, doesn't it? There are several reasons: Signals are not easy to interpret They may be confusing in the first placePeople like to play "games"It's a basic chemical, biological processNow that humans have got past the stage of grunting, some seem to think they're clever or they weren't taught the rules in the first placeMake it it easy for the opposite person, just talk plainly and honestly
Please, I beg of you, leave these discussions to adults. You have GOT to be kidding me. Women send mixed signals way more often than men do. Additionally, your 16 year old classmates are not men. They are just children.
1) He doesn't know if he's attracted to you enough2) You've done something or someone said something about you that turned him off/on3) You're giving mixed signals and he's just following your lead
@hsshannah96 if women actually responded well to that, more men would say it. Fact is, a lot of women take offense to that and lose their shit on the guy. Why subject ourselves to the verbal abuse?
Tbh it doesn’t matter how women verbally respond to something because it isn’t like y’all care much what we think since you just never know what you want anyways and want to fuck
How about, you can stop gaslighting women about how they feel and not undermine the importance of just not wasting our time and just say you only wanna fuck. So we can find real men
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Call me old fashioned but i chose to be very direct and to the point Im when it comes to dealing with feelings and emotions. I find it quite annoying to toy around or leave room to wander when situations or issues arise. I try to focus my energy on doing things we clearly enjoy spending our time doing.
Its simple!
Because girls behave in mixed ways.
We cannot tell if a girl is being too friendly or flirty.
Mixed behavior, mixed signals as a response.
I think it is natural for humans to do it. Usually we just can't decide how much we like you or we give mix signals because a woman gave them to us too.
They can just say “I don’t like you I just only want sex” boom. Done
I don't know who you encountered but bot every guy you encounter wants to bang you and ghost you. Of course there are guys like that but I don't think they are the majority.
@hsshannah96 will any female actually have sex with a man who just says that honestly?
@Tstrbrainer none will and both ways make you look like shitty people (because you are) but at least with the other way you show you’re less of a dick than when you lie. if no girls will have sex with you go fuck a hooker.
@Tstrbrainer hookers are a thing. Use them, child
Definitely. But don't feel angry when guys say they just want sex.
Plus that's not really profitable for guys as when we say we just want to fuck, the woman might probably leave us and end up with a guy who lies.
They are the majority!
@Tstrbrainer um I will. They could’ve found a hooker for that jerk
@Tstrbrainer y’all are jerks whether you lie or tell the truth
You’re just an honest one when you tell the truth. It helps us to dodge you
Chill, you are getting nowhere with this mindset if you want a family.
I suggest take a break and then look for guys who do something in their life
I can see someone hurt you really bad. I hope you find someone decent, and don't put all men in the same bag, because just like women there is a variety of us.
@Tstrbrainer you are a jackass and get nowhere too. go off child.
@Tstrbrainer you are a fuck boy telling me what to do. Go off
@Tstrbrainer at least be an honest jackass. Twat
Lol, but you should consider my opinion if you want to avoid fuckboys
A lot of the time we don’t know what we really want,
however I think both guys n girls do the same
Sometimes it’s because they’re not sure about you… if a guy isn’t sure about you, leave him where he is… Find someone that is sure about you.. but, you’re young so please enjoy your youth. There will always be a guy.
This always amuses me how women feel that guys risk NOTHING in the dating process. You can't EXPECT a guy to commit to you if you show little to no commitment to him.
That's one of the biggest problems I run into. A woman may show interest in me but 3 or 4 others guys as well. I may like her but I'm not going to show any real interest in her if I'm 1 of 3 or 4. Would women be any different? No.
Why do you asume she’s dating multiple men? Lmao.
Who said dating?
Because we´re often times not sure either. We guys also need time if we just consider you women attractive or if we feel attracted to you after that we have to figure out if these feelings are just ours or vice versa.
Because you're not paying attention to the signals that matter. You can always tell if a guy is interested vs kind of interested
A guy wanting you sexually isn't the same as wanting you in a more serious relationship way
What kind of mixed signals are you getting? I can tell you right now men are the most straight forward when it comes to things like this and if they are giving you mixed signals then you are more than likely getting played
And women don’t? At your age you are dealing with boys who mostly Don’t know what they are doing. Also teen girls mature faster when it comes to emotional intelligence in their teens vs. boys.
However there is a real paradox with all this. Women are turned on by mystery and challenge (especially when first meeting). It’s cat like behavior.
Why do women give us mixed signals, or expect us to even see the signals in the first place? Instead of all this "signalling" going on, why don't people just tell each other how they feel? Wouldn't that just be easier?
Girls do it more usually but a guy doesn't give signals you can tell immediately by the way theyre talking body movements and stuff like that or they could just casually be talking to you and not giving any signals at all
It goes both ways, doesn't it? There are several reasons:
Signals are not easy to interpret
They may be confusing in the first placePeople like to play "games"It's a basic chemical, biological processNow that humans have got past the stage of grunting, some seem to think they're clever or they weren't taught the rules in the first placeMake it it easy for the opposite person, just talk plainly and honestly
He's not giving mixed signals he's just not interested. But so many women fail to accept the truth.
Actually women do it more often.
While a lot guys do it too.
Usually done by someone who isn't a very good person anyway. No matter how they may look or what image they try to portray.
The opposite is true. We are too unsophisticated to signal. We just say whatever we think (like Trump). But sometimes we change our minds.
The same reason women give them to men. Because they can, and because they like playing games.
I’m speaking generally.
Or they just can't make a decision and commit to it.
Please, I beg of you, leave these discussions to adults. You have GOT to be kidding me. Women send mixed signals way more often than men do. Additionally, your 16 year old classmates are not men. They are just children.
To keep us around as backup, when they truly aren’t very interested.
Women give off mixed signals too, people are complicated just got to get use to it and better at noticing other signals.
1) He doesn't know if he's attracted to you enough2) You've done something or someone said something about you that turned him off/on3) You're giving mixed signals and he's just following your lead
Guys could just say “we don’t want a relationship we just want to bone”
Bam. Done
@hsshannah96 if women actually responded well to that, more men would say it. Fact is, a lot of women take offense to that and lose their shit on the guy. Why subject ourselves to the verbal abuse?
Tbh it doesn’t matter how women verbally respond to something because it isn’t like y’all care much what we think since you just never know what you want anyways and want to fuck
if they verbally lose it say bye and then go fuck someone else since you are all sociopathic and don’t care about us anyways
We’re going to hate you anyways because y’all are so damn immature. Why not be honest at least
@hsshannah96 seems like you've been used by a bunch of guys and are now bitter about it. Don't worry, not all guys are like that
Just be HONEST with us!!! Why can’t you DO THAT?
Guys need to stop being dicks, pull their heads out of their asses and use common sense
You’re the type to use us. So why spout that shit now
Bad timing
How about, you can stop gaslighting women about how they feel and not undermine the importance of just not wasting our time and just say you only wanna fuck. So we can find real men
@hsshannah96 we are honest. Just not with you. Because you're emotional and crazy. As exemplified by your barrage of nonsensical messages.