Is it normal for a guy who feels rejected by you to flirt with your friends as revenge?

[Anonymous]

This has happened to a friend of mine and to me. A guy liked my friend and they were talking, but she didn’t end up having feeling like he liked her. Straight after she told him that, he started trying to flirt with me I think to make her jealous or something. Then later something similar happened to me. Is this normal?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yeah.. People do stuff like that... I remember a girl used another guy to make me feel jealous after I turned her down

[Asker]

It’s so immature.

[serious]

@rockstarrrrr

It’s good you turned her down. That is the best way to teach such immature women a lesson. It’s good you did not tolerate her actions.

Hopefully she learnt her lesson.

These kind of behavior should never be accepted or tolerated because once you do then it will give the license to such women that the jealousy card strategy will work on you so next time they will do that as well.

Surprisingly many women don’t understand that using the jealousy card strategy card doesn’t really work on men and it will backfire on them.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Normal? no.. it's a very childish thing to do... It's like a child who throws their toys out of the pram for not getting it's own way!

[serious]

@TommyMountainFigure

Exactly. Well said.

[treesareold4]

Maybe im not really sure. Maybe he has just moved on. It hard to say

[Asker]

Thanks. It’s just weird that he would choose her friend out of all the girls he could choose from.

[Asker]

To flirt with. And he kept bringing up her name to me

[serious]

No, this is not normal. I don't know why people use this jealousy card to test someone. It is highly immature and naive.

[anylolone]

Not at all. The fact you feel like it's revenge says a lot.

[888theGreat]

yep, and make you think he is sleeping with them

[Anonymous]

Nope.