When I talk about she’s pessimistic and sees everything he does as a ”red flag”?

[Anonymous]

I’ve never dated before. I’m 27yrs old. I’ve had a crush on a guy for ages lol and things seem to go well for me now. I’ve talking go a guy and he’s 30 years old. I’ve been chatting with some time and recently we’ve exchanged numbers and have planned to meet for a caffee after he comes back from work tip. My friend is so pessimistic when I talk about him. It’s soo wierd…

it’s like it’s hard for her to admit that he could very much be interested in me and we could really develod relationship down the line. He’s very handsome guy tbh and my friend who’s 31 always thought herself to be really good looking (and she is). Now she’s dating a guy that’s 37 and has had many flings in the past with women. Maybe deep down she thinks my guy to be more of an “catch” ? He’s more shy and doesn’t have the reputation of being a womanizer.

[Iron_Man]

Let me give you a little bit of advice don’t talk to your girlfriends about your crush because the guy will always find out sooner or later and they hate that they don’t wanna be an open book everything they tell you goes right back to your friend even sexual stuff that’s when
breakups happen don’t do it

[Asker]

Well she always asks how things have been progressing with him. Anyway what do you think about her behavior?

[Iron_Man]

She sounds like a mess she’s a lesbian? Keep it simple say this oh he’s doing fine he’s working hard he’s studying things like that don’t get into personal stuff when you talk to your female friends about your future boyfriend for example

[Asker]

She’s definitely not a lesbian. She’s dating a guy. I think she deep down knows that my guy is more of an catch (more good looking and younger) also I think it’s hard for her to grasp that I could get him.

[Iron_Man]

OK bisexual she shouldn’t be either of that anyway maybe you shouldn’t have her as a friend

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