Would you feel comfortable if it were you?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend is into erotic photography. He is amazing… the thing I used to feel comfortable with him doing his thing i wouldn't care and left him to do his stuff. But lately i’ve been finding photos of chicks wearing his clothes and very intimate (of him too, which he doesn’t like having his pictures taken). Not sex or compromising positions, they just… feel like the ones he used to take of me whenever we were.. done with the ‘deed’. Am I losing my mind? I am not jealous at all but I just found these photos and they just hit me badly. Never felt this way about his photos (they were hidden by the way; found by accident while looking for sth else) they are recent too, around the time a family member of mine passed away and I was grieving. Could you give your opinion? I just don’t have anyone to ask…

[IJhonnyI]

Personally cause of past experiences of mine (been cheating on) I will be a really over caring boyfriend and most likely wouldn't let my girlfriend have guy friends because I wouldn't have girl friends but for your situation I don't know what too tell you honestly I can only answer your question sorry 🙏🏽

[djmzes]

Simple
In love, what will happen is that you do not share your stuff... Whether you like it or not, if you love someone you may say that you are ok with it, but in reality you are not... Your mind and heart does not agree with that... So that it..

[bubblegunnn]

WELL maybe the chicks kinda like ur boyfriend she prolly flirt. Prolly.. but ur boyfriend know he have u and he dont want to show u thts why he keep it low

[greentealatte]

You should confront him about it, although he could lie. Also, have you been there for him since his family member died?

[Asker]

It was my relative who died, not his

[greentealatte]

Oh right, sorry. Has he been there for you? Emotionally.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he is doing it for a change of pace? But the fact that they were hidden is not good, so you need to ask him about this.

[Guy13]

Yep, that kind of discovery is painful.

[Guy13]

It’s not about You though. You’re just another model. You can’t really get upset since you let him do his thing… They sort of sound like Trophies 🏆 to me…. visual reminders.

[Asker]

Well the thing is that it is only these few photos I found of this particular ‘model’. There is a big difference (the only one he actually has where the chick is not naked) but they are just so intimate it’s uncomfortable to look at them. And I have seen tons of them of other models and naked and beautiful and never felt like with these recent ones. There’s something off…