I've been messing around with this guy for almost a year now and things are getting quite serious but I still can't get myself to trust him and he feels betrayed because of that. I asked him to give me more time but he got mad at me and completely ignored me for two days. He came back acting like nothing happened and that maddens me. Everytime I tried to talk about that he completely changes the subject.
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I can't exactly trust him because I'm scared to get attached and he's not the kind of guy you fall in love with or take home to meet your parents. You get?
You have been messing with him for a year, and you can’t trust him. What is making you not to trust him? Why not talk to him about it, and find a solution?
Also, if you want time, you may want to tell him how much time. It wouldn’t be wise to waste his own time…
You may want to sit down and talk to him about that. Explain ALL your fears, and if he loves you, he won’t brush it off. You both have to be open to hearing the truth and compromise. Good luck. 💜
I mean yeah, he would obviously be upset if he is trying his best to impress ya and earn your trust, is there any particular reason why you're not able to trust him? Also it is also not okay for him to ignore ya like that instead he should have talked to ya bout what the matter with ya was, so yk both of ya are messed up lol, instead of askin foe time, talk to him, tell him why you often find it difficult to trust him
Then why would you waste your time "messing" around with someone you couldn't trust or would consider bringing home to your family? It sounds counterintuitive to even do that if you are afraid of getting attached to the guy.
You can't expect a guy to put up with constantly being doubted. What do you need to trust him about anyway? As long as his dick is hard when you need it that should keep you happy.
So, from the other threads you basically have no real reason for not trusting him. His best friend is feeding you crap about him? Well his best friend wants to fuck you ding dong. Geez no wonder your boyfriend is pissed.
What is the reason you can’t trust him? That would be useful for us to give better advice. Something must have happened between the two of you or something in your past.
Trust is so important in a relationship. If you cannot trust him, hard to move forward in a relationship.
I think you’ll have to identify the reasons you don’t have trust and determine if they are fixable. If the answer is no, best move on.
@Katrinbear Maybe you are different to him. You can’t go in thinking like that and you have only heard this about him. Maybe it isn’t true. Who are you hearing it from? If it is his exes they could just be bitter.
Not saying that it is false information but you need to decide that yourself. If you truly feel like you will never be able to trust him, then I would say end it. Trust is soooo important and without it, the relationship is doomed to fail.
I don't know if I'm really that different sometimes he treats me like I'm any other girl then he later treats me like a queen. I mean it's all confusing But his best friend is the one telling me all this and I don't know what to think There's a time I asked him jokingly and he got very offended
@Katrinbear This doesn’t sound good if his best friend is saying this to you. Also, these changes in behaviour are not good signs. He should treat you the way you deserve all the time, not some of it.
If its been a year and you still dont trust him, then there's a problem with one of you. Find out which and remedy it, but dont string him along for another year.
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No sorry. That may make sense to another woman. But it'd piss me off too. And if you said it more than once I wouldn't be coming back like nothing happened. I just wouldn't be coming back. 🙂
You are super immature and do not need to be in a relationship like this at your maturity level. You either trust or you don’t. I would be upset too except I would walk if I was him. I know there’s no room for him in your life. It’s about your folks and you…Not him.
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