I've been talking to this guy for 5 years long distance and he's asking me to live with him why?

[Anonymous]

[kyleelyn199723]

Because what’s the point of this relationship if you aren’t going to progress things?

[Asker]

I know I'll need to think about it more

[kyleelyn199723]

Why did you waste so many years to not be definite about your answer?

[Asker]

I'm struggling with what I want these days

[kyleelyn199723]

I understand that, but is this really appropriate to keep on continuing if you don’t have a definite answer? I mean 5 years is a long time.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Usually it's the next step, you've grown too close it's logical to wake up to each other's Faces (and all the other stuff)

[In_Trance]

how many times and how much time have you spent together?

[Asker]

I've visited 3 times each year

[In_Trance]

So that's approximately 15 times in total. If you went an actual date 15 times with a guy dating once a week that's 4 months.

Would you move in with a guy after 4 months?

[Asker]

Absolutely not no but when does the long distance end if not

[In_Trance]

That seems like a better conversation to have at the moment

[Titttybear]

To make u his sex slave