When I talk about she’s pessimistic and sees everything he does as a ”red flag”?

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I’ve never dated before. I’m 27yrs old. I’ve had a crush on a guy for ages lol and things seem to go well for me now. I’ve talking go a guy and he’s 30 years old. I’ve been chatting with some time and recently we’ve exchanged numbers and have planned to meet for a caffee after he comes back from work tip. My friend is so pessimistic when I talk about him. It’s soo wierd…

it’s like it’s hard for her to admit that he could very much be interested in me and we could really develod relationship down the line. He’s very handsome guy tbh and my friend who’s 31 always thought herself to be really good looking (and she is). Now she’s dating a guy that’s 37 and has had many flings in the past with women. Maybe deep down she thinks my guy to be more of an “catch” ? He’s more shy and doesn’t have the reputation of being a womanizer.
When I talk about she’s pessimistic and sees everything he does as a ”red flag”?
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