How do I deal with being hot and men not seeing past that they see me as a body not dateable?

[Reallysezzxygir]

I am attractive and maybe even sexy... I am a fantasy material even though i dress normal and hide my body. I wanna be a wife though

[SueShe]

First, you should change your account name because you obviously draw attention to your name when you state that you are a really sexy girl. Despite the slight change in orthograph, it is basically the message you want to bring across.

Now, if you behave the same way in real life as you do on this site, then you should not be surprised if men address you the way they do.

If you want men to see you past your physical attributes, then you should seek discretion and not highlight it.

If you walk in the streets with 2 pounds of make-up, try next time not to put any make-up on and wear baggy clothes that hide your shape. That way, you can rest assured that men will not pay attention to you.

But is it really what you want?

[MrCommodore]

I'm sure plenty of guys will also like you personality and how you behave too, not merely view you as an object. Learn how to weed out the guys just after your body.

[TheSpaceGnome]

How you acomplish that, depends on what your hobbies and interests are, as thats what causes a mental bond.

[Stevefiveo]

Guys love sexy wives. You will find someone.

[In_Trance]

You've been doing it for 29 years you're already dealing with it

[Alex8736]

Can you be more specific?

[kareka]

You wanna be super hot to attract guys?