I am in a bit of a dilemma that I am not sure how to handle. I worked with this guy for a few years, we will call him Bob. Bob and I never worked closely together, there was never any drama and we would chat politely from time to time about nothing of significance. There was a time where he messaged me of face book and I responded politely but remained kind of distant because I didn't want to encourage or give the impression I wanted anything further than to be colleagues. A month or two ago he left, I am not sure if he quit or was let go. I never asked. Last night at about 4 in the morning my husband got a facebook message from Bob, where he claimed to have slept with me while he was employed here. His accusation is entirely false and I have no idea why he would make such an accusation, or what is going on. I tried to look up his facebook and bring up the old messages but it would appear that he has blocked me on facebook. My husband is suspicious, rightfully so, I would be too if I were in his shoes. He messaged Bob back asking for proof, which I encouraged him to because there isn't any.. I am angry, hurt, and confused because I don't know why Bob would do something like this. I don't know if I somehow offended him, or gave him the wrong impression, or if he was drunk at 4 am in the middle of the week... I could reach out, he has me blocked on social media, but I work in the business office at my job and I could get his information. The angry part of me wants to track him down and confront him, but he is already acting crazy and I don't want to make things worse because who knows what he might do. What would you do in a situation like this? How do you think I should deal with it? I don't know what to do...

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  Honey if I wanted attention I would ask for it instead of making up a fantastical story... Posting a bikini photo would get me a lot more attention that this post ever would. Bye Felicia
  
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- Fuentes
  
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  Yeah sure it would
  
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- YesIWouldLikeFries
  
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  @Subarugirl you'd get attention. But it wouldn't last for long. Maybe 30 seconds if that. What women don't understand is that a man giving you attention doesn't mean he's going to commit to you. You don't get to decide that. You can't manipulate us.
  
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- Subarugirl
  
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  @YesIWouldLikeFries What are you even talkin about? No one thinks that attention equals commitment lmao
  
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- YesIWouldLikeFries
  
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  @Subarugirl When a man looks at you he's committed his attention to you for that short amount of time. How are you this dumb?
  
  When I say men aren't going to commit to "women" I mean completely. Not even looking.
  
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  @YesIWouldLikeFries wow you’re a whole different kind of special…..
  
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- YesIWouldLikeFries
  
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  @Subarugirl yep. I have evolved to the point where my mind automatically filters out anything useless. That includes "women".
  It took a lot of training my mind to block out useless things. Now it happens automatically 😌
  
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sad...

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What?

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