Does this equal love?

[Anonymous]

If a narcissist guy or even a regular guy integrates you into his family and friends, buys you expensive gifts and trips. Also, tends to show you off like a trophy wife but keeps a side chick that he does nothing for... does this mean it's possible he truly loves you?

[Anonymous]

Doesn’t matter if he does or doesn’t do things for the side chick (that you even know of), it’s the fact that he has one in general, and not fully committed to you, that’s completely shit. Showing you off like a trophy wife still doesn’t make you the wife, and buying you things because he has the means to doesn’t equal love. None of that equals love, but I’m sure you hope it does, and I mean no offense by that. You can do better. Be your own sugar daddy, show your own self off, get someone who’s fully committed and not only disrespecting you, but risking your sexual health by being with other women. STDs like HPV doesn’t even show in men, so you risk getting cancer and for what? Love yourself more than him, sis.

[Anonymous]

No, why keep another when you're already there? It's cheating.

[spartan55]

Huh? No, having a side chick means he doesn't love you. I can't believe that needs to be spelled out for you.