My boyfriend refuses to hug me near boss?

[Anonymous]

we work together
We never kissed during work or hugged
I wanted to hug him after work in ghe place where my bosses pass with their cars
And he said :dont hug me, bosses can see
I said:so what? they all know we are together. why are you hiding...
He said:i dont want to hear any comments

[Nawlins34]

On principle, I agree with him.

I disagree with his execution though. Because if he's this serious about it, then don't date co-workers, period.

That said, don't discount/disregard his concerns, if they are the type to do it, they will give him shit about it, stressing him out.

But you can challenge them with logic. Unless you two are in sales and performing above-average, the damage is already done.

They have the leverage they need if you're correct and they "know" already.

if dating co-workers is addressed in the employee handbook and they is an active policy against it, they have leverage to justify not giving a raise, termination, etc.

So, damage is already done.

[Asker]

Well... maybe you are right
Well done is dine... we are dating for 1 year
So

[Asker]

They we are together 1 year
Yes sometumes they make nasty comments but i never heard anything about us
But again... he works for them 17 years and i 4
So i guess
I must listen to him and dont be a spoiled brat?

[crossdressingrihno]

You're not being a spoiled brat but your boyfriend is in the right here

[Nawlins34]

I agree with @crossdressingrihno - that doesn't make you a spoiled brat. You're an observant person, so is he.

If he can explain things with logic and it makes sense, trust him.

Be safe and good luck.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

It's proper workplace etichette - all affections should be private and not exchanged on the workplace.
My wife and I work together too, and we don't exchange affections on the job.

[Asker]

It was on the street
Not work

[Asker]

Do people know she is wife?
Would you not hug her After work on the street in case your boss comes up in his car and sees tou hug or kiss

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

PDA is something that mature people don't do - we are not horny teenagers, we know how to keep those things private.
Of course people know we are married.

[Asker]

I see nothing wrong in it
But ok... i guess i have teenage mentlity...🙄

[libsaretards]

Your boyfriend is totally right. If the boss sees things escalate, he MIGHT start having doubts in the back of his head and a boss having doubts does not bode well for a person's career.

[Fireguy17]

It's probably best to keep all pda away from the work place.

[Asker]

Pda what is

[Fireguy17]

public display of affection, kissing etc.

[RuthlessAggression]

This is why it's NOT ok to date coworkers.

You must respect him though. If you can't, you need to re-evaluate why you're dating him in the first place

[Asker]

But why i can't kiss him

[RuthlessAggression]

It doesn't matter

[Jamie05rhs]

PDAs are unprofessional at work. Keep that stuff outside of the workplace.

[Asker]

We work at the street!!! not even near work

[Jamie05rhs]

What do you mean, "at the street"?

[Asker]

Literqlly outside
Not even near our office

[Jamie05rhs]

"in thehe place where my bosses pass with their cars"

How is that not even near your office?
That doesn't make any sense.

[Anonymous]

I won't mind kissing in front of the boss but I will never hug in front of my parents.

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend is weird.

[Asker]

I know

[crossdressingrihno]

It's a logical thing to do

Sometimes people get a lot of shit for dating a coworker

[crossdressingrihno]

I can imagine how it would be if you're boss seen

[crossdressingrihno]

Might not be bad but not worth finding out

[crossdressingrihno]

"out of sight out of mind" if people see it happen they are less likely to ignore it

[baserunner611]

I hug 🤗

[baserunner611]

Maybe I should say this, is there another girl you don’t know of

[Anonymous]

maybe he afraid of looking unprofessinal?

[Asker]

He is afraid of comments

[Opinion Owner]

how did it make you feel when he not hug you in front of boss?

[Asker]

He never did. isay to hug me on the street

[Opinion Owner]

are you mad at him?

[Asker]

A bit