What man would actually be able to ask out a woman who's kinda detached?

[Steampunkpoohead]

Im sensitive and emotional deep inside but im also detached. I had to be because im very sensitive and emotional and been through a lot which teaches u to detach.

I relate to Skye Sweetnams music... Her vibes. Im not badass but i relate/like her detachment that she expresses.

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Guys dont find me warm ;(

[TommyMountainFigure]

If I was unattached and found you attractive, and there was chemistry there. I would have no problems in asking you out.
Detachment issues might mean there is no chemistry there however, and that would stop me.

[Steampunkpoohead]

I'm a chemistry stopper

[TommyMountainFigure]

You say that, but with the right person for you, say someone who has been through a similar experience, the chemistry between you might be perfect.
My point is, no matter what, through experiences good or bad, there is someone for everyone out there.

[Steampunkpoohead]

I feel you. I can think of one guy acquaintance who there was chemistry with but there was also tension and he just wasn't the guy for me for various reasons.

[Steampunkpoohead]

He had something special about him like i could tell he had a soft side but also he was mainly pretty 'strong' I'd say (I don't know how to describe it). Strong willpower. He didn't just give up.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Tension for someone who has been through traumatic experiences is a definite no no. Someone more laid back and easy going might be the type to go for.

[Steampunkpoohead]

Sounds lovely. Good point. can't handle being around lowkey or highkey mean people even if they claim theyre joking. I don't know who enjoys those type of interactions but i dont. I think a lot of those types of guys are creeps who secretly get off on mentally torturing women with their 'jokes/playing around'.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm all up for a joke and a laugh, but , there are times and certain subjects when its just not appropriate.

[Steampunkpoohead]

I dont want people or any man joking at my expense.

[TommyMountainFigure]

No no. that isn't what I said, or meant. Having a laugh and a joke WITH you, as opposed to about you is what I meant.

[Steampunkpoohead]

Oh... I met lots of guys who laugh at me

[TommyMountainFigure]

Laughing at you for no reason is just childish. Maybe if someone laughed at them perhaps they would get a taste of how it felt and so would think twice before doing that to you.
Thanks for selecting my answer by the way.

[one1wild00]

One that is kind, caring, and patient. willing to work through your detached connection and find the sensitive you inside.

[Steampunkpoohead]

Hmm that sounds great. Wonder how I can tell if a guy is like that.

[one1wild00]

I'd start out with giving a guy who might be getting close a heads up, If he says ok and sticks around he may be worth it.

[Steampunkpoohead]

Sounds like a plan, thanka!

[Adronicus]

One that does not fear rejection. Some of us are fixers & are attracted to damaged types. I was that way for the longest time before I distanced myself.

[FilmGuy93]

Nothing. I wouldn't ask a woman like that in a million years. I don't need the headaches.

[Jamie05rhs]

I've never heard of Skye Sweetnam before, but I really like her music.

She's pretty hot, too!

[Avicenna]

Bold ones

[Steampunkpoohead]

Those usually are after sex

[Avicenna]

Not necessarily. But that’s who isn't deterred.

[Steampunkpoohead]

You mean confident men?

[Avicenna]

Yeah

[Steampunkpoohead]

They seem so rare

[Iron_Man]

A kind man