Give him time to himself, but also go up to him and give him long hugs too.
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I'd say your emotions are okay so long as you help him get back on track.
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Well i never feally grieved and for some reason my family was telling me i should hurry and say goodbye , im not they type to watch someone die and that nite out of knowwhere it rained 6 inches in 2 hours and flooded my house almost like she did not want me to see her that way and for years I was kicking myself in the ass , some people it may take years for them to grieve or they might not grieve at all. All you can really do is be there for him or get the family together and has a party and celibrate him moms life because its not about him its about her so celibrate her life and never forget her
Give him space. Lots of it, for a while. He will be both angry and sad, and though that anger might come out on you, know that it’s not directed towards you, it’s his frustration with the world/God/fate/whatever.
Men don't universally mourn the same just because we share a gender. He isn't in the right headspace so I wouldn't take it personally. I would just flat out ask how can I best be here for you.
It’s hard to say, everyone is different, my mom passed 17 years ago and my wife at the time became a bit distant instead and things changed because my mom always kept her in a better mood because they were close too , seems my mom made my marriage last but afterwards it wasn’t the same, I wasn’t mean to my wife though, just needed time and space
How was the relationship between him and his mom? I lost both of my parents at different times. I know what he is going through
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