What does it mean if guy has talked about our situation to his best friend (he basically dumped me/rejected me)?

[Anonymous]

I didn’t know that our thing was soo significant to him that he had to share it with his friend. We never we’re an couple. We just talked and met once.

[spartan55]

How do you know he has talked to him about that?

[Asker]

Through another person.

[spartan55]

First of all, that's a very unreliable source of info. Second, dudes don't talk about that stuff

[Asker]

I’m very sure about that. So what would cause guy to do that?

[spartan55]

I really doubt it was discussed, but suit yourself.

[Asker]

Why are you denying it when I know for a fact that it was discussed?

[spartan55]

But you don't know it for a fact. 'Through another person' is NOT fact.

[Asker]

by the way I have another question. Can you please answer to it?

[spartan55]

Sure, what's that?

[Asker]

He did a double take/second glance on me as soon as he saw me during first date. Still he didn’t want second date. Why? Because I was ugly? Then why did he do a double take…?

[spartan55]

I answered this already A LONG time ago. The dude wasn't diggin you, why can't you let it go?

[Asker]

But why did he do a double take? I don’t understand that….

[spartan55]

I don't know, wasn't sure it was you? Who knows. Why does it matter?

[Asker]

It does matter. I want to know if he rejected me because of my looks or something else

[spartan55]

Lol, you know don't get those answers. You are acting like you are entitled to his entire reasoning. What was the reason he gave for dumping to begin with?

[Asker]

Misunderstandings/communication issues

[spartan55]

Okay, so why can't you accept that and stop digging for more reasons that I really doubt are out there.

[spartan55]

So misunderstandings and communication issues were a problem after the first date?

[Asker]

I feel like if there was attraction you would think that he would’ve been willing to work on those things?

[spartan55]

No, that's not how it works.

[Asker]

We had communication issues before that. We texted for months before we met

[spartan55]

So, you are carrying on and on about this, reposting about it, etc, and you went on ONE DATE with the guy? You seem obsessed and unstable.

[Asker]

by the way what did you mean by this ” No, that's not how it works”

[In_Trance]

nothing

[Anonymous]

He is pussy...

[Asker]

How?