An intimidating loner?

[Mothupi]

I wanna know if I am found weird, I am a very attractive girl and I get a lot of attention even when I walk into a room I am noticed but I am a loner, I get compliments a lot even though it feels weird, It makes me uncomfortable so most guys just stare and make eye contact, I don't know if my beauty intimidates them or I am weird and awkward, don't talk much and sometimes I say the dumbest things but I am confident in who I am, I like it but it worries me when it comes to people.

[SueShe]

In your age group, it is normal for men to try to make eye contact and to compliment you. It is part of their genes because they are obviously trying to get your attention. We all know why the want your attention.

The fact that you are insensitive to their approaches makes them even more eager to want to try and that is why, this attention makes you uncomfortable.

Your beauty does in a way intimidate them but also draws a lot of testosterone and basically, all they want is to lose that level of testosterone with you. Also, since you don't talk much makes you even more mysterious in their eyes.

Keep being a loner because you are much better off. Giving this aura of mystery is something nice.

[ColHathi]

Just wanna say that this: "The fact that you are insensitive to their approaches makes them even more eager to want to try and that is why, this attention makes you uncomfortable." -This wouldn't make me more eager. If anything, depending on what the girl says or does that's insensitive to my approach, I might be offput, and/or lose interest entirely. As well it should, because I'm assuming that if you're insensitive to someone in a situation like this, it's because you want to put people off. Someone becoming more eager due to insensitivity directed towards them, would make me think that they're fucked up, frankly. And don't get me wrong: I know that there are people out there like that, but I don't get it and I think it's messed up to think that way.

[LazerBean]

Nothing you said indicates that you intimidate men.

[Anonymous]

They don't know you, so they don't know you're a loner, so all they have to go on is you don't talk much, maybe don't smile? Appear uninterested maybe? Maybe take it as you're unfriendly or unapproachable (you don't want to be). Just reverse it and if a guy you liked was acting how you are, what would be your thoughts? Those are probably his/theirs.

[Freyke]

I am currently trying to embrace that loneliness. I found out that I really like being on my own, however I believe in a healthy balance. Inam not sure if it is the right way but I believe it to be so. See if that works for you as well.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I'm not sure maybe its a self confidence problem. That means also accepting compliments. If you're shy and good looking too many people consider you as being arrogant and snobby, I say that because people thought that of me too.

[secret-admirer-perv]

I know a girl like you. You weird but you are a unicorn. Very desirable. Photos please lol

[MagicCarpet1]

Do you dress like a Lady? If not that might be the problem.

[one1wild00]

Sounds like you are generally average. in the interaction yet are a 9+ in the physical department. that will creat the mismatch you describe.

[Anonymous]

You sound pretty normal to me, but your looks could be intimating guys.

[Anonymous]

I wish more men would stop looking at women so they’d stop being uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Do you like being a loner? Is that why you feel weird not accepting their advances or looks?

[Mothupi]

I like being a loner, not that i don't like people but i prefer being by myself than with them... i used to be with them and being alone works for me better.

[Iron_Man]

No your normal you’re fine