I used to want a man who was really "friendly" or outgoing, funny, "communicative" and a straight shooter and who takes his work seriously to every detail.
Now my new boss is pretty much like that. But after a few weeks i am just seeing the other side of these traits and it's ugly. He never stops talking, seems narcissistic, barely listens if i have something to say, etc. And he's very obsessed with his work. I used to criticize managers in the past who were lax and think oh they need to be more focused etc. Nah. Nevermind! My new boss is so obnoxiously obsessed it comes off really annoying like he has no life or understanding of others. Like almost like he has aspergers or something.
Thats the gist i guess of my post. But honestly im glad i met people like 'my ideal' husband cause now i know to lac my ridiculous standards a bit because i do not want to be with a man like this! Very self centered. I want a man who actually thinks about me and how i feel each day.
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