Can someone tell me WHY is he nervous around me? I AM NOT ASKING IF HE HAS A CRUSH. I AM ASKING WHY he's NERVOUS?

[Hfo844hr]

PEOPLE keep saying oh he doesn't like you blah blah on her. When I asked WHY IS HE NERVOUS.

Facts: he's a Bad boy.
he's 40.
He has intense eyes that effect me very much and my heart loves him and i feel such a deep connection to him even though we aren't that close. I have cried hard many times just by thinking of or seeing him or being around him. Literally.
Yesterday i tried to make small talk but he replied with one word. So i left it.
But he was nervous or at least i think so around me yesterday. I don't know if it had to do with me. But anyway he had complimented me many times like 2 years ago... But he has also been kinda mean or degrading at times. Like he made a vulgar joke about me to coworkers. I was very mad

[random_girl95]

I don't know if it is just for his bad boy image but he doesn't seem quite respective towards you.

[Hfo844hr]

He did that bad stuff a while ago but yeah i agree

[theunicornjp]

He sounds like a clown. Don't waste your time with a grown man that's making jokes at your expense.
It's none of your business why he's nervous, just run like hell.

[Hfo844hr]

Thanks you rock

[theunicornjp]

Anytime.

[Avicenna]

Fears rejection/ can’t have you

[Hfo844hr]

He has to try... Lmao...

[Iron_Man]

Because maybe you’re special to him

[Hfo844hr]

I wonder why!

[Guy13]

Because he knows he’s going to sleep with you…

[Guy13]

And, this will probably wreck some aspect of his life and he knows it… Whether it’s the wife, serious girlfriend, kids, or employment. He knows there’s going to be a Cost 💲He’s working through Risk Management and Cost-Benefit Analytics.

[Hfo844hr]

Lmfao WHY WOULD HE ASSUME I WOULD SLEEP WITH HIM?

[Guy13]

If I can smell your Scoot-Scoot from here then there’s no doubt why he’s nervous 👃 🍰

[Hfo844hr]

Lmao. If you mean my vagina no i doubt it. I wash it well.

[Hfo844hr]

Also i dont have premarital sex. He also knows that.

[Guy13]

Good. That is an important factor. If he’s like most guys who know they are not getting, it is likely what you interpret as nervous is aggravated get away…

[Hfo844hr]

That makes sense actually cause a lot of guys seem to be shallow and only see a beautiful woman as a one dimensional object and they couldnt care less about who she is as a person at all and theyre just thinking about getting sex from her. So all they know is 'i can fuck her' ir 'i won't get the chance to fuck her' and in the latter case her beauty is a stining insult.
Sad to be so shallow. But hey. At least i dont have to be with them!

[Guy13]

That pretty much sound right to me…Not being like most guys, he says, woukd you happen to be Eastern Time Zone?

[Hfo844hr]

Does timezone chnge the answer?🤣

[Guy13]

I’m not tracking your answer to question