Why are guys so hard on us and need to feel superior to us?

[Anonymous]

. God made us to please men and take care of them and take on all the burdens of reproduction and instead of being grateful men are mean and feel entitled then say we’re the weak ones when we’re literally the ones married to a boss who dominates us to put a watermelon in our bellies. You may be physically stronger but you’d never be strong enough to submit to a man as a wife. You guys would have a mental breakdown halfway through the first time your husband got drunk and ravished you. There’s no way you’d be able to stay alcohol free for 9 months with him slapping your ass and telling you to bring him a beer the whole time you’re pregnant

[Zealconsumesme]

You sound like you've had a horrible father to guide you. To think that's how all Men operate is at best naive, I doubt you willingly fear/hate men out of no where. Men do take a lot of risks and generally have to cut some of their fun in life. Agreed that men could need improvement and move towards people who bring structure in the house entirely instead of just dominate you emotionally, still, they do take risks others don't like more often. By the way, God bless your soul, a man even finds you worth marrying considering you refer to a baby, that comes in YOU and the man's image, as just some water melon of pain instead of family, instead of a life to be loved cared for and taught well. You seem like a genetic dead end and rightfully avoided, I get kids are annoying but if they cramp your style, maybe your lifestyle is a problem?

[Asker]

I’m just saying that’s how big he makes me swell up growing his baby

[Zealconsumesme]

Whatcha mean? Yeah babies take up space sweetheart, they're big, way too big I'm not gonna ignore they hurt you woman peoples and it's tough but it'll be worth it I think you'll be happy in the long term, maybe minus the post-partum depression but I think if you look at it optimistically as a chance to raise a littler version of you to be even better than you are now and support them to the ends, you'll find yourself getting all the appreciation you deserve. Mothers do a lot of work these days and they do deserve their credit, you'll be doing equally hardwork as the dad in different ways but you're necessary and he is too.

[Asker]

It’s just so not fair you guys have no idea what you put us through I miss wine but my husband still gets to drink and he likes to rough me up when he’s had a bunch to drink I hope I can go longer without him making me have another baby this time

[Zealconsumesme]

You should definitely talk to him about this, hypocrisy has no healthy place in a home nor drunk abuse, I'd consider outside intervention for help, wine isn't too in alcohol consistency and I'd doubt you'd chug a whole bottle, bad as pregnancy hurts I'm sorry I came off harsh your man's not helping for shit

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you've chosen the wrong man to have a baby with.

[Arieshyper]

The God made women for men concept is an outdated concept created by men to feel superior to women.
Men will only get away with how you allow them to treat you. Defend yourself and put his ass in his place. You were created to be loved and respected not to be a servant.

[slatyb]

What are some men? Because they are insecure and they just want to feel in control of something or someone.

[DarkWinterNights]

It sounds like your husband has a drinking problem that he needs to address.

[Anonymous]

Boo hoo.

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[UniquelyBasic]

Seems oddly specific but okay

[joeldalton]

Sounds like a you problem, not an us problem.

[bamesjond0069]

Women love their role. Get over it.

[Chiarac2003]

I don’t agree.

[eblehe]

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