When he mentioned he is "trying to organize a going out with his friends" does that mean he wants me to come as well?

[random_girl95]

Recently I was chatting with a friend and we were having a general conversation. At some point he told be "we will be talking", meaning we will keep in touch, however I know that he doesn't really replies to my texts as wanted. It's either one word or left on seen. So I told him exactly that and he said he was busy, that's why he didn't reply "properly". Then he mentioned he is trying to organize an exit with his friends. When a person tells you they are organizing something does this mean they include you in their plans as well? Or he just told me that without any particular reason? My thoughts are, if you didn't wanted the other person to come then you wouldn't tell you are organizing plans with your friends, right?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I believe that he is just being clean with you. He is telling you honestly that he is organizing an outing with his friends.
It is highly likely that he does not want you to be with him on this outing. Just a guys outing I guess.

Him being clean can mean that he does not want you to imagine things that are completely unnecessary. An affair or something. Not those things.

[random_girl95]

Thank you!

[Shamalien]

Men aren’t women. If he wants you to come he’ll ask if you want to come

[random_girl95]

@Shamalien what "men aren't women" supposed to mean?

[Shamalien]

Meaning we are direct and don’t expect people to “figure stuff out”

[Shamalien]

Am I the only person you invited to this? xD

[random_girl95]

@Shamalien Actually no, just seems people weren't in particular interest in that question. However when I had my concern about this question you helped me, that's why I given you the mho.