Guys, Fight with crush how to do it?

[Anonymous]

I fight with him , after we hook up (we did a lot of time, but this time is different, and he already know my feelings for him) and start to ignore me , I do as well the same thing , I ignored him for 2 weeks , we are in the same friend’s group so we always meet each other.
we start a fight because of this (he begun it) he said to me it doesn’t make sense to him treat him bad or ignore him in front of everyone , he said to me I’m incapable to being indifferent to him.
He tried to make me feel bad about yhis
, saying “are u sure you want to end this friendship? I was expecting different things from you , I respected you, ecc..”he tried to gaslight me.
he wanted to know the reason , always trying to make himself guiltness, I said to him he doesn’t respect people as he believe and need to grow up, he also said he knows the exactly moment I started to “hate him”telling me the moment, even he said he was totally capable of ignore me , even he made a list of bad behaviors I had.
in the end I said , I was angry to him cause he treated me like a whore and I was sick of being treated like garbage by him, he stayed shocked and tried to respond to my affirmation but couldn’t do it, in that moment arrived our friends , and he said that was time to go to bed , when we say bye he said to me “he will finish this conversation”

[Sixgunsound]

Friend benefits generally only benefit the man, due to the emotional differences in the way men and women have sex. You’re already a fallback lay if he can’t get the girl he actually wants; there is no reason for a man to respect a woman who disrespects herself enough to give away the goods for free with no strings attached. Believe him if he says he is capable of letting you go; he already found one woman with low self-esteem and no self respect, he can clearly find another. He isn’t going to date or marry you since you already gave up what he wants, and in his mind if you gave it up for free to him you’ll give it away for free to the next guy too. You’ve friend (with benefits) zoned yourself, and no matter how hard you squeeze you can’t screw your way out of it. The good news is you’re still young enough to cut your losses, dump him and start over with someone who you can set ground rules and expectations of reciprocity with. The worst thing you can do going forward is become bitter and angry at men in general for taking advantage of what you freely gave away, as that is counterproductive for you and unfair to someone who (hopefully!) has as of yet done nothing to you. Learn something from your poor decision to believe feminist propaganda which led you to put yourself voluntarily in a situation where you let yourself get used for free sex, and have higher standards for yourself and your future boyfriend going forward.

[Guy13]

Don’t fight. Both of you focus on Ephesians 5 as it instructs men and women. Marriage and couple counseling, pre Freud, Jung, Rogers, and Enlightenment, originated from Ephesians 5 . Obviously, the Self snd psychology, has proved worthless as it is of man…like it could have been you.

[Iron_Man]

Everybody fights you just have to talk and work it out talking is key

[Nahid1707]

Yea toxic and unhealthy people is never good

[Anonymous]

Blow him, hell forgive anything

[Anonymous]

Time to move on

[In_Trance]

Move on