If he is attracted to me why does he friendzone me after admitting it’s hard to when he remembers my assets (lol)?

[anonbrunette99]

Context; I shared a post on fb about girls with big boobs having big heartsz

he friendzoned me like after our first date he knows i like him and i think we’d be good together.

[RealMarek]

if he’s only wanting to be friends and also doesn’t seem ready for a relationship, why pursue him or overthink this? It’s time to move on and find a guy who will be enthusiastic about wanting to be more than friends with you.

[riidges]

He might think that you're posting about your books to get attention from more guys other than just him. That could be a turn off to him

[anonbrunette99]

But he rejected me? And said we are just friends after our date a week ago I was awkward as hell though but still

[riidges]

He might not have known how to tell you how he really felt about the post

[anonbrunette99]

but he already rejected me before that. He suffers from depression though is it possible, he’s not ready for a relationship but doesn’t want me to feel used but when I post that he realises he doesn’t want me to get attention elsewhere and go

[TallAnon]

See, this is what happens when you chicken out and want to act like you care about more than her body.

[anonbrunette99]

How do you mean?

[TallAnon]

I think I explained his action pretty clearly. He was trying to be forward be talking about your boobs, chickened out and gave up.

[anonbrunette99]

what would your advice be going forward for me in this situation? I really like him, he knows I do though and that I want to know him more but he’s the one who friendzoned me.

[TallAnon]

Ask him, straight up.

[anonbrunette99]

is that not putting him in an unfair situation though because I already admitted how I felt he friendzoned me now he admits he’s attracted to me. What is their to ask? It feels he’s telling me he doesn’t want me beyond maybe physical adventure but the reason why, seems unspoken of…

[TallAnon]

Nah, if you don't ask, nothing will change. Just ask him why he feels the need to just be friends.

[Jamie05rhs]

He meant that you made him think about you sexually but thankfully he caught himself before letting it get too far.

[vald9inches]

He doesn't sound attracted to you and if he is he definitely showing it in a very weird way...

[vald9inches]

Maybe he is gay?

[anonbrunette99]

But he friendzone me after in person it was awkward he tried to make moves then chickened out, afterwards I told him I’m autistic that’s why I was shy, I told him I think we’d be good and I like him he friendzoned me then obviously he’s back, he likes most of my social media posts then came back. I can’t seem to get a read on him I know he suffers from bad depression etc but I’m not not sure

[yucel_eden]

I do this to girls I want to fuck once but not twice

[anonbrunette99]

so it seems he’s trying to just use me? Why not just tell me he’s looking for something casual or invite me over when I told him I liked him

[yucel_eden]

Yes.

And that’s what guys do when they believe a girl wants to get attached. If you admit you want just sex girls run awY most of the time so we lie, fuck em and say let’s be friends

[anonbrunette99]

my gut is telling me he doesn’t want a relationship because of his depression etc but didn’t think I’d hook up because of my shyness / autism and didn’t want me to feel used but when I post things like that it makes him think maybe I’m promiscuous enough to do it, he did open up to me about his issues, I feel if I play my cards right I might be able to navigate it in the direction I’m steering for

[yucel_eden]

Or you can find someone who hasn’t friendzoned you?

[yucel_eden]

Never linger on people.

[anonbrunette99]

true fuck him

[yucel_eden]

Well done

[noohair]

This is the problem with texting, there is too much room for misunderstanding.
When I was young, it was the phone only.

[EaterPeter]

Assets are not everything my dear. I liked my exes assets best. Though we're not together anymore.

[anonbrunette99]

Oh I know he rejected me now he’s back though like what

[EaterPeter]

They can be tempting you know. You got some good assets girl. 😉

[anonbrunette99]

so that could genuinely be the only reason he’s back a few days after friendzoning me? He’s said many times he thinks I’m a good person and if he finds me attractive too I wonder what’s standing in the way that he only wants to be friends

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s defo at least a little into you

[es20490446e]

He's pulling your leg.