Or the feeling is aimed more toward women, as we are more sentimental and emotional? I ask this even if the birthday wishes comes from 2 very very close male friends, or even between two very very close relatives (they are so close that even hang out together very often). For instance I dont know if you find this a normal male pattern or you find this inconsiderate from this male cousin I have.
I have a brother who is close in age to one of our male cousin. This cousin family and my inmediate family we are very close, much closer than our relatives that we both have. In fact we are that close that any get together this cousin or his family organizes, they always invited us but not other relatives that are not so close to them. Lately my brother and this particular male cousin had became closer than before and hung out often lately and they had gone to local trips to the beach in several occassions for the past 3 months. My male cousin birthday was in March and he and his immedate family (his paretns, his sister, his teenage son, etc) invited my family to a get together for his celebration, only us.
This cousin had 2 celebrations and in 2 small celebrations we were the only relatives invited. Last week all the family (other relatives as well) went locally to a family house for Easter week. My brother and this male cousin also went of course and still very close and they drank have a good time and had fun. My brother birthday was last week and for particular circumstances me, mom and sister we could not celbrate his bday at home or at other place but even if we wanted my brother is the type of guy who do not care if someone (family or friends) forgets his bday or do not wish him HB, for him that is not important, he had always been a bit of anti social in that field. Then I asked my brother,"Did the cousin at least call you or texted you a quick HB greeting? I mean since both lately had been close and hang out often. My brother
I have a brother who is close in age to one of our male cousin. This cousin family and my inmediate family we are very close, much closer than our relatives that we both have. In fact we are that close that any get together this cousin or his family organizes, they always invited us but not other relatives that are not so close to them. Lately my brother and this particular male cousin had became closer than before and hung out often lately and they had gone to local trips to the beach in several occassions for the past 3 months. My male cousin birthday was in March and he and his immedate family (his paretns, his sister, his teenage son, etc) invited my family to a get together for his celebration, only us.
This cousin had 2 celebrations and in 2 small celebrations we were the only relatives invited. Last week all the family (other relatives as well) went locally to a family house for Easter week. My brother and this male cousin also went of course and still very close and they drank have a good time and had fun. My brother birthday was last week and for particular circumstances me, mom and sister we could not celbrate his bday at home or at other place but even if we wanted my brother is the type of guy who do not care if someone (family or friends) forgets his bday or do not wish him HB, for him that is not important, he had always been a bit of anti social in that field. Then I asked my brother,"Did the cousin at least call you or texted you a quick HB greeting? I mean since both lately had been close and hang out often. My brother
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responded me: "No, he never did, not a text not a call, but you know he (the cousin) is similar like me, he never is considerate when it comes to wish someones birthday. But the difference is that my cousin when he was celebrated his bday he did want us to join him at he get together. So back at my original question:
Do men never give a damn about this kind of things, as male are like wired like taht and do not give such importance on birthdays and the importance comes more from women?
Do men never give a damn about this kind of things, as male are like wired like taht and do not give such importance on birthdays and the importance comes more from women?
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Im not going to judge but I happen to find that gay men give a huge importance about wishing someones (male or female) Happy Birthday. Why is that? I mean why gay men act like that and straight men do not act like that? I know this about gay men beause I have several gay friends and for them wishing someone (eitehr male or female) is a very important BIG deal that they can't miss and they are considerate.
