Guys, Do you get jealous of men who are in relationships with women dressed like this?

[Anonymous]

If you were out and you saw a guy with a wife/girlfriend who was dressed like this would you get jealous and want her to be yours instead?

No I Don't.

Yes I Do.

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Guys Thank you all for your helpful responses, I was asking this because I grew up being taught by society that men envy men who have hot girlfriends who dress "sexily" or seductively if you may, so now I have a clear understanding that this is not true, most men do not get jealous of other men's sexy, seductively dressed wives/girlfriends.

[Texaskid1]

When I was younger yes.

But with experience I have come to realize that most very attractive women are a major pain in the ass. They might be good for a weekend here and there but for a long term relationship a a decent 7 is the way to go. I have spoken to and observed women who are 9's and 10's and they always seemed a little off to me ; spoiled , ditzy , immature. I think they realize they are hot and so do not need to do much to get anything so they never develop much of a personality or any hobbies or interests. The very few who have some brain power realize that their beauty will fade with time and some will be more interesting but these ones are rare.

Also , these women are human. When we see them like this we are seeing them at their best - all nice and clean and pristine and dolled up. But keep in mind she wakes up in the morning and needs to clean her body just like the rest of us. Underneath that beauty you will find internal organs, body fluids, bacteria , fecal mater being formed in the intestines , urine accumulating in the bladder , etc.

Is always necessary for all men to knock women off their pedastool - this way you humanize them and do not think of them as some type of perfect deity - this is tough in Western culture since we are taught to worship women and think of them as saints who can do no wrong.

My two cents.

[Asker]

In my teen years I was a 9 and a 10 I got a lot of attention from men older than me and around my age group, I was considered one of the Hot girls in school because of this I became wayyy to concerned with what others thought of me, It hindered my ability to truly be myself and express my quirks because I always wanted the world to see me as the hot girl. I wore all the tight short stuff to gain more excessive from men and I loved ever bit of that attention!.

As I got older Life taught me a valuable lesson, I stopped being hot, I became cute, I experienced cystic acne, and I gained weight so alllll the attention I got from men disappeared, Guys started giving their attention to the other hotter girls as i watched, this felt heart wrenching at first but i got used to it, also thanks to that I became more free to express my true personality I became my true unfiltered self and to my surprise my personality attracted a lot of great people, I have had so much fun so far while being my true self.

If feels so freeing to be real and to respect yourself, I began hating unnecessary attention I now happily dress very modestly and comfortably, and I am more in tune with my religion as a result of this experience, may be my God made me endure this as a way to bring me closer to him and as a way to make me more spiritual and freee and i am eternally thankful for that. Thank you so much for your response i enjoyed reading it and i felt like sharing this with you, i hope you do not mind.

[Asker]

And you are very right, you spoke the absolute truth in your response, i completely agree with you!. you hit the needle on the head as they say.

[Texaskid1]

Not a problem.

[Man-O-Metal]

Actually quite the opposite. Lemme just put it like this. If I saw my girlfriend/wife coming out of the house and about to get into my car wearing that little, the only thing I would say to her is, “oh! I didn’t know you got a second job at a strip club!” Seriously, if any guy gets jealous, he doesn’t look at women with respect. And ladies come on! If you dress like that you’re just putting on a tease session for other guys! Have some respect for yourself and for your man! You may say “but I’m dressing for my man.” Well if you want to look nice for him that’s fine, but you’re really just making yourself the center of attention when exposing that much of yourself. You shouldn’t want or need attention from anyone else other than your significant other. Couples should only have eyes for each other. So stop dressing in a way that makes guys, both single and attached, look at you the way only your significant other should.

[Anonymous]

no I don’t Girls like that don’t Like the way they look and are never Satisfied with themselves or life
They want attention 24/7 girls like that don’t have any muscle and Have Weak bones 🦴 and will eventually get Old and Saggy and will develop back problems because of having weak bones 🦴weak joins working out increases bone and joint strength and to them being weak and having small arms is Attractive and getting old and saggy and having age spots that will be the worst thing that has ever happened to them and it’s just a body And after physical death No Spirit will give these girls any attention spirits will just see these Girls as ignorant self righteous and underdeserving of peace and girls like that will be reincarnated or they will be Be Erased from existence after physical death because they don’t deserve To exist and take existence for granted
I know I look good I like the way I look I don’t crave attention I wouldn’t even have sex with a Girl that Looks like and Dressing up like that Is a total Turn off girls like that have Sexual Diseases and they infect men and men die by having sex with girls like that girls like that are afraid of aging and are ugly without there makeup and look a lot older without the makeup they use makeup to hide how old they really look My sister looks like those Girls and she is ugly without her makeup she has no Real beauty of her own
These girls have no real beauty of there own they were given the shitty genetics 🧬 that gave them shitty appearance that they know they have.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

No, because that's cheap, overdone, and unkempt. I prefer modest girls. Why would I be jealous of a guy that has a girl who shows her bits to everyone?

Girls like this are a billion times better

Vintage and Classy

[Joker_]

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[SteveSmith1985]

Nooo! haha, oh wow no. Exactly the opposite. I'd get second-hand embarrassment for the guy. I

can't speak for everybody... but I would NEVER want my girlfriend or wife to dress like that. Are you kidding? These... are not what I would call 'girlfriend material. Some no-strings fun, sure, but girlfriend? Hell no.

[Whatever2929292]

No I am not. If a woman is dressing for... that kind of attention (and not saying they are) then the problem is that she isn't just into that person that she is with...

I have no opinion really to be honest with you. There is no point in being jealous especially having bad feelings towards someone you don't know and has never done anything to you... It is really kind of pathetic

[Ευδεμονια]

I sincerely think if a man is engaged with a girl (un) dressed like this, probably he doesn’t provide her the minimum satisfaction (not in a sexual way), since she is dressed like this obviously to attract the attention and the sight of other men. Also probably if she’s dressed like this, she’s an attention seeker and I don’t suffer them.

[Reaper1985]

no because I prefer dating a female who dresses in a more modest or conservative manner while in public. a female shouldn't need to dress in a provocative manner just to look or feel attractive. when a more modest outfit can be figure flattering and still highlight her attractiveness well. rather she save the provocative clothing for more private encounters.

[NoUsernameSelected]

What kind of relationship?
I mean if I were out to party and have a good time with such a girl it would probably be great. I don't know about more than that, though I don't know if I ever find that girl that I would want to marry in the first place. So in all honesty, this maybe as good as it gets.

So yes. I'd be jealous if I didn't have a girlfriend.

[TruthBringer]

No, I actually feel sorry for them considering they are dating a woman who clearly feels the need to showcase herself to the rest of the world rather than conserve herself for her man in private. It also tells me they got no backbone.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'm used to that.
Many of our ageing customers find it appropriate to be seen with their personal hooker
(usually introduced as ''my girlfriend'' - name left aside)

[Asker]

Talk about brutality😳.

[andreasderjuengere]

Brutes deserve a brutal response.

[Anonymous]

Those women are trying WAY TOO HARD! Plus, if we’re dating and they’re dressing like that, it’s a clear sign that they’re advertising for their next prospective relationship. My immediate response is that they would be exhaustingly high maintenance and probably have an attitude to boot. No thanks.

[Miristheiss]

Fools crave that.
Wise men know those women are no good.

[ChrisMaster69]

No not at all and nothing really wrong with the outfits.

The first n second are fairly common, with 2nd being mild.

why get jealous of someone else.

[Lionman95]

No because that's women that look like that show me with their outfit that they are either not interested in a relationship or they don't match to my lifestyle.

[jshm2]

Nah. Because few women actually look good in that getup.

In most cases it's just desperation to keep the mans attention. Rather than any attempt to look classy.

[boggboss]

No lol as I wouldn't want my partner to dress that provocative so I would have my happy glance and walk on

[ethanallen]

Three things every guy should look up in response to this question. 1. Are you Red Pill Aware? 2. THOT 3. Hypergamy

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I’ve had relationships with girls like that and I’d rather date more conservative or old-fashioned or classy women from now on.

[Oigit]

Nope, because women like that are nice to look at and fun for a night. But not the kind of woman I'd want to be in a relationship with.

[smølf]

Any man wants a hot woman, but it's not how she dresses that makes the difference. Besides most men prefer their wives to dress moderately for others and only sexy for them.

[Kaneki05]

Of course I am jealous of a guy been with a hot girl. Don't really matter what there wearing could be naked, I would still be jealous don't really see what clothes has to do with it.

[Kaneki05]

Think you'll find a commonality between guys who say they don't get jealous but also are sexist even just looking for moment you can tell that's the thoughts of many of these guys. Saying stuff like women who dress up are sluts and whores.

[Asker]

great point but i mean a majority of these comments are men who say they don't stare and that women who dress like this are unattractive because clothing like this is inappropriate in public and only appropriate in private. I literally read every comment.

[Kaneki05]

Yes, and they be the ones who are sexist and conservative minded. Who think women should be dictated to only wear clothes that are not revealing. Just there is a lot of them on here sadly. Which is scary to think about honestly. Sexists didn't die in 1950s like they should of.

[Kaneki05]

The best part about is they will be the most jealous but in denial lol.

[Asker]

I disagree with you, saying women should dress modestly in public is not sexist, its only conservative. I actually wish it were a rule that both men and women should dress modestly in clothing that cover up their bodies in public but since this is a free world, everyone should be allowed to wear what ever they want even if its public indecency.

[Asker]

us humans historically did things right our ancestors were right to say women must cover up their bodies when they get dressed for being in public spaces because this is a form of self respect and respect for others, if you wear reveling stuff in public what about all the kids looking at your exposed breasts and exposed butt cheeks, what about the strangers who you don't know who are looking at your exposed body... but hey each to their own.

[Asker]

You are wrong, not every man who likes women who dress conservatively will get jealous when they see a girl in revealing clothing in public, because they know that those women who dress conservatively in public are not shy to dress sexy for their men in private.

[Kaneki05]

There is reason why women aren't allowed to vote, own property in the same time they weren't allowed to dress how they like. That's all sexist dictatorship if you think that is acceptable then go over to the west find the Taliban and happily join them. They will be very happy to conserve you into modest wears.
If you don't see how conservatism is just the same as sexist you've never looked at the 1950s or any parts of the past or the west.

[Asker]

look this has nothing to do with politics, we are discussing clothing preferences, dressing is not a form of oppression what conservative people are saying is that there is a time and a place for everything, in public wear clothes that cover up and in private wear what ever the heck you like. how is that oppression? so are you saying that society should be nudists because according to you appropriate clothing is a form of oppression so from now on humans of all ages should be able to walk around naked anywhere they want, is that what you want, you wanna see strangers you don't know completely nude while grocery shopping and while dining at a restaurant...

[Asker]

@kaneki05 you are disappointing me as a fellow Gen z!😞

[Kaneki05]

Shrugs if you cannot see the connection that's not my problem. Just don't be surprised when you try like a guy and all he does is judge you. Also women can be sexists themselves ingraining it into themselves. Toxic femininity.
It's super oppressive to force women into clothes just because it shows some skin.

[Asker]

No hun you are wrong in this situation no one is forcing anyone to do nothing, a woman can wear what ever she wants, the men her are simply saying that dressing provocatively in public is not appropriate. I already explained why it is not appropriate,

All humans are judgmental we were born to judge it helps promote our survival, you judge too yourself, and usually the judgements we make are correct, women who wear revealing clothing in public are for the most part attention seekers because they know if they dress that wayy a lot of people will look, eyes were made to wander and look and they know this that's why they wear revealing clothing in public.

People do not frequently stare at the women who cover up or dress modestly as much as they stare at the women who wear revealing and provocative clothing. I asked the women who wear provocative revealing clothing in public why they dress that way and they said "because I get attention from a lot of men for it and because getting the attention makes me feel great about myself".

They said 'i don't dress modestly or I don't cover up because if I do I get cast aside, ignored and no one pays any attention to me". So there ya go! this is why in strip clubs they make them wear the most revealing outfits ever its because sex sells and sex grabs a lot of attention and stares.

[Asker]

here

[Kaneki05]

Judging a woman for been whore just cause she dresses hot is judging in all the wrong way's and yes this has literally been forced onto women many times to wear stuff they don't want and etc. Did you know it was once illegal for women to show ankles? Because it wasn't decent. That's the mindset you idiots have from sexist views like this. In all history it has never been a good thing to judge a woman based on what she wears.
End of.

[Asker]

Some of us women love to cover up in public because we do not want any one looking at us for showing skin as you say, we don't want their attention but in private we dress sexy and provocatively for our men alone and they love it, it makes them feel special that they are the only ones who get to see us like that, and that's what we want we want our partners to feel special because to us they are!. and we want attention only from them not from strangers in public no thanks!.
Sooo my love if you want girls who dress provocatively in public go for it Lol! do you and Goodluck with it.

[Kaneki05]

Never said women couldn't dress modest if they want. So your last point here don't matter to anything I said lol.

[Asker]

I can tell you mean well, I think you see the men who say they prefer women who dress modestly or who cover up in public to be sexist but that's not the case, the men here are simply answering my question they are saying that they do not get jealous of men who have gfs/wives who dress this way because most women who dress like this are attention seekers and they are right most women who dress that way are attention seekers.

Some men in the comment section called them whores, etc because in their defense most women who dress this way refer to themselves as thots, bad bitches so can you blame the men who said women who dress this way are whores... no you can't. we all know that women who dress provocatively are mostly strippers, porn stars, only fan content creators, Instagram models, hookers, attention seekers etc. This is their attire that sets them apart, therefore if you dress like them as a woman you are asking to be seen as one of them i mean why dress up as a police officer if you don't want to be seen as a police officer...

[Kaneki05]

Yeah yeah you keep sticking up for the sexist guys who want a doll who does whatever they say. And judge anyone based on looks.

[Asker]

This is not a personality question its a clothing preference question they said they wanna be with women who cover up in public, they never said they force the women they are with to cover up in public, there are women out here who love dressing modestly as a clothing preference and the guys here in the comment section go for those women that's what they said.

[Kaneki05]

I don't think you understand the most important part is judging a woman just based on what she wears. That's what they are all doing "I'm not attracted to sluts" but anyway I am done with this. I cannot be bothered to argue more with a person who defends lowlifes who judge a woman just because she likes revealing clothes.

[Asker]

I told you the answer in the previous comment as to why people judge based on how you dress, I'm not going to repeat myself your only 21 so I will cut you some slack, one day you're gonna turn 25 and all this will make sense to you heck it may even start making sense to you at 24. But I know one day you'll get it, life will be your greatest teacher.

[Kaneki05]

I will never be a person who judges a girl based on how they dress. I am not a sexist dick.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, being taken is a huge turn off, and any woman who goes out in public with no underwear on is not going to have a clean vagina.

[AviatorTom]

If I saw a guy with a woman dressed like this, I'm thinking he's paying her a lot for a fun night.

[HighValue]

No, I'd think she is trash and not want her at all.

[Nalix]

The value of a relationship is more than her appearance, though there's no denying that I want my woman to look nice, or even turn heads.

[Swordnen]

I envy myself that I am not in relationship with those girls, they bring problems

[nisnaia]

To each their own haha. I'll look at their women but that is it.
I've been with girls who dress like that too so nothing to be jealous of.

[FilmGuy93]

Jealous? No. I usually feel bad for those guys. I know what it's like to date those women.

[Hominem]

Cela me donne envie de vomir et vomir et vomir à l'envie, BBBEEEEUUUURRRRRKKKKK!

[Asker]

English please?

[Wraith_Cemetery]

@Asker He's saying that girls like that make him want to puke a lot.

[Asker]

@Wraith_Cemetery ahhhhhh thank you!

[Anonymous]

No. Quite frankly I'm inclined to feel bad for them. Her body apparently is for all men to look at, it's not just for him. I don't see an issue with consensual cuckholding but you could argue they're like visually cucking him lol.