The guy I'm talking with says he's lazy, drinks a lot and works a lot should I move on?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Depends on what you want in a guy I guess lol. Only you can answer that. But, if he works a lot, depending on his job, then that's contradictory because that's not lazy. And he's probably very tired after, so of course he'll be "lazy" because he's worked so much. But in general my advice is if you've just started talking, get to know him better/more before making a decision. Don't be so quick to dismiss him if there's some interest in him otherwise. Would you want to be dismissed that quickly/easily?

[kinggeorge007]

That's a lot less information. To conclude such a decision need much more information. But reading in between the lines, you are already on the move, you just need a push. So I don't know, it's your decision. And don't stay if you don't like his ways. Moving on would be a kind of a favour to him as well. He will be able to find someone who better suits him.

[megabamse]

On general term i don't really enjoy having friends that is lazy. Or friends that can't enjoy life without being influenced by something like alcohol or drugs.

[Asker]

100% true

[Sonorous]

Yeah, I think so. I mean, if he willingly tells/shows you what he perceives to be red flags, then he's probably so used to them that he wouldn't be willing to change for anyone. So I guess just keep that in mind if you want to still pursue him.

[UniquelyBasic]

Seems he's not interested in you. Why would he just admit all those things to you if not as an excuse to not date you. LoL

[Asker]

How come he stalked my page for months and flirted with me for the last year

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe he's just a weirdo. Its best to not try to understand people like him.

[Asker]

No idea maybe he has a girlfriend 🤔

[MTC29]

It sounds like he's trying to scare you off. Move on.

[Asker]

Weird how he stalked my social media and flirted for a good year or so 🤔

[spartan55]

Damn, that dude really knows how to woo the ladies.

[exitseven]

I do not know what you are like. Maybe you will be very compatible.

[DevinAM]

Working a lot shouldn't necessarily be a red flag, the laziness & alcoholism could be a problem though.

[Asker]

He said had crohns disease

[SpaceGalaxy]

move on before wasting your life

[Asker]

Why do you think that

[boggboss]

If your not happy yes

[Asker]

He said I was too good for him but wanted to keep me close 🤷‍♀️