On good terms yesterday and now my friend did he looked annoyed talking to me. I don’t know him well enough to ask him why?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this guy at my college I like in class almost everyday making small talk. It’s a little awkward because I have to walk across the room to go talk to him but yesterday we had a really good conversation and I thought we really clicked and got to know each other better. Today when I went over it was a little awkward but we still talked and I enjoyed it but after my friend told me that he looked annoyed when I went up to him. She wants me to go after another guy who’s he knows so I don’t know if she’s being honest or just trying to dyne other guy. I don’t know him well enough to ask and I’m always scared to try to talk to him outside of class. What do I do?

[Guy13]

Tell me i am getting this right. You like this guy enough to make an effort. You have spoken ans you feel like there is a connection. Now, because there is one time that he could be in the middle of something and he does not respond how your girlfriend thinks... you are going to change your whole approach?

To me, chasing another guy to get another guy you like to respond is the advice of someone who is trying to divide you and the guy you actually like. If I was the guy you liked and i saw or had a sense that you were playing these kinds of games, then I would be out of there.

Does this make sense?

[Anonymous]

Well, you need to talk to him and see what's up.

[Asker]

I mean I’ve talked to him about 5-6 times but I don’t know him well enough to just talk him and ask him if he’s upset with me.