So I’ve had a sneaky link situation going on for over a year now we both agreed to just sex and said we would see where it goes. I’m very quiet and it takes me a long time to warm up to people so even though I’m somewhat comfortable with him I haven’t opened up all the way. My partner has told me it’s annoying at times that I still act shy towards him and I understand that but for some reason I can’t open up and he has tried several times to get me to but long story short because of this he believes that I’m uninterested. Anyways fast forward recently we were talking about feelings and I was scared to say how I really felt so I said I didn’t have any but after he said that he did and basically wanted things between us to get better and I agreed. Fast forward again I feel like he’s not putting enough effort in and now I’m confused I don't know if it’s because he still feels I’m uninterested or is it because he didn’t really mean it. Despite us having our little isssues we have these periods where we talk everyday see each other every week and then it just stops out of nowhere for a few weeks and It’s things like this that makes me believe he didn’t mean what he said. I do like him but I am also cool with what we have now and I’m not trying to force anything and we’ve already been sleeping with each other for over a year so I don’t see the reason to lie but his words don’t match his actions so what do y’all think am I being played? I’m just confused and need advice.
Sneaky link for a year how do I talk to him? any tips on being myself and opening up more? Should we just call it quits?
