A man that physically hits a woman who didn't hit him first is a little b**** and a deep coward, do you agree?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Agree.

Disagree.

Other.

[_piotr]

Not always. There are many situations that are uncommon, but may justify it. After all: "Only a Sith deals in absolutes!"

If she has caused a great evil, harm, tormented him psychologically then I would understand him. Imagine a women, who happily and with no regret, admitted that it was her, who cruelly tortured and killed his wife and children. The man might be in so much anger, grief and shock that he might hit/slap her. I would not call him names for that.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Totally different. I'm talking about such as having an argument or confrontation with a woman that's between you both only?

[_piotr]

Ideally, both man and woman should not hit each other. Hitting other person is generally wrong. However there might be a lot of nuances.

-We need to know whether she was threatening him. If he pushed her away, because she shouted "I'll scratch your eyes out". I would rather treat it as self-protection.

- We need to consider psychological state of a person. Is he doing it with a "cold blood" or not? If, for example, she tormented him psychologically for years then an outburst of aggression due to inner breakdown could be understandable.

-Was this "hit" really a hit done to cause pain or something else? Maybe because of emotions and a "weight" of the case he shook her a little. Like "please, I implore you, do not do this!" and that's all.

- We would need to have a history of a conflict, to determine whether her wrong deeds might really trigger such an act even in a decent person. Perhaps she is a really evil person that deserved that. Maybe she did many wrong things: robbed him of all life's savings and filed a false accusation against him thus ruining his life, etc...

- There could be also mitigating factors - like: mental illness. In such case he rather need support and medical help than names throwing at him.

[NamerOfStars]

Not necessarily; if violence is justifiable, then the circumstances under which it's justifiable could logically be extended to prevention, or to preventing harm to others.

Gender doesn't really enter into the picture, though; lack of a Y chromosome doesn't mean you're immune to accountability any more than possession of one means you're more susceptible to it.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I clearly said if a woman didn't hit him first so what would make it justifiable for a man to hit a woman? Assuming she didn't hit or abused his kid.

[NamerOfStars]

The same thing that would make it justifiable for a woman to hit a man.

[Gigi2019]

Yeah. Doesn't matter what gender you are. Just get away from the person. If they are your SO, break up and move out ASAP and go no contact if they are a d bag person. Putting your hands on someone over their verbal abuse will only get you into legal trouble. However, if they hit you, you have a right to defend yourself. If you are stronger than them, tone down your strength to match theirs.

[Msputiton]

I think once you hit a certain age, and still can't solve a dispute without violence has some sort of mental health disorder.

[Uptowngirl88]

@gigi2019 you lack reading comprehension skills. If you can't understand what she said the first time then you need to go back to school

[Msputiton]

@Uptowngirl88 ignore her.
I reported her that was a very racist term.
I had to call out gag for letting racism exist but at least it got her removed

[Uptowngirl88]

@msputition gag really ticks me off with that. They take forever to remove racist comments towards us but say something about another race they'll remove it quickly. They deleted her I hope?

[Msputiton]

@Uptowngirl88 yes.
A white person said a racist term against someone on her and she responded with a racist term.
The black user was frozen and the white one wasn't
It's typical how we are treated and sad

[Uptowngirl88]

So typical of them

[CheeseMonster]

What if she has a knife?
No I know what you mean.

Yes. Anyone who attacks someone for no good reason is a bitch. Anyone who attacks someone weaker than them for no good reason is a coward.

[TsAubreyKate]

“No one is above an ass whooping 💯” I firmly stand by this especially with women thinking like yours encourages bad behavior from women my momma told me if you can’t take a punch don’t throw one and honestly I’d beat a woman and kill any mad that tried to stop me I’m not some psycho this is just how I feel about this topic

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You sound crazy and you're coward if you hit a woman who didn't hit you.

I'm sure you won't dare to hit a man no matter how angry you are if you knew he would physically fold you the hell up.

[TsAubreyKate]

I accept all challengers I’ll beat a little kid I’ll fight a jiu jitsu fighter I’m not letting no anyone slide because they’re physically weaker if you’re in my way and I’m pissed you deserve to get hit I’m not a bully I don’t go around picking on the weak but being weak doesn’t exempt you from a beating

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'll bet you won't punch Shaquille O'Neal if he pissed you off. Hell I know some guys in my gym won't dare physically hit. You won't walk ever again..

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

*you won't

[TsAubreyKate]

You do realize strength and toughness aren’t the same thing right if you can’t take a beating you’re not gonna beat me idc who you are I was raised to never be afraid of anyone who is afraid to get their ass whooped I’m not scared of gym muscles pretty boys their muscles are for them they wouldn’t look my way without them they give them confidence

[TsAubreyKate]

We are a civilization of principle not men I’m gonna follow my beliefs

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Easy to say online. I would love to see you actually do it for real like I did knowing good and well the man was far bigger and stronger than me when I got into a confrontation years back.

[TsAubreyKate]

I mean okay but I’m just being honest

[GMANN56]

WOW. 2 guys out of 7 thinks it's ok to hit a woman who did not hit him. That's sad

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Same guys I guarantee you won't dare to punch or hit a physically imposing man no matter how piss they are at him but a woman who they know doesn't stand a chance they are willing to pound on her. Sissies.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Yes. Same with women who hit men when he didn’t hit her first.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's not the same. A woman is physically weaker than a man.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, obviously. But women still should not hit a man unprovoked… Thats what I’m trying to say.

[GMANN56]

Unfortunately that is way more common and I've seen it.

[GMANN56]

I mean in clubs.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@WhatTheHeckkkk: I agree a woman shouldn't hit a man unprovoked but that wasn't my question.

[t_time]

I dont think under any circumstances a man or a woman should lay a hand on anyone. Unless it's self defense

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If a woman is hitting/abusing my child or destroying my stuff she will get hit by me? Fair enough or not?

[t_time]

If she's hitting the child by all means. If I had a child and someone hit my child they would not be living. You're defending a child in my books that's perfectly fine. But I would call the police

[Gigi2019]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy (1) Do not hit her as if you were hitting another guy. That equates to a ten year-old child punching a two year-old child. It's an unfair physical match, and, therefore, not right. If you plan to strike a woman for cause, tone down your strength. You should know this. (2) Striking someone to serious child abuse is different from striking someone for pouring bleach on your clothes. The former requires that you put your hands on the person while the latter requires that you call the police. You should carry renter's insurance which will cover property damage, hotel stays, and moving expenses.

[DaveToo]

A man that hits a woman needs to spend 10 minutes with me in a soundproof room.

[bamesjond0069]

Beat up thats stupid and yes thats a weak man. But discipline of course is ok. Putting a girl over your knee to keep her in line is normal.

[Anonymous]

I would say he definitely is, but I would probably think differently if the woman was rude or mean to him or insulted him or attacked him first in some way

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Regardless, you don't physically hit someone especially a woman over words.

[Opinion Owner]

Well people can eventually get enraged if they have been taunted too much

[Hellraiser1984]

Maybe she f ed him over. Like cheating on him. Women slap guys all the time. That's acceptable but when a man slaps a woman it's abuse.

[ragooo8]

Generally true but a lot of women instigate these domestic incidents deliberately.

[noohair]

My father taught me that physical violence against all women is never acceptable under and circumstances.

[Anonymous]

Master Reigen once said that men who go around beating up women are the biggest losers in the world

[jahaims]

Duh. Kind of a pointless question tbh

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Many don't think so. They think is ok to hit a woman. Domestic cases women being physically hit be high.

[jahaims]

Doesn't make it have any more of a point. Anyone who says it is okay isn't going to have a change of heart.

[EmmaMary]

Pretty obvious I would have thought.

[CloudMassacre]

I think it depends on the circumstances

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Like what?

[CloudMassacre]

Like if I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and shit had been building up, then she threatened physical violence or came at me, I’d clock her🤷‍♂️

[jasco]

A little bitch? Yea, a coward mm I don't know

[exitseven]

yes, no question

[sirderpsalot123]

Yes. I agree

[Uptowngirl88]

Agree

[tponderingundead]

agree 100%.