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This is about the worst question to be asked and not because you asked it but because it needs to be answered. All girls are pretty to not thinks so can damage your self esteem. Guys can tend to be egotistical and arrogant. If someone doesn't tell you your pretty, just remember there is some who will. And as long as you think your pretty isn't that all that matters?
beauty is subjective, it depends on what the guy wants. only if he's shallow if he treats a girl differently, which is sad, should treat everyone with respect; some girls don't choose to be unattractive, we have a tough time as it is trying to look good. lol
This is very true. I struggled with self-esteem issues all my life. I was on both sides thin and plus- sized which I am now. I feel no matter how hard I try to be attractive, I won't never be good enough for soceity's standards.
@ sisterpeg & anonymous, I wish I had your pis. I really do. I'd like to see firsthand if the self esteem issues are warranted or not. Is it possible that you lived your whole life lying to yourself? Telling yourself you're a 5 or a 6 when in fact you're a 7, 8, or a 9?
That would suck! if you're an 8 when you've been telling yourself you're a 4 or 5 or some shit all these years...
In reality...
A) Countless men and women ask you out , or stare at you and smile
B) You've been accepted by a modelling agency
C) You've been told you should be a model
D) Your parents friends are like your son/daughter is so pretty, beautiful, handsome etc
In a perfect world...
You look at yourself in the mirror and say you are , because you said so.
I don't know when you look in the mirror and feel positive about yourself. It doesn't matter what other people think feeling good about yourself is more important. Of course what other people think matters a little but your self esteem is more important. I go from loving myself to feeling like a fat blob lmao but i know its just my moon rilly
Everyone has at least one pretty feature. And I bet you have many. Guys usually don't flirt with extremly hot girls because they get imtimidated. But obviously some guys don't. And you will be pretty to some guys and not so pretty to others. Its the same with everyone else. Most guys seams to be attracted to short curvy girls om this site but a lot of guys like all types of girls.
well I think people find me attractive because I get asked out a lot and guys are really nice to me they always say that I’m pretty and girls have told me I’m pretty as well I also get asked out by older guys (I guess they think I’m over 18) I don’t see why they think I’m pretty because when I look in the mirror I just don’t see it
Often we are overcritical of ourselves. For instance, I'm fairly certain that I'm the only guy with an interest in my current crush. Veeery beautiful.
Sometimes we see ourselves worse than we actually are because of past critism. I grew up in a place we're everyone called me ugly.
I moved and I seem to get a lot more looks and some girls have hit on me where I live now.
Also beauty standard changes with culture/location
Beauty is pretty objective, but I guess an obvious one is when you're told you are pretty or handsome (guys) often. Sometimes attractive people can be intimidating, if they are incredibly good looking it's a little hard to go up and tell them let alone talk to them lol (that's just me though) they may be stunning but not be told often.
you'd get male attention, you'd get compliments, you'd get asked out a lot, you'd get stared at, you'd get stalkers, you'd get treated nicely by men for no reason and not so nicely by women for no reason... lol
Very true! I've experienced all of this and the last one too sadly 😞 still don't know how to deal with it.
Well, keep in mind that 'pretty' doesn't mean 'attractive'. For a gentleman (the only kind of man you consider unless you really love heartbreak) beauty is determined by personality as well as appearance. If a man finds you beautiful, he will probably flirt in a subtle manner, try to befriend you AND YOUR FRIENDS, so that they will recommend him (we know that happens sometimes) and then try pulling off some gesture.
This is the best answer
Thanks.
Really it's the truth, my current crush? Initially doesn't draw one's eyes, but once you mull it over and get a bit of exposure to her as a person... WHHOOOMPH
Smacks you like a sledgehammer.
That happened to me man... i FUCKING cried
I mean every guy is different some guys are shy around pretty girls some guys will automatically pursue a pretty girl, most guys just glance some stare but I would say you could very pretty and many guys won't say anything to you about it because they are kind of intimidated and think you are out of their league even many guys most girls think are attractive.
Guys stare at me but i dont assume its because they find me attractive.. and i dont believe people when they tell me im pretty I don't know why.. i dont see what they see. Unfortunately, I've noticed and seen guys treat pretty girls differently, they’re nicer to them and thats a fact.
Most guys will notice you.
If you don't get told you're pretty, it doesn't usually mean anything. Sometimes it means others are jealous.
Don't worry!
That's very subjective. I'm drawn to who she is first. If she's a horrible person it doesn't matter at all what she looks like.
I've been attracted to women with red, blonde and black hair, short and tall, small or big breasts but personality counts a 1000 percent more.
That's the thing, you don't really know, but pretty is all about perspective, pretty can mean something different to anyone and everyone, some people think goth girls are pretty, some people like preppy girls, etc. But if you want a generalization, societal definition
To me, I am attractive when I feel like I am attractive. So if I look in the mirror and see something positive about myself then my confidence goes up slightly and that makes me feel more attractive. I don’t get many compliments from guys if I am honest but when my girlfriends give me compliments I always feel more confident. I understand some people might not agree with what I’m saying but this isn’t just my personal opinion on myself
You get a fuck ton of attention. Guys and girls. People act weird around you. Drop stuff, stutter etc...
I think it's the most obvious when women openly comment on the way you look, in a negative way. That's because we women have all learnt that it's impolite to make mean comments about someone else's look, but since "she's pretty" it won't hurt her.
guys stare at me? nope. I don't beleive iam pretty or that the people around me think iam.i also believe guys do treat girls different if they are pretty I seen it so many times happen
A pretty person doesn't have to be told their pretty to be pretty. I honestly think that everyone, no matter who you are, can make them selves look beautiful, so I'm sure you are as well <3