Boyfriend feels bad after violent argument in public?

[Anonymous]

A girl was starting to insult and threaten me, so my boyfriend stepped in and tried to control her but instead she kicked him where it hurts hard enough to send him to the ground.
So she continued insulting me and we ended up fighting. Finally some women came, so she ran away. And I was not injured

Now he keeps saying how unfair she was, that normally she should have backed off quickly.
I feel he is embarrassed about it and I already told him it's fine, I managed to defend myself but it looks like it doesn't help much.

I need some more ideas to understand his mind and help him.

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I must add, even it is obvious, I feel bad for him

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Do you think he feels unsecure about it? Maybe he needs to see a psychologist

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An update to thank you and if it can help someone else tell you my boyfriend went a few times to a psychologist and I think it really helped him

[whirled_up_girl]

I would definitely reaffirm to him that what that other girl did was unfair, he was trying to protect you from her and she assaulted him. I'm glad you were able to fight this woman off without gettting injured. I don't know you what else to tell you was this girl some random stranger, maybe keep some pepper spray or mase on you from now on.

[Asker]

Thank you! I was a bit lucky considering how badly she injured my boyfriend.
Yes someone called the police but when they came, she was far away I guess and we didn't know her. So I think they unfortunately won't find her.
You're right I'll go get a pepper spray
I will reassure him, do you think he feels he failed to protect me or something like that? I think a psychologist may help him

[whirled_up_girl]

He might be feeling that way, like he failed to protect you, but he shouldn't if he would have fought with her too aggresiveily he could have been arrested or something dumb like that you never know. I don't know what to say about the psychologist, maybe if it continues to bother him or if he can't let it go.

[Asker]

Yes you're right. In fact from what I understand he expected her to back off without fighting, and especially without kicking him in that specific place.
I'm going to wait a few days before suggesting him, I already asked him a lot. I'll let him alone maybe for a while

[Shamalien]

All I can say is never think a girl won’t hit you. Girls are more likely to hit men than the other way around these days because they know they can get away with it. Turn the tables and som1s goin to jail

[Asker]

Yes I think you reach something because he said normally she should have backed off. I think he assumed she'll be afraid or can't hit him.
And for getting away with it, I think unfortunately she will because we don't know her

[Guy13]

He got his balls busted by a woman…by a set of Ovaries…

[Asker]

Yes, that's a way to see it. But it doesn't really help me, what should I do?

[Guy13]

What I want to tell you to do, I can not. But if it was my woman, she knows what fixes Everything, including but not limited too, when she takes my money clip without asking. Do you enjoy vegetables or fruits? Like eating 💋 celery, 🥕, 🍌 , or 🍆. A balanced meal really helps one with the aches and pains of Life. Eat healthy and be safe out there in the Fields.

[Asker]

Yes obviously but I think he is still hurt there, I'm afraid to make it worse

[Guy13]

You can’t, believe me. He’s probably thinking that it might as well be broke-she’s not going to touch it. The Pains of Joy….
You: “Working through the Pain”
Him:”laughingly Screaming through the Pain”
Win-Win in time for Weekend

[Asker]

Ok thank you. To be honest, it looked so bad.
But maybe I'll try in the weekend

[Guy13]

He’s a lucky 🍀 guy… ⚽️. ⚽️

[Asker]

Can I ask something? Don't answer if you don't want to
How would you react if the same happened to you? Do you understand his mind?

[Guy13]

—I woukd be afraid you would never touch them again.
—Or look at me without sorry 😞 eyes forever..
—Honey 🍯 and Vinegar and fly works here too. You’re lucky 🍀. Only you will know if a guy can release when black and blue balls such as his are primed.

DO NOT DO ONE|*<|^#|#*|^# CARING ~^~+#,%*, DRAMA THINGS. He already feels like a pussy…

[Asker]

I see but I feel bad for him

[Guy13]

STOP 🛑 IT. He will break up with you if you continue acting treating me like pussy who got his ass kicked by a girl

[Asker]

Ok, I think I get it. But I try to understand. Thank you 😀