Honestly why does this guy talk about me & him (reminencing about us) so much?

[Anonymous]

Long story short

I had a huge thing for him. He liked me back. But because of insecurities/shyness we BOTH didn't talk to each other in person.

He asked me out, I rejected. And vice versa when I decided to muster up the courage.

Now 6 years later same guy writes/talks about us. How I wanted to get to know him better before we date! (What's wrong with that) (maybe he just wanted to pus?

Anyway, it's been like 6 years. I've moved on & so did he. Yea i still think about him sometimes but it's just weird how he acts and never gives me a chance when I do reach out to him. He deff strung me along for like 4 years. And I was apparently just an ego boost to him. So why did he seek revenge and critique me years ago?

This doesn't make any sense to me. Dude is never going to talk to me or give me any chance AND THATS OKAY... I wish I can tell him to just stop talking about me then

What's his deal?

[spartan55]

So you never talked to him either that whole time, yet it's all HIS fault for 'stringing you along'? Wth are you talking about? How do you string someone along when you don't even communicate? So I guess you don't have any fault in how things turned out?

[Asker]

Never said I was off the hook.
However when I tried to work things out he ignored. I heard and see him still talking about our interactions. I'm just confused whyyyy talk about it? Especially for years and down the road. That has me puzzled and I don't know what to do. He strung me along because he made it seem like he's into me.
When he rejected then okay. I move on. Then he's mad I moved on. Like wtf does he want. Seems like maybe it's just some type of game to me

[spartan55]

Lol, he can talk about whatever he wants. You seem to imply that he shouldn't talk about your interactions. Why do you have to 'do' anything about it? Who cares what he talks about? You girls always demand to 'understand' everything regardless if it's relevant or not. Sometimes there is nothing else to understand. When you are at that point then it's time to let it go.
I don't know if your first sentence about not being off the hook was your way of taking responsibility?

[Asker]

The thing is dude still talks about me years after the fact. Does he want me or not
I guess I'll continue not to do anything than and go on my merry way!

[spartan55]

Sounds like a good idea.

[20yearsolder]

Evidently he didn't move on, maybe he's never had any experience since then and that's the only thing he can reminisce about. Hell I don't know