Why did he pick the "lesser" girl over me?

[downrightcutter]

Two weeks ago I confessed to my crush when I was drunk. He showed *very* clear signs he likes me over the span of four months. When I told him he asked why and said something like "you're just drunk" and told my friend I'm too pretty for him

On Monday he told me he has a girlfriend since Saturday. I just said okay. This will sound arrogant but I know I look very good and especially better than his now girlfriend (Sorry for being rude) To paint a picture people tell me I look like Anna Nicole Smith and this girl is out of shape, has glasses that look like Jeffrey Dahmer's and overall just doesn't have a pretty face in my opinion. Yes I know personality plays a role but? Does he just not have self esteem like my friends told me or is everyone just lying to me

[magiusX26]

well i see one personality flaw of yours. "i confessed my feelings while drunk" comes across as either you only feel that way about him while drunk (huge turn off for me) or you can only express those feelings while drunk (huge turn off) . along same lines as the second possibility listed above is he may have been waiting on you to give a clear signal of intetest and found someone else while you waited on him to make the 1st move off what signaks you may have given (often not very clear in my experiences) . then there is the persinality flaw of over-caring about superficial things like looks (which is very subjective) .

[Kenzy009]

Too me it sounds like he does not think you are acually seroius about dating him. I don't flirt with the prettiest girls becasue I don't want to have my self asteem and confidence crushed.

[NorthAfrican]

Well I don't find Anna Nicole Smith pretty so he probably just has a different taste like we all do!

[SamA_nold]

Probably because that other girl doesn’t have a stick up her ass 😋

[downrightcutter]

Lol ‎‎

[DWornock]

Most likely what you see as good looking differs from what men see as good looking. When men compliment you, most likely they are just being nice. No guy will tell you that you are ugly. Men may tell you that you are the most beautiful girl they have ever seen. That is easier than telling you that you are plain, but if you actually believe that, you are delusional.

[Anonymous]

Personality is more important than looks. So is chemistry. Maybe you have none. Anna Smith wound up with an 90 year old billionaire or something. It's not like she had her pick of quality men her own age.

[MCheetah]

Because she really wasn't the "lesser" girl to him?

[Honesttguy]

Dont be so butthurt, why girls always get so butthurt?

[spartan55]

What are you calling 'very clear signs'?

[downrightcutter]

He used to hug me a lot randomly, he touched my arms a lot and hair. He used to and still does stand around me and brushes against me all the time. He called me his angel and one time he cried on me. He also told my friend I'm too pretty him and when I told him I have a crush on him he asked why and said "you're just drunk"

[spartan55]

Yeah not sure, maybe it's something about your personality?

[bamesjond0069]

The fact you think looks will make him choose you... clearly you have a shitty superficial personality.

[driven159]

Telling someone that you have a crush on a person when you are drunk is like saying nothing say it when you are sober would mean something

[Anonymous]

Different people are attracted to different things. It's all subjective.

[annabananna]

You’re over valuing looks.

[awkward_author]

Maybe he finds her attractive?

[downrightcutter]

But he said I'm too pretty for him

[awkward_author]

Both can exist at the same time. He could find her attractive and believe she's "in his league" at the same time, whereas he may view you as being outside of it. Why does it matter? He's with her now. You don't need to put her down because he chose her.

[Hangry06]

Everyone is lying to you

[silkjames]

Maybe because she clueless who knows lol

[jahaims]

Lesser in your opinion, probably not his

[Ironic_Method]

I'd probably choose the other girl over you, too.

[May_Summers]

I could be like your friends said

[Fromdusktilldawn]

maybe its your attitude he doesn't like

[downrightcutter]

Everyone I know tells me I have a sweet personality but oh well

[barn_stormer]

Anna Nicole Smith looks like a ghoul to me

[Anonymous]

nah im good