I’m going to try to make this short. Okay This guy have known him sense high school! I’m 23 he’s 25, we would hang out and chill literally and always want to be more than friends and he’s said this but I would always friend zone him, we would kiss here and there but not actual sex. Any way about a month ago, after not seeing each other for a couple months I invited him out with my friend group! We go to the bars had a good time, went back to my place and we had sex. Out of years of knowing him it actually happened and in so many words passionate and now there’s a connection.
Now you somewhat background, he has TWO a baby mothers. He had his first at 20 and out of nowhere!! He post a baby about 2months ago. He’s done with the first bm I know (but who really knows) anyway the second one 2 months ago which I feel like is new and like there still may be a connection with them and he’s acting like we’re together telling me he always wanted to be “this” and he’s happy we’re doing “this” I don't know what we are, the actual question will you be my girlfriend is still in the air. Anyway I was straight up and I said do you still have a romantic connection with this girl or like you co parents? 2mths ago she was pregnt a connection has to be there right? Anyway he’s exact text was “like we aren’t together but I do help her 24/7” I feel like when he said “like” it’s like he didn’t wanna say straight up no? You know? Anyway he always tells me when he’s with his other kid and when it’s his weekends etc but never has mentioned “oh I just visited (his newborn)” nothing like that but you help her 24/7 and you tell me you want him to know who you are so you show ur face but never text me about him? It’s just a weird situation because there was this time he got off work and didn’t text me back till next day. All I’m saying is I’m not a girl on the side or the fun girl I have no kids and we were friends before coming romantic so I feel like he wouldn’t do me like that but who knows.
Now you somewhat background, he has TWO a baby mothers. He had his first at 20 and out of nowhere!! He post a baby about 2months ago. He’s done with the first bm I know (but who really knows) anyway the second one 2 months ago which I feel like is new and like there still may be a connection with them and he’s acting like we’re together telling me he always wanted to be “this” and he’s happy we’re doing “this” I don't know what we are, the actual question will you be my girlfriend is still in the air. Anyway I was straight up and I said do you still have a romantic connection with this girl or like you co parents? 2mths ago she was pregnt a connection has to be there right? Anyway he’s exact text was “like we aren’t together but I do help her 24/7” I feel like when he said “like” it’s like he didn’t wanna say straight up no? You know? Anyway he always tells me when he’s with his other kid and when it’s his weekends etc but never has mentioned “oh I just visited (his newborn)” nothing like that but you help her 24/7 and you tell me you want him to know who you are so you show ur face but never text me about him? It’s just a weird situation because there was this time he got off work and didn’t text me back till next day. All I’m saying is I’m not a girl on the side or the fun girl I have no kids and we were friends before coming romantic so I feel like he wouldn’t do me like that but who knows.
